I am going to have my penis removed soon for medical reasons. This is my second question about this , with the first one being more vague and normal. Please don't treat me like a pervert. Just trying to figure out what likfe is going to be like.
2006-09-07 01:35:49 · 16 answers · asked by fragen1972 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the part about sleeping with other men was because I already asked a normal question about if someone would have a relatioship with a man without a penis. Everybody said no. So I thought maybe about the possibility of letting her be with other men.
2006-09-07 01:41:34 · update #1
I would rather talk about this in person. Mail me.
2006-09-07 01:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by mortisia2121 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a lady. I am a guy. But I have had some experience with people with issues about this. Your life if fixing to really make a drastic change and you need a lot of support. I am guessing this operation is not due to gender dysphoria (being a woman in a man's body) but because you have a physical, medical need (as opposed to an emotional, psychic and physical need in the case of gender identity disorder).
If you are a straight man and like women, you will likely experience something like what happens to women who have breast cancer and have to have a masectomy. Women's breasts are so much a part of their identity. I mean, they are designed for a woman's body to perform part of a biological function. When they have them removed there is tremendous trauma, emotionally psychically, Etc.
I suggest you explore the idea of getting a prostetic penis implant. They can build one. Yes. They have the technology. This device will have a pump which you can use to gain erection so you can at least give a femal partner satisfaction that way. They should be able to put some nerves in there so you can feel something. They do it when they create a penis from a vagina and a vagina from a penis. This way you could enjoy it too.
And of course, there are the other ways to achieve intimacy, sensuality, sexual satisfaction.Of course, it will take a special woman to really be able to handle any lf this. But, then it takes a special woman for all of us men. Good luck. Don't panic. You can make it.
2006-09-07 01:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the difference of being with out a penis or having ED. My late husband had ED, due to taking so many medications, I loved him no matter what. I would of never thought of having sex with another man. He passed a little over a year ago, and I still haven't been with anyone.
This may sound weird to a man, but we are not in "Love" with your penis's like you guys are... I know that you are probably in shock over this, but to most of us women there is more in our lives worth living than to worship a mans body part.
2006-09-07 01:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I am sorry that this had happened to you but as for a relationship with your girlfriend or wife you don't need to let her sleep with another man. There are other ways you can satisfy her and there are also toys. If she loves you she will deal with what ever situation arises and also try and satisfy you in some way as well. Good luck to you and God Bless.
2006-09-07 01:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by ws_422 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa that's a real serious question..well it all depended if i connected and feel in love with the person. Sex is an issue..but i wouldn't sleep with other men..because that not me. If i really loved him and wanted to be with him, then it wouldn't matter...and i guess I'd just have to pleasure myself. You can also pleasure a woman if you don't have a penis...orally or with toys. God bless you and i hope you find your way!!!!!
2006-09-07 01:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm an Aries woman and that i'm very prevalent of my signal i trust that if I dated an Aries guy there will be fireworks as we both battled for supremacy!! i do not trust we would have a lengthy time period courting, yet a couple of minutes one would under no circumstances be boring! i do no longer recommend a wedding ceremony between 2 Arians. we are more beneficial positive matched to our polar opposite( thats Libra) , and thats who i'm courting right this moment!!
2016-10-15 23:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl loves you there is ways around you not having a penis and her being fateful to you.Just don't settle for anything.
2006-09-07 01:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you ask a professional a question like that. No straight woman would like that type of relationship initially. Good luck to you.
2006-09-07 01:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dude. That totally defeats the purpose of a relationship.
2006-09-07 01:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by Simply Sasa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the man is worth fightin for,sure.....
but would you be able to know that ur woman is havin sex with another?
2006-09-07 01:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋