yeah it sounds lame but im having a ton of trouble with it. At my high school i am having trouble making friends (with mostly girls) in a class called PALs. It is a class were you go to elementry schools and play with kids that dont have many friends.
So i am usually a really nice person and people seem to like me but not in this group.. i always feel like everything i say is wrong. People there dont make an effort to talk to me like i do. They could just care less that i was there. So with that said, how do i make friends here? i know i should be myself and i am. It just seems like no one is interested in being friends with me. I dont want to be an annoyance ya know?
2006-09-09 18:13:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's hard.
Are you in the class to make friends or help the elem. kids? If you are there to help the kids, then just keep helping the kids. Try to keep positive around the girls your age, but don't talk too much.
Either they will come around when they realize you are not a threat or they are not worth it anyhow and you should focus on other things.
2006-09-09 18:16:46 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean or that but are you able to read constantly and able to understand what it is & not be biass? Or do you have some friends for after school or with-in school but just not on the same schedle as them? Are you new an unable to may-be find a teacher but do not be always at there feet & try to mingle in with the other girls or boys there. And just don't let it get you down which I know is hard but persevere and should any arguements occur take or give your self a time out if possible is my suggestion to you & to even those around yeah. I hope this will work there as you are posibile a really nice person! P.S. I to had to find my inner-self when things was rough too.
2006-09-10 01:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say this but relax and stay calm. No big deal if they don't want to be your friend. You have to have fun no matter where you are at. Confidence is like a fire, and people like moths to a flame attract to confident people. So Be nice but don't worry about them take it slow and easy. Say your general hi, hello, or howdy and then move on to the task at hand. Be kind and courteous but never expect anything from it. It's not good to be a puppy, they need constant attention and soon people just get tired of it. If one of them don't crack consider if you want to be in that group at all. If you want to help the elementary kids then the other girls aren't so important. If you are looking to be in the popular crowd then do something else.
2006-09-10 01:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Attacus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that these girls should not be avoiding you since you say they are a part of an organization to socialize with childrent hat dont have too many friends. I think that you should suround yourself with people who are more outgoing and accepting of outsiders into their group. you dont need people who dont want to accept you.
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2006-09-10 01:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by absoluteao 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. That's when you will find true friends..
2006-09-10 01:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by 333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you talk to much
2006-09-10 01:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by jimdamailman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
coooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool
2006-09-10 02:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋