2006-09-09 01:51:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have been there and done that! I lost weight, lost interest in my friends and even contemplated suicide. But I'm glad that I lived to meet my Mr. Right who I married in April. I am not only happier than I have ever been if my life, but I hate that I wasted time with that person who left me for another. Actually he did me a favor! Now it's your turn to meet that beautiful girl who was waiting for you to lose that worthless baggage so that you can start having the time of your life. GO FOR IT! Sometimes things come along to make us stronger each time we have a challenge or a hurdle. Congratulations! You're getting over this hurdle and things get easier...Trust Me! Now I know why I went through some of the things I did. It was to tell people like you that life only gets better so hang in there, good things are coming your way.
2006-09-09 02:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ardessa S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy. That will help. Also, if you want to make things better, think of the bad times in the relationship. We tend to think about the good times when someone is no longer in our lives, and that's why it becomes so hard to deal with. But there must have been some bad times if you are now ex'. Therefore, when you start feeling this way, think of those times.
You should also start dating. You may end finding someone very nice that makes you happy. Time to move on. I had to also.
2006-09-09 09:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i feel for you. its going to take time for you to get over it right now you feel like your heart has been ripped out and someone is stomping on your guts its a grieving processes we were made that way to feel emotional when something good happens and the same when we go through these experiences. surround yourself with your friends avoid being alone when possible avoid alcohol or even things that remind you of that person. Theres a lot of fish out in the ocean dude rebound. play sports find some kind of entertainment after a while you will be enjoying yourself that you will not even notice that the hurt stopped hurting. Dont get stuck on yesterday live for tomorrow. When you least expect it you'll find a nice person.
2006-09-09 09:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel, except my ex and i have children together which makes it 10x worse!!! be grateful that it didnt go that far. The pain will eventually go away even if you dont think it wont, and the worst thing 'i think' you could do is still talk to her, that makes it even harder. People say just forget her or him and move on but they dont realize that when you've loved someone that much it is IMPOSSABLE, and it is hard to move on cause you are constantly comparing your new one to the old one. my advice is just do everything in your power during the day to occupy yourself, and take it one day at a time eventually you'll feel better, maybe not right away but i will happen ..trust me
2006-09-09 09:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by ?rukkaloca24? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with ur ex I am going through the same thing for about 2 weeks now. I told my ex that i love him and i always will and said goodbye. Since then we have txted a couple of times and he rang the other night to chat. Him and his new gf are already having troubles so it prob wont last. He even txted me last night and had hunny in the msg. I think he is glad we're still friends and knows that im always here for him if he needs me
2006-09-09 08:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Sexy D♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No simple answer for that one. The pain will be around for a while. Enough of feeling sorry for yourself, join the gym, make sure everytime she sees you you're like the cherry at the top of the icecream cone mmmm! Change your car (if you can afford to) call up all your old good buddies, in pretending to forget her, soon you'll realise you actually have.
2006-09-09 09:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by ann m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you mate..but I admire that fact that you love your ex alot still..but sorry to say but she isnt feeling the same way about you..I suggest it's better to let her live her own life and seebe friends with her.You might still care for her the same way you did as a friend.
2006-09-09 08:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Remus L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but the only thing is go out there and meet someone else and make her see that you can have a life to
good luck i had to do the same and then my guy came back to me and said sorry and he wouldnt do it again and now were engaged and expecting a baby
2006-09-09 08:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by spongebrat_sexychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By keeping yourself busy with something other than thinking of her. Join a bowling league, or soft ball team. Getting active and being around others usually gives you a boost!
2006-09-09 08:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get on with you life, there isn't really anything that I can say to make you get over her, sorry. I hope it all works out for you.
2006-09-09 09:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋