Is this problem ever gona get sorted please could i have advise?

Question

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we love each other very much and do a lot of stuff 2gether we live 2gether there is 1 major problem a year ago our sex life went rite down hill with only having a physical relationship 3 times a month sometimes less it all started when e was having problems with his business so that went on for about six months he put it down to stress so i surported him through this eventually it all got sorted out his business is now doing wel. The problem went on and we were rowing a lot now cus i fely very rejected and thought it was me he said it was cus e was feeling pressurised which i can understand that is a turn off so i backed off it still went on so he went 2 the doctors and he said that the doctor said it is the tablet he is on for a stomach problem he has, he said e is gona try and gradually come off them and go on 2 different tablets as it would make him ill if e just came off them i realy dont knw if e is being honest oris it just anexcuse?

Answer 1

Any medication, wether it be that or depressants, anything needs some time to have your body return to normal, lower doses until you dont need any is very common.

Answer 2

I found it very hard to understand what you said, but I'll try to give you some advice on what I think you said. First, stress will affect your sex drive for some people. Stress totally kills mine. And second, certain meds will also kill your sex drive, especially if the doctor is willing to take him off of it. If the meds had nothing to do with it, the doc would leave him on it. Cut your man some slack. I think he's telling ya the truth. If after the meds have gotten out of his system, he still doesn't want to have sex, then worry about it. But in all likelihood, it has nothing to do with you. Chill out.

Answer 3

You'd do well to put some punctuation in your question.

In essence though; you guys need to go to counselling. It's good that you have been talking about it, but you need an imparital person to talk you through the issues.

In reality, it sounds like the issue has become bigger than reality. You have some decent conversations, a bit of physical space maybe and think sound like they'll be okay.

Answer 4

Okay here goes. We all experience lust for the first one to two years, then that lust turns to love. Sometime love gets in the way of life, such as job stress, etc. I'm sure he is having ulcer problems now, because of the stress. Also that medicine may be causing his ED. He needs swallow his pride and ask the doctor for one of the erection medicines.
Now for you. Be patient with him, it sounds as though you love him very much. You could help him by surprising him with a date night, it would allow you to get all dressed up in your sexy outfit, this will remind him of why you guys our together in the first place. Do not pressure him for sex, just be there for him and keep reminding him that you love him very much. Good Luck.

Answer 5

Try something else (I don't mean kinky!!!)

Get a nice video/DVD and curl up together on the couch. Hug, kiss, touch. You don't have to have intercourse to get pleasure. Don't aim for intercourse just being close.

What about giving him a massage and then getting him to massage you? That is very relaxing and you can do it with as many or as few clothes on as you wish.

What about going on a holiday? Just a short break would be good - somewhere with no stress. Maybe a short cruise????

If you don't get any closer then maybe it is time to have a break from each other.

Answer 6

i think you should sit down and talk about both your problems, tell him how you feel . thats all i can say , good luck

Answer 7

i dont see a problem i see life in general !!!

Answer 8

change is required