We have been together for 3 years and she wanted to take a break but she still loves me. I know the reasons for the break which are because she wants to think but also because we havn't had much time alone to talk or anythign and I know that hurt the relationship. tonight we are going to a concert in Philadelphia. We are going to be spending the whole day together. I want to just have fun and be her friend but I also want to be romatic like its our first date all over again. So I am going to just be myself the guy she fell in love with. We are just going to do somethings have fun and go to the concert. I am thinking of holding her during a song that is special to both of us and singing it to her. Also I want to give her one red rose at the end of the night and depending on how things go a kiss good night. Should I do the things to be romantic or just have them ready and if things feel right just go with it. I know she is the one for me and I want her to feel the same again.
2006-09-09 02:00:58 · 15 answers · asked by jsnpasty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont see a question here, but it sounds like you have things well in order!
2006-09-09 02:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah.NO........DO NOT BE ROMANTIC!!!! She told you that she wants to take a break, pal......so you need to respect her!! This is probably what she means...you are not listening to her!! If you do this, you better forget any future with her. Just go and have a fun evening since that is what she is expecting. I am telling you, you will screw it up for yourself. Depending on the evening, give her a little kiss on the cheek and go home. Leave her something to think about. Forget the red rose.....that would be awful at this point. You must show patience right now. Nothing good comes easy. Again, I say, RESPECT her request and her personal boundaries!!!!
2006-09-09 09:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should only do it if it feels right. You don't want to push too hard because girls get scared by that and then they run away. If she said she needed a break then doing all those romantic things may be a little too much for her.
Bring the stuff wiuth you and be ready to exicute your plan ONLY if she's giving you the feeling that she wants you to be romantic.
Good luck and HAVE FUN tonight!
2006-09-09 09:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a good idea just take it easy and a little slow but dont over do it you dont want to smuther her. If you have been together for 3 years just start talking about sum of the great times you have had and try to do them again but dont look like you are trying to much she might think your desperate. Good luck.
2006-09-09 09:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just have all the good stuff ready and if it feels right do it, but if you do it before hand she might feel pressured that you are not willing to give her the time she needs. you never know, maybe if you dont do them things she will miss all of the good stuff and all the affection you once gave her and realize what she will be loosing
good luck
2006-09-09 09:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by ?rukkaloca24? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants a break for no real reason? She is interested in someone else or if there is no one else she is just no longer interested in you. Be cautious and don't play a fool. You could try to back off and play a little hard to get, women love that. i'm not saying go and screw other women or start dating others just to get her jealous just give her her space, what she asked for.
2006-09-09 09:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, hav fun at the concert.. watever u feel right, juz do it. tell her she is the gal for u and u wan everythin to start all over again like the first time both of u were in loved w each other.
gd luck n take care!
2006-09-09 09:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow. Don't set your expectations real high. Don't be pushy. Just relax and have a great time. But be prepared. Watch her for cues before you make any move you may regret.
2006-09-09 09:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by whoanelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl on a break................. if you have been together 3 years by now you sould be able to talk about things and not need to have a break i'm not trying to be mean be careful she may be hideing something she sould know how you feel you souldnt have to change yourself for anyway remember that
mel
2006-09-09 09:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she asked for break than stop pushing things and give the break the time it needs.but remember asking for a break can b a polite way to say goodbye
good night
2006-09-09 09:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by selina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋