we have been dating for 10 months and every time i am around him, at home at dinner, he just sits there, last nite we went to dinner and i had to talk for 2 hours straight, it was so uncomfortable i just kept ordering drinks... i asked him questions but he just stares ahead and grunts out answers, or one word answers , i can not get him to engage in conversation, the only time he talks is when we are in bed, lights out, I wonder if he is extremly shy and only fees confortable talking then, it is what it seems to me, he says i intimidate him and he doesn't feel good enough for me, and he even stutters when he tries to talk to me, are there any good books for him to read, i think he would read one, or how do i approach this situation without making him even more self conscious about talking after he knows i am annoyed with it? HELP!!! I am starting to advoid seeing him because it makes me so uncomfortable and its just probably making him worse!!!
2006-09-09
13:35:17
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