what do i do...dad or mom
2006-09-07 01:39:53 · 17 answers · asked by cheer4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dad.more fun
2006-09-07 01:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Alana. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all it depends on how old you are. If your over 13 then you can make that decision and choose. We don't know what your home life is like so it is really hard to give you an answer. All I can say is to trust your heart and explain to your parents that whom ever you choose to live with that you are not doing it to hurt the other ones feelings. Good luck to you. Don't listen to the others posting rude comments about the way you spelled divorce. Your probably young and that shouldn't of even been an issue.
2006-09-07 08:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by ws_422 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no need for you to choose!
they will both be there for you no matter what! my parents got divorsed when i was 3 i lived with my mom in the week and my dad at weekends! it worked out really well! see what u like best b4 you do anything! remember they will both respect ur decision! hope this helps
good luck!
2006-09-07 08:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by jenzi_e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your parents divorced. It can be a sad time for everyone but just remember that BOTH of your parents love you and they did not get divorced because of you it was just that they couldn't live together anymore. Time heals all wounds.
2006-09-07 08:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, dont' stress too much... you dont' have to deciede on one or the other... or do you?
anyway, most of the time you will get to have time with them both... dont worry too much about it, for more than likely, it may be less stressful to you if they aren't around each other fighting.
but if you have to choose one... think of why the divorce is going on... did someone cheat... ask questions, they have to answer you.. then, based on your moral perspective, choose from the knowledge that you have been given, to make the best decisions..
and try to ster clear of taking sides though... its hard to do with too much information... but you will see better and lighter if you do this..
2006-09-07 08:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not split the time? Unless there is one that you prefer. That is not an easy question but hopefully threw it all they will make it feel like they both are there for you.
2006-09-07 09:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont get to choose but sometimes you do , i wouldnt know how to answer this is really ur decision o yea and im srry ur parent r getin a divorce
2006-09-07 08:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, it's spelled "divorce."
Second, are you asking if you should live with one parent or the other? If so, live with Mom.
2006-09-07 08:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would pick whichever one is handling it most maturely. Or tell the judge that you love them equally and won't choose between them.
2006-09-07 08:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by Milana P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live with mom but often visit dad
2006-09-07 08:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't tell you the answer to that! You have to ask yourself and follow your heart!
2006-09-07 08:45:43 · answer #11 · answered by Love or hate? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋