ABC Primetime had a special about married couples who have sex with other couples and say it's not cheating. Do you agree? Maybe I'm old-fashioned but this is like Soddom and Gammorah!
2006-09-09 18:02:05 · 26 answers · asked by louie m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my very own point of view those couple who are into this sort of lifestyle do not have values for their relationship or vow. For them they don't think it is cheating because they agreed with but theoretically they are denying each other, abusing their relationship and taking advantage of each other in terms of sex. Couples who do this are mostly slightly mentally sick, insatiable, and promiscuous type. I beleive they cannot give each other a pleasure so they invite strangers to join them which is very brutal and sordid. Normal, decent type of couples who have values and self-respect WOULDN'T swing. Those kind of people are pervert, real love doesn't exist among each other but just lust. It's not about being an old fashion or not. It is the SELF-VALUES and LOVE that I am trying to emphasize.
2006-09-09 18:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Arianne 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I find it interesting. I have seen this life style highlighted on HBO to. I can see how they keep their relationship strong. They are not afraid to talk to each other about anything. If you can accept your spouse having sex with someone else, then you can talk about what ever pops in your brain. If you think about sex, it is just an act. You don't have to be in love with someone to do it. Humans have meaningless sex all the time. If you know that your spouse loves you and you are both secure in your relationship, I don't see anything wrong with swinging.
2006-09-10 10:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its is but Soddom and Gammorah was a gay thing(gays&lesbos).
Swinging is a lustful thing its like drugs it feels great at first then you feel nasty after time etc. I think if you love your partner/spouse you should jepordize it and eventualy things will spin out of control. It was a big fantasy of mine but i cant bare to see my wife get bent by another dude and she is the same. I think swinging is for single people that dont care about eachother just hardcore sex etc.
2006-09-10 01:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by sirsayer21 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I do not agree since it destroys too many good marriages. The marriages that chooses to be in that lifestyle is doom from the very beginning. It is like playing with fire. They should stay single if they want to have that kind of life.
Yep, like Soddom and Gommorah. You wonder why this world is coming from. DESTRUCTION on our own selves.
2006-09-10 01:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by leyte6519 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Anyone who says swinging isn't cheating is stupid and doesn't understand what marriage is when you get married your suppose to love that person and be committed either way you look at it swinging is still cheating what's the point of getting married if your going to cheat?? Their are other ways of working out things rather then doing stupid crap like swinging people don't swing because they want to save their marriage people swing because it gives them the opportunity to sleep with someone else anyone who says it's to help is a liar I'm glad my husband and I ain't into this dumb crap
2006-09-10 01:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If it works for them thats fine. I personally feel that if you are going to get married you should be only with the one you married. Swinging as a couple is however far better than cheation on your spouse.
2006-09-10 01:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by BURGIN24 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
My question is why get married if you want to sleep around???
It tarnishes a commitment you made to each other and in all honesty I think that once you choose to go down that road, things are never the same again in the relationship.
I am definitely against it.
2006-09-10 01:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by bonjovigroupie 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
It isn't cheating if both in the relationship are aware the other are doing it.
Generally with swinging parties, the couples are together and partake in sexual encounters with others. It is just physical, not emotional and they then go home together.
I see nothing wrong with it.
2006-09-10 01:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
It depends on their vows and religion. It's absurd if they were wedded under the traditional Christian vows, married under the power of God, and then have the nerve to state that having sex outside of their marriage is not adultery is just pure bull. Its absolute denial they use to justify the truth that they're just simply not ready to be married and committed to one person.
2006-09-10 01:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by wearyblossom 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
its not something you want to do very often, but it can show each other your true feelings about them. it has its ups and downs. if you going to do it, you better talk with people that have because it can backfire and really screw you up. but in my case it made my marrige better than it ever could have been
2006-09-10 01:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by ginna c 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋