i have full faith on him and also he loves me a lot he is very keen of making plans and following them perfectly i am crossing my age limit of marriage
2006-09-09 01:55:40 · 14 answers · asked by CHHAYA B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
XXXXXXXXXX expect him not to get married anytime soon.
2006-09-09 01:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, it's so hard to say without knowing you two. But I have a friend who has been with her boyfriend for almost 4 yrs now and they are still not engaged. Although we all know that they will get married but are waiting to get through college and all that good stuff. If he completely avoids the subject then there is probably a problem. Have you ever asked him about it? Some people are perfectly content living with someone forever without actually getting married. They love one person, but some how the thought of actually making it legal is too hard for them to do. People are happy in their worlds. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you, but like I said it's hard without knowing him. there is no real age limit on marriage, just child rearing years, and even that has increased in this day and age. If you are happy with the way things are don't stree over the actualy legal part. However, if it is really important to you to actually be married, then you need to tell him that. You don't want to waste your time if he has no intention of ever making it official. If he loves you he will agree with you, even if it isn't right away. Just ask him some time what he might think about getting married. Mention that there is no need for a large wedding, offer to go to Las Vegas or what ever the equivilant is where you are. He may even suggest a big wedding. but don't corner him. Good luck.
2006-09-09 09:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how long is long? I think 2 years is long enough to know if you are under 25. Over 25, 1 year is long enough to know. Couples that are together for a long time without marrying is a signal that something is off.
2006-09-09 08:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a ring? Are you engaged? Plans mean nothing. Men can talk a good game for years on end.
If he is still keeping you waiting and knows you want to get married, and you haven't at least set the date, he isn't going to commit.
Time to find someone who meets your needs and wants.
2006-09-09 09:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, shouldn't he be discussing with you his plans and putting them into action? It's the action that counts, not just the words.
All plans must have a time frame. Explain your concern to him. What does he say? Couples must be frank and sincere with each other. Otherwise the relationship will not last.
The plan seems to be a one way affair. Don't you have any inputs to your marriage plans? It looks unhealthy to me!
2006-09-09 09:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can expect one of two things: either he likes things the way they are, and you're not getting married to this guy, or he's completely gun-shy about getting married, and you're not getting married to this guy.
There is no age limit to getting married. People in their 80's are getting married. Ask him why he's stalling, see what he says. Good luck.
2006-09-09 09:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be commitment-shy. Or he may just be waiting until the timing is right. Are you giving him mixed signals? There are so many variables, that any answer to your question might be the wrong one with so little information. Good luck!
2006-09-09 09:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by capobeachgrandma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,doesnt look like he wants to marry,you need to have a chat with him about this and get to know what is he upto?give him a time limit,if h keeps up good for you or else move on...how long can you wait if he truly loves you and wants to be with you he should consider your situation too!!good luck!!
2006-09-09 09:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter what you're told? You stated you have "full faith" in him. If he wanted to get married , he would have. Are you even engaged.? Listen, say to him" honey what month would you think would be the ideal time for us to get married"? If he says, he don't know .......then.....forgetit!
2006-09-09 09:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by ann m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he don't want to get married or he is just making sure he really have the means to marry then he will marry.
2006-09-09 10:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Grace is a liar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sort out valid reasons which u know better
and then wait for few more months.
otherwise ask the person straightaway
2006-09-09 09:06:29 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋