Its 7 years, I started a relation with a guy who was very helpful for me & my family including my husband. we two are different religion, still as best family friends we spend time sharing our interest but later it happends to me or I could say he started it..... my instincts move to him, i am a mother of 5 and an ailing husband. My friend came very close to me and we forget ourselves..,, we broke the fence between us and its happened ...still even we know it should not be.
Besides, my friend is not so handsome but have a very soft heart towards everybody. He is married, 20 years without children and his wife my friend too, is older than him. Now I doubt he had another girl in his life, who is younger than me and his wife... I feel very upset even I know I am doing wrong....I enjoy 100% sex with hm for the last 7 years which I did not get frm my husband. I feel jelaz with his new lady. What should I do now? Should I forget him for ever or I will keep the relation same as b4???
2006-09-09 02:05:37 · 14 answers · asked by love69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I did not get enough support from my husband by any means and he found his happiness with my housemaid and he is married with her. Just because of my kids I dont want to break up my relation with my husband.
2006-09-09 02:19:23 · update #1
you are a very sick person for cheating on your husband and sharing this in here and you need professional help as soon as possible!! well it might be too late for you anyways
2006-09-09 02:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by ★HigHTƹcH★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married, you've been cheating for seven years; and you are jealous of your lover's new friend??? Have you lost your mind? How can anything good come from this? You should end your marriage. You have betrayed your sick husband, and have harmed your children- even if nobody ever learns of your affair. Ditch the lover NOW. Get divorced, and grow up. You ARE wrong, and should cut out the silliness.
2006-09-09 03:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's been a long time of your relation . you did't mention how old your kids are because now very much depends on them also u can't just make a dessision and just inform them , afterall they are mature and have a social life to , what if your dessision puts u in a position where u are left alone and things don't seem to be smooth again , leave your friend a side and see there will be much more important things and relations in your life . or meet a marrige consoler
2006-09-09 23:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT A MESS!
Do not know why you should feel jealous of someone who is just like you in certain acts. And remember that this guy is up to something. It could be a co incidence (you may call it love or lust, whatever...) when you two sccumbed but now on this second (and who knows there are too many of such relationships that he is having) he means business. Still want to keep him?
2006-09-09 03:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget past.whatever happened forget as sweet or bad memories. You are married and have a kid also, start concentrating on your own family. Give ur 100% attention on nears and dears.
Divert your concentration and do the needful to your own house.If your husband is making a mistake do not repeat by you.Think about your kids..good days will come....wait for the time....sacrifice yourself for goodness of your family.
2006-09-09 02:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say fallow your heart. Does your husband take care of you in all the ways he should. Are you happy with your husband. I was married with 2 kids. He was not giving me the time I needed with him. We had no family time together. Sex life I did not know what that was until now. When his cell phone rang he was out the door taking care of his friends....... So with that hun just fallow your heart...
2006-09-09 02:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by Leigh D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't say cause i am not in your shoes,but if i was doing that to my husband,i would leave him and go on with my life,because he don't deserve what i did to him.Alots of relationships are broken because of cheating,and if you leave there is no way that he will take you back even if you regret what you have done.good luck
2006-09-09 02:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by none 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear,
this type of problem can be solved culture and thinking of the person conserned.
you r fair and mature.u r best to judge your situation.
just keep in mind that your action should be rational and benefitial to all person including yorself and cunning person must be ignored.
2006-09-09 03:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by mukesh k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should stop reading Mills & Boone and other unmentionable books.
2006-09-09 03:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by penjoy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break the relationship and move on.
2006-09-09 02:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋