why are 29 yr old attracted to 14 yrolds?

Question

also if the legal age was 14 noone would say anything why is that
i kinda understand it

Answer 1

it is because parents are allowing their 11 to 14 year old daughters dress like they are 21 year old whores.
I wish it were illegal.

Answer 2

A normal 29 y/o may look at a 14 y/o and find him/her physically attractive, particularly if the child is physically well-developed for their age. That's a normal reaction that's hard-wired into humans and is difficult, some would say impossible, to control.

What's *not* normal is for the 29 y/o to act on those feelings. That's called pedophilia, and it's both morally wrong and illegal.

Don, if you're the 14 y/o and you're being approached by an adult who says they're attracted to you, please go to another adult who you trust and tell them about it immediately. There is *no* legitimate reason for an adult to do this. Talk to a parent, teacher, coach, anyone you trust.

If you're the 29 y/o, please consider seeking advice from a mental health professional, before you find yourself in a situation that causes you immense legal trouble and the lifetime stigma of "sex-offender", and potentially destroys the life of a child.

Don, the second part of your question is about the age at which people are considered adults. There has been a lot of debate over this issue, with opinions all over the map. In most states, you can get a driver's license at 16, but you can't vote, enter into a legal contract or consent to sexual activity until you're 18, and you can't drink until you're 21.

There are good physiological reasons for the "legal age" being set at 18. There are differences between the brains of children and adults, some of which make children less able to make sound, logical decisions than adults. Children are more easily influenced by emotions, and they tend to be more trusting than adults. This makes children particularly vulnerable to adults who want to take advantage of them. There's no magical switch that gets flipped on your 18th birthday -- it's just the age that we've settled on as a society when you can make decisions about your own sexuality.

Answer 3

You are probably attracted to children,and thats what a 14y/o is.Because emotionaly that is still where you're at.Most people that are attracted to teens are because of control.A child can be controlled.An adult usually can not.My best advice is get some counseling to find out what the root of the attraction is.Look at your relationship history.Did your partner run the show?Was he/she in charge of all decisions in the relationship?If the answe is yes that partsr of the root cause.Good luck on your road to recovery.

Answer 4

29 year olds that are attracted to 14 year olds are pedophiles. Even if it were the legal age, there would be people that would object.

Answer 5

because the simplicity and enthusiasm that the 14s have , have left the 29s a little bit ago.so 29s are spontaneously willing to have the smell one more.

Answer 6

in the beginning i'd desire to assert it relatively is ridiculously humorous. Secondly, i'd desire to ask why is this guy choosing up a a woman like 6 years youthful than him. third, i'd choose to extremely state that no 6 years isn't that massive of an age distinction. In maximum international locations working example 4 years distinction in men to females is noticeably ordinary, working example Asian international locations. So 4-5-6 twelve months distinction isn't a huge distinction to me. whether, him choosing up a teenager whilst he's in his Nineteen Twenties is a huge no no in my e book. Say he substitute into say 35 or so and he or she substitute into 29 i'd so enable him choose for it.... additionally, its unfair for this lady. she is going to be lacking out on an outstanding variety of stuff, consisting of dating different men. Having retarded prepubescent drama in extreme college. Idiotic dances. Funky make-out classes. Oh the glitz and glamour of highschool romances! Like its no longer cool that he's depriving her of that, plus in my opinion women that lack journey in dating are those that finally end up transforming into psycho-like. So, for his sake and hers i'd say that this may be a no-pass. no longer till a lot a lot later whilst the two look able to having a decently mature dating. No pun meant on the 1st rate.

Answer 7

because 14yr don't know what they are looking for and they like the attention. with that there less games and baggage to deal with. and probably the guy likes the idea knowing that 14yr olds relationships don't last long and he can move to the next one in a short amount of time.
anyway he goes about it everything about the relationship is short term except the prison sentence!!

Answer 8

Well, girls are being sexualized at younger and younger ages every year. I mean Hollywood doesn't wait till 18 to start showing them provocatively.

The trend for women these days is "It's not okay to get old, it's not okay to look old. Hide your wrinkles and gray hair. Get plastic surgery. Aging is a shame."

It's not right, but we're idolizing youth and demonizing age.

Answer 9

I have no idea and I hope there aren't that many pedophiles out there although I know there are.

Answer 10

they can't find 29 year olds