I Am Messing Around With A 54 Year Old Married Man And I Am 20 Years Old. I Been Messing Around With Him Since Last September 2005. He Has A Son Who Is 20 And He Is My Friend And A Daughter Who Is 17 And His Daughter Caught Us Having Sex Once Before But She Did Not Say Nothing To Nobody Because She Has Autistic And She Has A Mind Of A 6 Year Old. This Married Man Wants To Leave His Wife And Marry Me... But I Do Not Know If He Will Leave His Wife Of 21 Years! The Sex Is Good And He Always Said I Love You To Me All The Time And I Do Not Know What To Do. But I Love Him! We Never Use Protection But He Pulls Out And Ejaculate On My Stomach! We Have Had Sex In Werid Places! Nobody Knows About This Relationship And He Plans On Getting A Divorced From His Wife When His Daughter Turns 18! He Already Asked His Wife For A Divorce But She Say Things Will Work Out And He Thinks Things Won't Work Out! This Relationship Between Me And Him Started When I Went Over There And Fixed His Computer And I Saw Porn On His Computer And Then I Ask Him About It On-Line And He Said It Was His And We Started Messing Around And Other Stuff!!!
2006-09-07 01:51:12 · 25 answers · asked by ~Metalman Princess~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
His Wife Is Going To Court On September 26, 2006 At 1:00 P.M. To Have Full Rights Over Their Daughter!!!!!
2006-09-07 01:59:52 · update #1
Well after couple of years, he will find someone younger than you.
2006-09-07 01:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The age is not a problem but the being married is. Do you honestly thin that when you are married to him that he is going to be faith full? I was with his wife now. My father use to mess around on my mother and there was this woman that he told he was going to leave us for. He never did. He told every woman that he mess with something that wasn't true. In the end my mother left him. It was then that he realized how much he loved her and how he messed up. As for getting caught having sex by the Autistic daughter that is sick. What kind of father lets that happen? There is more to love then just sex. Don't believe everything that you? There is not certainty in what he says. If he does then I just hope that he doesn't do to you what he did to her.
2006-09-07 09:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What could you possibly have in common with a 54 year old married man. For God sake's girl - his son is your age.
Don't count on him leaving anytime soon. They often say the will, but reality is he won't. You have been with him for over a year, and by now divorce proceedings should have been set in motion if he was serious about leaving his wife and children.
Let him go, unless you enjoy sharing him and a love triangle. Remember, if he cheated on his wife with you, the chances he will be cheating on you if you marry him will be just as great.
2006-09-07 09:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are so young and have so much life to live. You are living your life being distructive. He is a married man with kids and he is way to old for you. He is 34 years older then you. You are betraying his wife and thinking nothing about it. I say get out right now and start living life as a 20 year old. There are so many men out in this world but why would you rather settle for a married man who has children?
2006-09-07 09:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i think u should really wait to enter in any relation with him.... firstly the age gap will alwaly create problem in future,,,, in the begining all looks fine but when u actually start staying together than the problems will arise... secondly if he can leave the married relation of 21 yrs for u ..how sure u can be that he will not leave u n go to other woman afterall u have relation just since last sept.... my advice is u give serious thought to both the things n stop this relation n it would be better that wait for the rite time u will find a rite guy of ur age with will be much better place to spend ur rest of life... good luck
2006-09-07 09:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by AM 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is disgusting and sick. First because the man is not only married but has children. If you were any kind of person after letting his daughter walk in on you two you should have ended it then because that is the last straw. There are lots of men that do this all the time, have you ever heard of the expression" I want my cake and it to." Thats what you are to him a piece of cake. Sooner or later he is going to find a fresher peice.Pray and ask God for forgiveness because not only do you need that you need to be able to love yourself.
2006-09-07 09:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you honestly believe he will leave his wife for you? He is only telling you what you want to hear and needless to say you are going for the ride. In additioin, you are not in a relation .. because he isn't really available to be in a relationship with. Wake up and leave it while you can.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-07 08:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
are you seriously asking if this is a good idea? do you want a man who would cheat on a wife he's been with for 21 years? do you think he's going to be any more faithful to you? are you going to care for his autistic daughter?
Just please be careful. the no protection thing is a bad idea. not even b/c of pregnancy, but if he's enough of a perv to be cheating on you with no protection, who else is he hooking up with in the same way? Doesn't matter how much someone says 'I love you." what matters is that they act on it. If he is not willing to leave his wife immediately for you, then dump him and move on. You would be a lot happier with somene your own age who will not think they are way smarter than you and put you at risk like this guy is doing.
2006-09-07 08:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by crystal_sea24 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I guess my answer to you is, grow up. Do you love him, or do you love the sex? And do you want to be with a man that is really that much older than you?
I'm sure you've heard it before, but chances are he is not going to leave his wife for you. And if he did, would you still be into the "relationship". It takes away the thrill if he is all yours now. Also, he is cheating on his wife, what is to keep him from cheating on you?
Run, run far away, and find yourself a man who isn't married and is closer to your own age.
2006-09-07 08:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by co_r_upt 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourself. You are messing about with your friend's father?!? What sort of friend are you?!? He is pathetic and a low-life for doing what he is doing to his wife. She should divorce him not to be with you, but because she deserves better than that. He is clearly a pervert and he will do the same to you eventually. You are just a narrow minded girl who needs to grow up and get a life. Find someone your own age and as for his son, well he should find a better friend than you!
2006-09-07 09:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think that if he leaves his wife and marries you he is not going to do the same to you. Are you Stupid? How can you break a family like that. Get out of it, you can find something better and not have seconds best. Think about what you are doing and the pain that both of you are going to cause.
2006-09-07 08:56:29 · answer #11 · answered by lluvia2wcc 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋