My bf and i are on a break (for now). Because hes not qiute over his ex at this time. (i suspect) He told me that i was his perfect girl and hes cares for me so much, he also told his friends and family that to, and he kept thanking his best friend for hooking us up. were both 20 yrs old, We both went thew a hard breakup in the past. and we did move things a little fast, but agreed on taking it slow. My question is should i give him more time to get over his ex??
2006-09-09 01:55:47 · 13 answers · asked by confussed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should ask him about it. He'll definately feel alot of respect if you do.
2006-09-09 01:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Bo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course.
Both of you should take it easy to find out more about each other first, before jumping into the conclusion that you are perfect for each other.
Didn't you and your first partner think the same thing too? So what happened to result in the break-up? Learn from your first break-up to avoid a 2nd one.
Giving each other more time is a good way. Do not commit first until both of you are sure of your love for each other. Thinking that you are perfect for each other is not enough. Actions speak louder than words! So watch the behaviour.
2006-09-09 02:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Give him all the time he needs. The last thing you want to be is with a man who still has feelings for his ex. Meanwhile, enjoy your life and feel free to date other people. It could be this person is hoping to get his ex back and has you waiting in the wings as plan b.
2006-09-09 02:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by movedtoMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be over his ex by know, but my advice, is to go with your heart. If he takes to long, move on...But first try, ask out for a movie, or dinner, or just a walk in the park to talk about what his future plans are with you.
Good luck
2006-09-09 02:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him yes,but giving him time by himself isn't the way.You should make him forget his ex by spending time together and creating your own memories to help him forget theirs.Time will help him get over her,but if he is not with you,he may be thinking about her and that just makes the feelings for her stronger.
2006-09-09 02:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what he is doing with the time that you are on break with him. Most men use that as an excuse to fool around with someone else while holding you in reserve in case the other one doesn't work out.
When someone's words don't matchup with their actions, always go by their actions.
2006-09-09 02:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is like any other activity involving more than one person ... it can only move as fast as the slowest person ... its not a question of "giving" him more time ... he will "take" the time he needs for closure if you want this relationship to be successful .. until he has closure on his ex, you will not have a full relationship with him
2006-09-09 02:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you left out the most important piece of info - WHEN DID THEY BREAK UP??? Was it a week ago, was is 6 months ago, was it a year ago. We also need to know if he has expressed to you at all if he is still in love with her.
2006-09-09 01:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE he wants best of both worlds you and the EX you should dump him if he cant make up his mind
2006-09-09 02:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, say about 20 years or so! Find someone who will love and respect you as much as you will him!
2006-09-09 02:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by Sentinel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋