We have been dating for 2 months...we had an awesome date on tuesday of last week...planned on seeing each other this sunday, he was texting me all week about how excitied he was to see me and spend time with me...Sunday rolls around, and he never calls, finally texts me at 11 at night to tell me he is sorry and out a the bars with his friend. I ignored the text...but sent one back today, he has yet to respond again. Dont know what to think. Its hard for me to think that all week he was calling me sweetie, honey, talking about how much he likes me and then just nothing on Sunday....what do you think? And dont say its another girl? I just need a guys advice, do you do this often? What would you want a girl to do in the situation...call you or just wait for you? I only talk to him once a day if that, and see him 1-2 times a week. Guys advice would be nice on what I do from here?
2006-09-11 08:50:46 · 13 answers · asked by Belize 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he is being selfish. But I would bet that he does not see the situation as you do..he probably thinks it is no big deal that he went with a friend (that no doubt pressured him into a night with the guys) He will not know how you feel unless you tell him (and even then you really have to spell it out) Men are not intuitive about these things at all. Just tell him that you are a little pissed that he waited til the last minute to break your plans, that if he is not considerate in the future that you might not include him in your plans.
2006-09-11 08:58:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, He did this the wrong way and you two need to talk about it. He is most likely telling the truth it sounds like. That does not make the fact that he stood you up right. Him and you need to spend time with your friends also not just each other and i know that is what you said that you were not seeing each other and on the phone constant. He should've called and told you something about the people came over and he could not get out of going and to make it up to you later. At leat you are not lying to each other. You do not give an idea what you do but imagine that a few of your friends came over and wanted you to run see some show with them what would've happened when the girls kept on at you to go. Tell him what you think he should've done. If this cannot come to an agreement then maybe you should just be friends and enjoy some casual time together and see if it works back to what you have now.
Why are all you girls picking on us? Just cause the guys come over and drag him to the bar and he can't say no? Maybe she can use some of that teaseing that girls can do and get more of what ever she wants out of him.
2006-09-11 16:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am not a guy, and don't ever be stupid enough to ask for one I am not a feminist but the only advise you are going to get from them will be to tell you go naked to his house
So hear this
he got chicken, he start to worried that he is feeling somthing for you
now you will not show that you are needy, you will act like a lady
and be cool
if he text you again you talk to him like you are not hurt
you will be nice (if he inthe past talk to you about his family ask for them even if you don't give a chit) you will ask him if had a good time with his body with out been acidy about it
you will say you knwo you could have call and told me that you could not see me on Sunday it would have been Ok (of crouse that is a lie)
Girl a lady lie, a lady pretent
and when we don't like the guy we jus t walk away without been nasty
Now just be patient and wait for his text
and you be sweet
but most of all get ready to give a good *** kicking in the future
if he dare act like a jerk again
2006-09-11 16:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on.Your young and he has other things in life and others to see be smart and know that you are not his first or his last.Bars are the enemy not him so forget him and move on or you will get hurt lots more ,have done this many times and had 3or 4 on the go at once and never got caught at all because the girls never gave up on me until l really got rid of them and had to tell them,much later on .G"L
2006-09-11 15:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by pirateron 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What he did was rude and inconsiderate. If you let him do this now, he'll think it's okay to treat you like you're second rate. He found a way to text you ALL WEEK, and coudn't find a way to text you when he went out with friends? It wouldn't be a big deal except you had PLANS with him that night! I would talk to him about it...and if he keeps treating it like he did nothing wrong...I'd dump him.
2006-09-11 15:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUMP him, he's a loser!!!You can do much better than him, any man that chooses his friends over a PLANNED date is a piece of crap, get rid of him!
2006-09-11 15:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by (....^^^^^^.....^^^^...) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So he didn't call--big deal...When he is ready, he will. Men don't see the urgency in returning phone calls and always take their time. Don't be nasty or brush him off just yet.
2006-09-11 15:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm not a guy but do the same thing to him. obviously he wants a girlfriend just to have one. if he truly liked you he would not have forgotten. he pretty much just said to your face my friend is more important to you.
2006-09-11 15:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i;m not answer this now BC you ask for a guy advice so be it HE:S CHEATED ON YOU DUMP HIM< MOVE ON
2006-09-11 15:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called , he will leave you hanging again, don't trust him
not all men do that .... just those who get away with it ...
2006-09-11 16:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by E.M. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋