If you only have general conversation nothing serious, and when things get serious he just shuts down. Should you stay in that relationship
2006-09-09 18:08:45 · 9 answers · asked by Agape4God 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For some men it's difficult to answer tough questions. You have to decide if that's something you can live with. He must have shown signs before marriage. So you probably are not totally surprised. It's most likely you thought he'd snap into the groove once he really needed to.
If you need a partner to help you make tough decisions then you probably need counseling or an out. However when he's tired of you making all of the decisions for him he'll get off his duff and say something.
Until then it's your way sweety.
Good LUCK!
2006-09-09 18:11:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has issues...and talking to him will not help. First of all he needs Christian Friends to hang with...this will help him be a better husband. It does not mean that your conversations will get better...but at least you know he is in good company with good influences in his life. Don't worry...this could be a good thing really! Too much conversation cause way too many meaningless arguments that stress the relationship greatly! Just do some down time on your knees praying to God to guide your husband.
2006-09-10 01:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it should be a bases of why u leave, but i think u should find out why he has such a hard time dealing with important things.. alot of men rather "avoid" then deal.. I think u need to find out why, and if he wont open up to u, then go ahead and pack up ur stuff and go.. (doesnt mean get a divorce) but maybe if he realizes how serious this is.. and forced to deal .. then maybe he'll see the error of his ways...but DIVORCE should always be last option..
2006-09-10 02:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you mean when you say he won't be "serious." If that just means he has different interests than you, then the marriage could still work if you can find some common ground somewhere. But if he is forever uninterested in something you find vitally important, then maybe not.
2006-09-10 01:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say serious do you mean problems,mayby he just doesn't like conflict,most men aviod this,dont like to argue,if you want to just try living day by day and not bringing up any problems to see if his mood changes,do this for about a week,i went through this with my ex-wife,you just need to try every effort before you give up,if he doesn't then he already gave up,and it takes both of you to try
2006-09-10 01:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by dragnoldmetal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel and ask him why he is this way. Work on things first before you terminate the relationship.
2006-09-10 01:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried to ask him why he is acting like that is there problems within your marrage to make him act in that way if so try to get help or soon you might be heading for a divorce if not took searsouley by you . my opiuon?
2006-09-10 02:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really up to you. how can you guys be expected to overcome big issues if he won't even confront them? didn't you know this before marrying him?
2006-09-10 01:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you bore him...i don't know you and you bore me
2006-09-10 01:12:00 · answer #9 · answered by jimdamailman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋