Family & Relationships - 7 September 2006

2006-09-07 01:52:47 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't want to upset anyone or offend anyone but......

I live in a well known beauty spot and all our relatives think they can come and stay with us for a free holiday. I work full time (and have a part time job and a voluntary job) and feel I just can't cope with the constant stream of guests anymore.

My husband has a huge family and if we have one we have to have them all to stay at some point.

I have the part time job to help pay for food for the relatives when they come to stay. Because they are very active when they are here they all come back to my place with massive hunger pangs. I tried to ask for some help towards the costs but was firmly told by one relative that fuel is so expensive here the cost of the holiday was already above their budget.......

I do like having people to stay but just not EVERY weekend.......

2006-09-07 01:52:07 · 25 answers · asked by Storm Rider 4 in Family

My son's father and I started having problems about 6 months ago, (our relationship was never really great). We got to the point where we were living together (until I could get out on my own), but were no longer in a relationship. I started talking to another guy about 3 mos ago and a month ago, (right after I moved out from living with my son's father), the other guy and I had sex once.
Anyway, my son's father and I have did a lot of talking and have decided that we really want to try and make things work. Should I tell him about the other guy even though we were broken up? I am pretty sure he was talking to another girl, too (but of course he wouldn't admit it. Would you want to know???

2006-09-07 01:51:48 · 13 answers · asked by Momin2005 1 in Singles & Dating

Our sex life has decreased significantly lately even though he still flirts with me all the time. Take yesterday for instance. While we were at the grocery store, he kept making references to what he was going to do to me later that night (if you know what I mean) and stealing grabs of my butt when no one was looking. When we got home, this continued while we were making dinner & doing the dishes. He even put his hands down my pants several times. But when we went to bed, nothing. Just an "I love you" and a cuddle before he fell asleep. When I asked him about it this morning, he told me he feels pressured to perform every time we have sex and he was worried that after a couple of beers last night, that he might not be able to. I have to admit, this isn't the first time in the past week that I have asked him what's up? He said the more I keep on him about it, the more pressured he feels. He told me that I need to leave it alone and it will get better the less he feels pressure

2006-09-07 01:51:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I Am Messing Around With A 54 Year Old Married Man And I Am 20 Years Old. I Been Messing Around With Him Since Last September 2005. He Has A Son Who Is 20 And He Is My Friend And A Daughter Who Is 17 And His Daughter Caught Us Having Sex Once Before But She Did Not Say Nothing To Nobody Because She Has Autistic And She Has A Mind Of A 6 Year Old. This Married Man Wants To Leave His Wife And Marry Me... But I Do Not Know If He Will Leave His Wife Of 21 Years! The Sex Is Good And He Always Said I Love You To Me All The Time And I Do Not Know What To Do. But I Love Him! We Never Use Protection But He Pulls Out And Ejaculate On My Stomach! We Have Had Sex In Werid Places! Nobody Knows About This Relationship And He Plans On Getting A Divorced From His Wife When His Daughter Turns 18! He Already Asked His Wife For A Divorce But She Say Things Will Work Out And He Thinks Things Won't Work Out! This Relationship Between Me And Him Started When I Went Over There And Fixed His Computer And I Saw Porn On His Computer And Then I Ask Him About It On-Line And He Said It Was His And We Started Messing Around And Other Stuff!!!

2006-09-07 01:51:12 · 25 answers · asked by ~Metalman Princess~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 01:50:44 · 20 answers · asked by bestofintent 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 01:50:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-07 01:50:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we love each other very much and do a lot of stuff 2gether we live 2gether there is 1 major problem a year ago our sex life went rite down hill with only having a physical relationship 3 times a month sometimes less it all started when e was having problems with his business so that went on for about six months he put it down to stress so i surported him through this eventually it all got sorted out his business is now doing wel. The problem went on and we were rowing a lot now cus i fely very rejected and thought it was me he said it was cus e was feeling pressurised which i can understand that is a turn off so i backed off it still went on so he went 2 the doctors and he said that the doctor said it is the tablet he is on for a stomach problem he has, he said e is gona try and gradually come off them and go on 2 different tablets as it would make him ill if e just came off them i realy dont knw if e is being honest oris it just anexcuse?

2006-09-07 01:49:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How would you conclude that one friend is of good character as opposed to another friend?And what determines the quality of the character?

2006-09-07 01:48:46 · 4 answers · asked by Joma 1 in Friends

2006-09-07 01:47:11 · 16 answers · asked by acilias 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's nothing wrong with responding to my smile with a smile of your own is there?
Or are you really so great that I don't deserve a bit of civility?

2006-09-07 01:46:34 · 30 answers · asked by Woody 2 in Singles & Dating

just wondering cause it seems like all the guy's iv'e been with runs as soon as they found out.

2006-09-07 01:46:16 · 25 answers · asked by badgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have already been married before. so it's not my first.

2006-09-07 01:45:16 · 21 answers · asked by Jodi J 1 in Weddings

2006-09-07 01:44:58 · 16 answers · asked by moonlight666 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 01:44:19 · 13 answers · asked by stufran 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 01:44:17 · 13 answers · asked by ztt_66 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yesterday, he threw it in my face that he wanted to marry someone who was financially independent and I should have been up-front with him. You see, he answered an ad I had placed to meet someone nice for casual dates. He responded and one of the things he mentioned was that he wanted someone who was financially independent. I was divorced and living on my own and it is true I only had about $50 thousand. to my name whereas he owned a house, car, boat, many investments. Within a few months, we went on a trip to Mexico together and I paid for half of all expenses. We moved in together and have since married. My ex was paying me some money but did not really have much so my husband said it was ok if I did not accept any more money from him so I agreed. Now my ex is fighting serious cancer and still scrimping by, so I would not ask him to resume paying me.
My husband is retired and does not want me to get a job as it would tie us down. He also resents my health problems. Answer?

2006-09-07 01:43:12 · 12 answers · asked by Lean on Me 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been dating this guy for almost 2 years and he is always talking about the future, how do i kno hes the one i should be with forever?

2006-09-07 01:41:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 01:41:27 · 10 answers · asked by sugrat 1 in Singles & Dating

Biggest Fantasy........?????????

2006-09-07 01:41:26 · 31 answers · asked by sexy_babe 1 in Singles & Dating

what do i do...dad or mom

2006-09-07 01:39:53 · 17 answers · asked by cheer4ever 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A girl once told me I had nice shoulders.....it seemed such a desperate attempt to find something about me to be nice about. can you beat that?

2006-09-07 01:38:28 · 18 answers · asked by jonny_nowhere 2 in Singles & Dating

your birthday, anniversary ,any special moment or a new car.....or something else?????????

2006-09-07 01:37:32 · 17 answers · asked by sweet girl 4 in Friends

Would now be the right time to ask her to move in together?

2006-09-07 01:37:26 · 10 answers · asked by phil5775 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 01:36:00 · 17 answers · asked by cartman 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to have my penis removed soon for medical reasons. This is my second question about this , with the first one being more vague and normal. Please don't treat me like a pervert. Just trying to figure out what likfe is going to be like.

2006-09-07 01:35:49 · 16 answers · asked by fragen1972 1 in Singles & Dating

I guess every guy wants to know this^^

2006-09-07 01:35:39 · 12 answers · asked by yaki 1 in Singles & Dating

Good looking
Intelligent
Popular with the ladies in arts club
A great dancer
Musical
A thinker, not a feeler
Some people are scared of him
Has a powerful (sometimes scary) presence
Always has an answer for everything. Cannot be outsmarted
Confident
Unpredictable
Clean living (no alcohol, no drugs, no sex, no girls) and totally attractive
Everyone has a crush on him

What do you guys think he thinks of himself, and girls?

2006-09-07 01:34:52 · 7 answers · asked by Simply Sasa 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 01:34:24 · 12 answers · asked by acilias 1 in Singles & Dating