Family & Relationships - 9 September 2006

are there any pitfulls in having a toy boy as a partner we are realy in love but the age gap worries me. I am 56 and he is 31. In the past i thought it should not be allowed but now I have joined the club so please do not give any answers such as that because you never know it could be you next

2006-09-09 02:12:51 · 18 answers · asked by raymag3550 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfried and i have been together for about a year and a half, he told me he didnt want to break up, but he will be open to try new things, so im not sure our relationship will gradually grow apart. What should i do? Please help!

2006-09-09 02:11:36 · 17 answers · asked by motocross x05 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend broke up a few weeks ago after dating for 6 months as my girlfriend felt that she wanted to live her own life.I agreed with a heavy heart and after weeks I met her again yesterday.It was strange the way she talked to me,I tried talking to her normal.It was like talking to her for the first time.Then,she told me she missed me and kissed me.I was stunned..now what's the meaning of this after what we decided on splitting up?

P.S.I still love her

2006-09-09 02:08:42 · 19 answers · asked by Remus L 2 in Singles & Dating

hi there, i haf a boyfren for over 4 years & lately i've been finkin' of another guy.. i'm a nurse & i haf this HUGE crush on a doctor that works at the same place as me. im 23 & i fink he's in his mid 30s..i know nothing will happen as i suspect he's married wif kids..not only dat i haf a boyfren whom i adore (i need a slap)..i jus feel so guilty when i fink of him (the doctor)..he (the doctor) comes in to my workplace 2-3 times a week & on the days when i know hes comin in, i make more of an effort to make sure my makeups on right & i even make sure im wearin' cutesy underwear..i feel like such a loser cos i know nothing will happen..not that im planning on cheating..i don't know how he (doctor) feels about me as its always professional when we talk..& hes got sucha cute smilee...oh my god..wat am i finkingggggggg

2006-09-09 02:08:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my girlfriend are a very close couple (we're both 17), and were best friends for 3 years before we got together. Now, we've been a couple for almost 2 months and things have gone from rocky to rather good, as we took a while to adjust between being just friends to "lovers", as such.

Lately, at school, my girlfriend seems to strive on "fake flirting" with other guys literally WHENEVER I'm there. It's totally unlike her, too, but it's really, really annoying and embarassing for me. I'm not really the jealous type, but too much fake flirting with basically all of my friends is getting on top of me.

For example, she'll state "We've got an open relationship, which means we can go off with anybody we want." I know she's joking, but, why would she keep saying it? Does she want my attention? A reaction?

I trust her 100% - she'd never cheat, and when I asked her about it, she said it was "harmless" and she was just "joking". Should I chill out or should I be feeling how I am?

2006-09-09 02:07:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone turn over our outhouse AGAIN and I think she is in there or at least I hear something cursing.

2006-09-09 02:06:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

:-)

2006-09-09 02:06:53 · 18 answers · asked by fairydust 2 in Friends

Its 7 years, I started a relation with a guy who was very helpful for me & my family including my husband. we two are different religion, still as best family friends we spend time sharing our interest but later it happends to me or I could say he started it..... my instincts move to him, i am a mother of 5 and an ailing husband. My friend came very close to me and we forget ourselves..,, we broke the fence between us and its happened ...still even we know it should not be.

Besides, my friend is not so handsome but have a very soft heart towards everybody. He is married, 20 years without children and his wife my friend too, is older than him. Now I doubt he had another girl in his life, who is younger than me and his wife... I feel very upset even I know I am doing wrong....I enjoy 100% sex with hm for the last 7 years which I did not get frm my husband. I feel jelaz with his new lady. What should I do now? Should I forget him for ever or I will keep the relation same as b4???

2006-09-09 02:05:37 · 14 answers · asked by love69 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-09 02:05:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-09 02:05:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 3 years and she wanted to take a break but she still loves me. I know the reasons for the break which are because she wants to think but also because we havn't had much time alone to talk or anythign and I know that hurt the relationship. tonight we are going to a concert in Philadelphia. We are going to be spending the whole day together. I want to just have fun and be her friend but I also want to be romatic like its our first date all over again. So I am going to just be myself the guy she fell in love with. We are just going to do somethings have fun and go to the concert. I am thinking of holding her during a song that is special to both of us and singing it to her. Also I want to give her one red rose at the end of the night and depending on how things go a kiss good night. Should I do the things to be romantic or just have them ready and if things feel right just go with it. I know she is the one for me and I want her to feel the same again.

2006-09-09 02:00:58 · 15 answers · asked by jsnpasty 1 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be X-wife & I have been married for 24 years and have six children, and 4 still at home. She said she fell out of love with me 6 years ago and knew she would leave me eventually. She left 3 months ago. She was and is having an affair for the last 2 years with a co-worker. She did not work outside the home during our marriage. She took care of all of us. Our life was great. We were best friends. We were involved in church. As the church grew so did its power struggles. In short, we were ask to leave. We started drinking and feeling sorry for ourselves because of the rejection from the community. We relocated and continued to drink. Now today I havent had a drink for 90 days, and feel great. She still drinks and lives with her boyfriend ( who is married and has 3 kids). I have changed because of not drinking and because I want to be a good dad for my kids that are left here to raise. She wants to see them and I do not want the kids near That life style anymore. Help!

2006-09-09 01:59:13 · 30 answers · asked by james.ampmerch 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years. In this time I have been accused me of cheating for several reasons. He said I dress to sexy. He feels that I must need male attention for some reason. He feels that I flirt to much. Even if I do not even speak to anyone else he feels I flirt with my eyes, I have a male friend that in the past we did have a sexual relationship but this was years ago. I have been friends with this man for 20 years. My boyfriend is so jealous that when he asked me if I still speak to my friend of 20 years I lied and said no. My boyfriend listened to my voicemail and found out that I lied, thus reinforcing to him that I am not trustworthy. I tried to explain that the reason I lied is because of all his past accusations. I have never cheated on him. We were engaged for a total of 10 days which he broke off because I wore a tank top to the grocery store. He said I didn't learn anything and he can't trust me! Should I stay with this guy?

2006-09-09 01:58:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys...Do any of you have any good "ex" stories of what your now ex-girlfriend did to show their jealousy & insecurities during your relationship (i.e., trying to hack into your email, not trusting you, neediness, etc). that finally caused you to tell them to hit the road. (i.e., what was the straw the broke the camel's back)????

2006-09-09 01:57:50 · 3 answers · asked by Angie Q 1 in Singles & Dating

No matter what job my hubby is doing he seems to find a way to do it for more than 12 hours a day at least 6 days a week. I have often been concerned that perhaps he wasn't working but he is always at work when I call. I miss him so much. I have tried asking him to make dates with me and then we never can find a babysitter on that day and he often ends up going in to work anyway. I know he is doing it for me and our family but I miss him so much. What do you do to keep your mind off the fact that they are never home? I have 2 small children and no friends so I feel totally isolated from the world. Do you have any advice? Thanks all

2006-09-09 01:56:55 · 13 answers · asked by colorist 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My problem is my girlfriend does not like to make love as often as I would like to? is she gay?

2006-09-09 01:56:26 · 22 answers · asked by Taffy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-09 01:56:07 · 4 answers · asked by 1919 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf and i are on a break (for now). Because hes not qiute over his ex at this time. (i suspect) He told me that i was his perfect girl and hes cares for me so much, he also told his friends and family that to, and he kept thanking his best friend for hooking us up. were both 20 yrs old, We both went thew a hard breakup in the past. and we did move things a little fast, but agreed on taking it slow. My question is should i give him more time to get over his ex??

2006-09-09 01:55:47 · 13 answers · asked by confussed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have full faith on him and also he loves me a lot he is very keen of making plans and following them perfectly i am crossing my age limit of marriage

2006-09-09 01:55:40 · 14 answers · asked by CHHAYA B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-09 01:54:19 · 17 answers · asked by cody t 1 in Singles & Dating

how should i tell? it's more like a close friends' gathering.

2006-09-09 01:54:16 · 6 answers · asked by BanAna 1 in Friends

see i just got out of a very abusiver marriage and now im dating this guy who i knew and had very strong feelings for 3 years now and weve been together for about 6 months and im 4 months pregnant and i love him so much and want to spend the rest of my life with him and he feels the same and he wants to get married to me. but im scared that it will be another failed marriage. what should i do?

2006-09-09 01:52:44 · 24 answers · asked by spongebrat_sexychick 2 in Singles & Dating

feel bugged would anyone want to talk to me? lifez so boring. anyone got ideas for life?

2006-09-09 01:52:41 · 11 answers · asked by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-09 01:51:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy has his arm around her shoulder. I like her but she's a big flirt. Is it worth it or will I get burned out in the end. She seems to like me. Any other give away signs she's taken? Name them. Is it even possible she's trying to make me jealous and go for her?

2006-09-09 01:51:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband loves me but no where in my life just I feel good that he is with me our home is complete with him. He is with drinking habit going by car to work , wearing good cloths, working whole day for his friend factory and earning Rs.5000 for me. we are upper middle class with 20000/- minimum expense , rest I have to arrange. He is always worried about his status but not taking any step to improve or somewhat lost his confidence. He is rejected person in his family due to his hot behaviour. I am tired for coping anymore and recently involve with a person who loves me surely and sailing in same boat as he too have same relationship problems at home. Somebody introduce me to take advise for my problems and instead of any solution we fall in love and share our problems which are not having any solution as both the partners are very adament and proud. We have to hide our intimacy and feel sofocated. Should we keep soothing each other without disturbing our family life. we love family

2006-09-09 01:49:51 · 20 answers · asked by aakky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-09 01:48:46 · 14 answers · asked by Rebecca D 2 in Friends

Did they make out what's happening between them?? Anybody know??

2006-09-09 01:47:53 · 4 answers · asked by Becca-Boo R 1 in Singles & Dating

its a one sided luv from my side n tommorrow is her bday.
she is in my class.

2006-09-09 01:47:50 · 17 answers · asked by RANGEELA HULLAD 1 in Singles & Dating

knock it off, you damn degenerates!

2006-09-09 01:45:04 · 10 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2 in Singles & Dating