he left me and he is following me. sometimes i dont know that he is watching me, i just fouind out. why does he do this when he left me??? its not right.
2006-09-09 18:12:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree witn sglmom...
Now that I know a bit more, that he is following you and watching you, I'm more worried that it's a male ego thing, even if he did leave you. It may be a stereotype, but perhaps Middle Eastern men are more possessive when it comes to relationships, even former ones. If he's watching and following you, when he's the one who left in the first place, I'm worried about you. It would be a good idea to report him as a stalker. I can't even imagine what sane reason he could have for doing this!
Good luck, and be safe!
2006-09-12 06:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, its not right! But I think the reason he's following you is because he wants to see what your next move after the break up will be..like "is she seeing someone else?" I would be a little freaked out because that seems like there might be some obsession there and maybe some control issues. What ever you do, dont get back together with him..if it becomes over bearing get some help..I know you still love him, but take it from someone whos been through it, getting back with an ex can only mean bad things. What ever the issue was that ended the relationship will come up again and it will be so much worse.
Be safe..
2006-09-10 01:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is called STALKING -- go to the Courthouse, get the package for Domestic Violence/Restraining Orders/Personal Protective Orders, and FILL IT OUT -- writing down all the days, times, where he was when you know he was following you, etc.
Next -- go to the Local Police Station, give them his name, address, description, and ask for a Trespass Warrant to be issued on specific locations -- namely where you work and where you live as starters. This means that when he is served with this by the Police -- then when you see him on your home/property or in your place of employment -- then he can be arrested (and take photos -- even on a cell phone camera -- this is evidence).
2006-09-10 01:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, he's a psychopath. I think you need to get a restraining order on him before he does something crazy..He's a stalker and there's no telling when he's watching you. Play it safe!
2006-09-10 01:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Ultimate Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your answers later,you need to call the police NOW! What he's doing is stalking you and could do you harm,don't wait another minute make the call.
2006-09-10 01:19:08 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is crazy
2006-09-10 01:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by lazy_n_spoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋