My problem is my girlfriend does not like to make love as often as I would like to? is she gay?
2006-09-09 01:56:26 · 22 answers · asked by Taffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, of course not. Maybe she just has a lower sex drive than you or maybe she's got other things on her mind which she feels are more important. Of course it's always possible she simply doesn't enjoy sex that much that she WANTS to have sex as much, but the most likely cause is her sex drive.
The best thing, of course, is to ASK her and take my advice, as frustrating as it might be sometimes, NEVER make her feel pressured or 'blackmailed' into having sex with you (not suggesting that you just be aware of it and be careful of it) she will simply resent you and move further away. Instead try romancing her, tell her how much you love her and how much you care about her etc. For a woman the emotional side of sex is as important if not more so than the physical act itself. Not like that for us guys of course. :)
But is she gay? NO WAY JOSE! If she was, she'd be very unlikely to have sex with you AT ALL. Maybe she's bi but you'd have to ask her. :)
2006-09-09 02:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by mancunian_nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a ridiculos question! If she were gay she probably wouldn't want to make love EVER with you. She may just have a low libido that or you just don't turn her on that much.
Try finding new positions and doing different things. Reinvent your sex life. Maybe she doesn't want to have it because it's too boring for her.
Also keep in mind that men hit thier sexual peak in there 20's while woman don't hit it until there 40's.
2006-09-09 09:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real problem is the fiction that women have different sex drives to men. It stops women getting what they want and it puts men under performance pressure. People are all different.
Otherwise agree with answers. Gay is a joke and you both need to talk or move on?
2006-09-09 10:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Ade Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that anytime somebody's partner doesn't do exactly as they're told they're accused of being gay? Seems to me that according to too many people out there, "gay" can be chucked up as an excuse for just about everything!
2006-09-09 09:41:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men and womens libidos are all too often not at the same level - it's NORMAL!!
I cannot believe you think this poor woman is gay just because she doesn't make love to you as often as you would like!
2006-09-09 09:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by rainbowarrior73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make an effort, everytime you make love to her, to ensure that she enjoys it as much as you do, then she will probably want it as much as you do.
The trouble with most men is that they are very selfish in the sexual act. They are concerned only with satisfying their sexual needs and most of the time, if not all the time, leave the woman dangling half-way, then go off to sleep!
Is that happening to you? If it is, you have to change your behaviour to look into her needs as well.
Don't you think she will want it as much as you, if she also enjoys the act?
2006-09-09 09:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down with her and talk about it,communication is the best key to a relationship.
2006-09-09 09:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by none 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes us girls just arnt in the mood but have a think -are you putting the effort in maybe take her out for a romantic meal or at least do something to get her in the mood. if you have tried everything and its really getting you down maybe your just not compatible.
2006-09-09 09:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no u just cant get enough, males never seem to b satisfied with the amount of sex they get, females dont have the same libido as males do so u have to learn to deal with it or move on
2006-09-09 08:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by brandy w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no ure just not working the magic on her as you should.
shes gotta feel sexy and lusted after or you'll get no where.
cmon put in some effort xx
2006-09-12 18:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋