Family & Relationships - 9 September 2006

I didn't know what heading to put this under... but I need help. When I was 10 I used to get sexually assulted my my step brot her for about two years until he moved out. He was 16 then. How can I forget about it. I'm 15 now and want to forget about it. Please help, I need advice.

2006-09-09 18:16:33 · 41 answers · asked by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-09 18:16:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i hook up with this girl at my college and we have alot of fun together. but she lets me know she has no interest in giving up her freedom. she doesn't have sex with everyone she meets, but she gos to clubs and bars and will dance pretty darn hot. id say 1 out of 2 times she'll end up making out with a guy, and maybe once a month to once every other month she'll take on home. would you consider this sl utty?

2006-09-09 18:16:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out last night, its a guy at her job, and shes talking about when she turns 18 he will be 25 and he will be able to date her, shes hanging out with him and the guys not a virigin and she is, I still love her but I'm not in love with her, why am I jealous?

2006-09-09 18:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

also if the legal age was 14 noone would say anything why is that
i kinda understand it

2006-09-09 18:14:50 · 19 answers · asked by question men 3 in Singles & Dating

i really want to get married to my boyfriend but we cant get my parents to approve how do you get e-married

2006-09-09 18:14:35 · 14 answers · asked by Samantha G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok there's a guy i loved last year i asked him out and he said no so like yea i was depressed then i asked him to sign my year book and he wrote " i have something important to tell you" so waited the next school year and it turns out he doesn't go there anymore!!! so then i was like damn! then i searched for him on myspace and i found him and asked him what the important thing was and he said that he liked me but said no cuz he was moving and i still love him what should i do?

2006-09-09 18:14:31 · 5 answers · asked by LaLaLa 1 in Singles & Dating

jesse benson, waterbury, conn. head & head co. camp pickett,va.

2006-09-09 18:13:28 · 8 answers · asked by virgo1 2 in Friends

yeah it sounds lame but im having a ton of trouble with it. At my high school i am having trouble making friends (with mostly girls) in a class called PALs. It is a class were you go to elementry schools and play with kids that dont have many friends.
So i am usually a really nice person and people seem to like me but not in this group.. i always feel like everything i say is wrong. People there dont make an effort to talk to me like i do. They could just care less that i was there. So with that said, how do i make friends here? i know i should be myself and i am. It just seems like no one is interested in being friends with me. I dont want to be an annoyance ya know?

2006-09-09 18:13:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he left me and he is following me. sometimes i dont know that he is watching me, i just fouind out. why does he do this when he left me??? its not right.

2006-09-09 18:12:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a sinlge dad with a teenage girl and boy. I have been told i am both good and good looking. I cant figure out why women are mean to me.

2006-09-09 18:12:27 · 9 answers · asked by wanttolpve 4 in Singles & Dating

why do most men think they can get away with treating women the way they do

2006-09-09 18:12:12 · 28 answers · asked by vic84 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-09 18:11:44 · 10 answers · asked by zel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My stepdaughter is in a relationship that is very volatile.The father of her two sons drinks heavily and I believe smokes pot. She smokes also and takes paxil.They've been constantly fighting(physically)and just recently called me to take her boys for the night due to an altercation, police got involved.Her biological mother found out that the kids were with me and had a huge fit!I've raised my husbands eldest daughter (25) who ended up graduating from high school and having a great life. The kids who stayed with biological mother ended up with kids as teenagers and a whole lot of other problems. Their mother (hubby's ex)is an alcoholic and drug abuser.I've also taken in my stepsons kids for a year at a time when they were just born.So I'm wondering now that they are older, youngest stepdaughter is 21, and biological mother is going crazy should I just step out or help? My husband just doesnt want to fight with ex anymore so doesnt have too much to say in everything.

2006-09-09 18:09:49 · 11 answers · asked by Nikie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I just had a child 2 weeks ago. This weekend we decided to go out with our friends to let off some tension. Yesterday I went with my girls to play pool and have a couple drinks. I left at 8 and was home by 11pm. Well, tonight he goes out-to a night club.He leaves at 11pm. I am not comfortable with this. I trust him, but I know we have not had sex in months due to my pregnancy and healing time after c-section. He loves to salsa dance, so I know dancing will be in his agenda-but I still worry that something will happen while he is there. He is very attractive and I worry that he will see the in-shape women at the club after seeing my post pregnancy body and stray a bit. Is it ok for him to go to the club, or am I right about worrying?

2006-09-09 18:09:10 · 16 answers · asked by Pondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you only have general conversation nothing serious, and when things get serious he just shuts down. Should you stay in that relationship

2006-09-09 18:08:45 · 9 answers · asked by Agape4God 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I noticed that my relationships last longer when the girls asked me out first. 2 longest were one for 4yrs and one for 3yrs. Do you think you put more into a relationship if you are the one to start it.

2006-09-09 18:08:04 · 9 answers · asked by DARKMAN97 2 in Singles & Dating

here's a question i've always had, when someone says "i'm sorry" in response to the death of someone close to you or bad news, what's an appropriate response? "thank you" seems weird, as does "me too." what are you suppose to say?

2006-09-09 18:07:35 · 19 answers · asked by pete54409 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would love to find a good guy. Why can't I find one. I am a single mother. I have sated several guys, but most have no ambition in life, do drugs, have no job, etc. I just want to find a nice guy, who is dependable, and likes me and my son for what and who we are. No drugs. Is that setting my standards too high?

2006-09-09 18:07:22 · 26 answers · asked by misti c 2 in Singles & Dating

hi. i hate this, but i often get mad at my bf, and then can't stand to be around him, so i sleep on the couch. really, i',m just frustrated. i love him, but our relationship is just a rocky, rocky road. we're both in love and stubborn, but I wish he was black and down to earth like me....oh well...that's life...right??

2006-09-09 18:07:21 · 11 answers · asked by ingrid 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What if your girlfriend told you she was pregnant, and two weeks later she admitted she wasn't, and that she was just testing you? To see if you would run or stay with her? What would you do?

2006-09-09 18:07:20 · 13 answers · asked by Brackalicious 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so my wife has a horrible problem with just saying the most horrible things to me when we argue. I am floored by them and tell her so.... So now I have turned the table the last time we argued and she can't believe I would say such hurtful things to her... Her response is that she does not mean then but they hurt none the less... help!

2006-09-09 18:07:08 · 8 answers · asked by Southpaw 1 in Marriage & Divorce

looking 4 jesse benson...waterbury, conn.

2006-09-09 18:07:00 · 2 answers · asked by virgo1 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-09 18:04:41 · 10 answers · asked by cole_merryfield 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Together 31/2 yrs/No sign of marriage/2yr son together/everytime we visit his family he turns into a big jerk. I'm from tulsa he's from austin. if I can't share his personal life then why try? Especially w/ no talk of marriage. Last wkend went to visit and he got drunk and yelled at me in front of his homeboy. Maybe not a big deal but it happens every time we go there. Still not talking. Otherwise he is a good man. Also, I am against porn because of things in my childhood. He knows Im against it, but not why. I found porn on his user. I haven't said anything yet. I know porn is generally not a big deal but it is to me but what should I do.

2006-09-09 18:04:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Jerry Seinfeld, obviously a male once said "Women need to lower their expectations of men. We are basically just highly evolved dogs."...How many people think this is true? And does this mean that I can sill expect diamonds and long-stemmed roses but, I need to cancel the idea that a man that I'm in a physical relationship with can be empathetic and insightful and loving? If so I think I can live with that (LOL). But is there any truth in it?

2006-09-09 18:04:07 · 16 answers · asked by Kaitlyn 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, is anything that is done after that date as far as racking up credit, the responsibility of both parties or just the one who's racked it up? Also, keeping in mind that the credit card is only in the name of the person who blew the money.

2006-09-09 18:03:40 · 4 answers · asked by questionable 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so say if sally met billy and they decided to be boy friend and girl friend. so they see eachother at school. and thats cool and stuff but all their friend are 'going out' and their like we cant drive? so what? do their moms DRIVE us OUT?

how does it work..

2006-09-09 18:03:28 · 14 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

ABC Primetime had a special about married couples who have sex with other couples and say it's not cheating. Do you agree? Maybe I'm old-fashioned but this is like Soddom and Gammorah!

2006-09-09 18:02:05 · 26 answers · asked by louie m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Always wondered, do straight guys ever have tickle fights? Nothing to the extreme that involves nudity... ew... but like to piss the other one off and/or show dominance by rendering the other one weaker? I've done this before, but really to just give the other guy a "bad time" (aka piss him off). I'm just now wondering if this is considered an homosexual action only...

2006-09-09 18:01:03 · 12 answers · asked by Some Guy 1 in Friends