Family & Relationships - 7 September 2006

2006-09-07 16:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by cassie 1 in Singles & Dating

well we have been bf for 15yrs and i have ben in lv with this person for a while now i have told ct this and says we can only be just friends but ct has gave ne so many signs that ct feels the same and types me on messenger and tells in so amnty words when we find ourselfs starring at each other i can see the love in cts eyes and the world just stops and i know ct feels the same too we laugh,hang out go places and get along very well we are truly soulmates i believe and i feel that she does too and is in deniel she knows i would do anything for her well the problem is we went to a hotel labor day weekend with my daughter her friend and cts two grandkids and for 2 nights i paid for all of it almost 300 dollars for everything we did.well i've have been having some problems and she is the only person i can talk to about them my only bf here in town well she has been avoiding me the last two days cuting me short on the phone ¬ the least bit interrested in me in anyway ihave asked her to do two small favers for me and i didn.t even get a response bk on that i told ct i was gonna pass over tonight&viste and she said call me first and hesitated to say she might be going by this other girlfriends house to drink and talk and i said ok don't worry about it than and i told her later i've have been needing my so called bf for two days to talk and she blows me off and this hurts my feelings iam a little jealousy about the other friend but iam more hurt that she has no time for me knowing i have these problems she has done this to me before but not offten she has told me she does not want me to move so i delayed moving for at least a month for her and to take care of stuff here i have not done anything wrong to her and i get blowed in the wind she was suposed to help me move a dresser to my storage that was one of my favors i asked of her and she did't even ask about it after she said she would help i know she has a life too and she knows i understand that but i know her when she acts this way it hurts well i left a message on her phone and told her this but i got no return call we are supose to be bf what do i do? and am i wrong for feeling this way?

2006-09-07 16:24:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i only met him a few days ago, but we have talked a lot, but i wouldnt quite say we are "hang out" type of friends. if that makes sense.

2006-09-07 16:23:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey.. i know ppl have diff prefences when it comes to what turns them on..but i'm almost out of ideas... can some guys tell me what turns them on.. or young ladies tell me what works for their guys?.. I know every one is diff.. but im looking for ideas,,,i want a new thing i mean our regulars are neat but i don't wanna bore him later on..i'm intrested in anything no matter how simple it sounds.. plz help./

2006-09-07 16:23:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you are really close with your mom and your step-dad does not allow your husband over or anywhere on his property, just cause he is a different race. Everyone in my family love my husband except the step-dad. I dont want to go for the holidays and birthdays or Sunday dinners if my husband cant come. He is the nicest and hardworking guy I have ever been with and he still wont accept him. My mom has tried and tried to talk to him and even said she was going to leave him but she gets so stressed out, she has heart problems..so I just tell her to leave it alone but what can I do or say to him to try to make him change. Whats wrong with marrying Mexicans, Chinese, African Americans or any other race, DIDNT GOD CREATE US ALL.......AND FOR ALL YALL RACIST PEOPLE KEEP YOUR COMMENTS TO YOUR SELF, I JUST WANT YOUR OPINION, NOT YOUR SARCASIM.

2006-09-07 16:23:19 · 22 answers · asked by na nah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-07 16:23:12 · 43 answers · asked by Lydia 1 in Family

Do men need women more than women need men?
Do women need men more than men need women?
Do they both need each other equally? (that's what I think)
Do they not really need each other?

Please explain your answer, and please be honest. I'm happily married, btw.

2006-09-07 16:22:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 16:22:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If so, why?

If not, why not?

2006-09-07 16:21:56 · 14 answers · asked by Just Ask 2 in Singles & Dating

WHEN I THINK I FIND A GOOD MAN HE TURNS INTO A ASSHOLE AND LEAVES. I DO EVERYTHING HE WANTS SO WHY CNT I FIND A GOOD MAN WHO WILL TREAT ME RIGHT. ALL I WANT TO DO IS HUGE AND KISS AND SPEND TIME TOGETHER WATCHING FOOTBALL GAME.

2006-09-07 16:21:48 · 23 answers · asked by LILYANNA69 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm now at new york for study english... do you wont speack with my..???

2006-09-07 16:21:46 · 3 answers · asked by RobyRoby 2 in Friends

What would you do in that last ten minutes of life and why.

2006-09-07 16:21:06 · 12 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is calling me a hoe! i just don't know why he will call me such a name like that, he know i love him so much and i would do anything for his love and to get on his good side. gosh i just don't get it ...why my boyfrien calling me hoe?

2006-09-07 16:20:15 · 8 answers · asked by kvkj 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 16:19:46 · 6 answers · asked by POLO 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do the wives who stay with these men for life some how get off on the violence?

Whats up with the dynamic I am at a loss .

My wife's family is very stange the father was extrodinarily mean and yet they are together . My wife claims he got off on making her watch him abuse her and the dog etc but dad never hit mom ( I really don't believe he didn't ever hit mom - seems unlikely to me)

But if she is right and he got his jollies from making her watch what was her part in the dynamic.

I am going to try to encourage my wife into turning this all over to the Crown and hopefully the Crown will make these people's lives hell - But I want some help to understand how the pschology of this mess works

2006-09-07 16:19:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-07 16:19:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is being a bossy B***h and then go 2 school and tell peps i have small t.v's and i dont she does and then the next day she'll be nice 2 me should i be her friend?

2006-09-07 16:18:51 · 12 answers · asked by Amber M 2 in Friends

How would you cope with a situation like this..when she shows favoritism towards her children and son/daughter inlaw clearly.. even to her grandchild!
She will treat us differently right infront of everybody including the guest. She will praise and favor the favourite and humiliate and disgrace the unfavorable child and inlaws...
She will cooks and serve and buys gift for her fav and nvr do the same for the one she don favor.. Sometimes we wonder where we do wrong in her eyes..

2006-09-07 16:18:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-07 16:17:46 · 15 answers · asked by Oh Yeah! 2 in Friends

and yu have a child? should yu use it against her as an unfit parent?or chill to keep relations open with yur child?I think she would be guilty in any court?but she keeps calling me? just a way to hassle or is she having guilt?

2006-09-07 16:15:40 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love her to death and I miss her so much, I have talked to her on the phone, not by her choice, I call her at work. We have been married for 12+ years and she suddenly left while I was at work a few days ago. She says that she was miserable for 12 years and she stopped drinking 5 months ago and changed. I asked her why she stayed with me for 12 years if she was miserable, and she replied that she was young and stupid, (she is 12 years younger than I, she is 34 now). I have never even yelled at her but I do admit that I neglected her and spend too much money, mostly on things for us, not going out. Sometimes I'd rather watch TV than have sex with her, which was wrong. I do really love her and want her back. I will love her like she could never expect. Her leaving is an eye opener and I would get rid of every TV in the house just to have my best friend back. I am going through so much gut wrenching pain without her. I don't know what to do to convince her to come back home to her lover

2006-09-07 16:15:22 · 18 answers · asked by sharkscue 3 in Marriage & Divorce

would you be bf to a fat nice dude or to a lean muscular shallow dude

2006-09-07 16:15:16 · 14 answers · asked by teddybears 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok i broke up with my boyfriend b/c he didnt call me to ask me if i wanted to go somewhere and then i called him and ased him if he want to go with me somewhere and he said that he had plans to go off with his friends. And the next day i tried calling him and he didnt answer or call me back. So i texted him the next day and told him that i love him but as a friend and i still wanted us to talk and stuff. How since i havent talked to him my life has been hell cause i really love him more than ever

2006-09-07 16:15:14 · 12 answers · asked by Amber W 2 in Singles & Dating

He has been own his resturant ,it name "The Dry Dock SteakHouse " & Motel.
This place stay closed "Mark Twain Lake".

2006-09-07 16:14:36 · 1 answers · asked by Longdo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i Love this guy, like i really love him, we went out for a little bit but then he broke up with me cuz he was going into highschool and he wouldnt have enough time for me, im glad he did, but i still love him, and then he likes this other girl but she doesnt want to go out with him, and she doesnt know what shes missing out on, and then i like this other guy and we talk every night, but he lives in alabama, and i live in texas, and i like a guy at my school but hes a grade above me, and he is in a different "clich" or whatever, and he has a girlfriend, and i like a guy at my old school, but this girl likes him, so i cant have him, because shes better than me, and my life sucks, i cant have any guy that i like, so why does love have to suck?

2006-09-07 16:14:33 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley T. 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are both informal, and naively attempted to plan our own wedding, without hiring any planners or reading any of the magazines. Surprisingly, we did not get into any wedding planning fights or angst during the whole year of planning...until the morning of...and every potential penned up anxiety was blown up and shared. We both said a lot of things that morning we regret. Luckily, we shook it off, made adjustments, and enjoyed the evening ceremony. Now, we're almost at the end of two years of marriage, and it has been for the most part very typical (happiness with the occasional bumps). However, when the disagreements come out, or when I hear about happy wedding days, I still feel like the marriage is "doomed for a divorce" because of how it started. I know it's silly...but it's difficult.

Any insight???

2006-09-07 16:13:52 · 6 answers · asked by arkin 1 in Weddings

2006-09-07 16:13:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think at that moment ? When she looks at you and twirls her hair
round her finger ??? What are your thoughts ??.........I might try this, if it works...

2006-09-07 16:13:26 · 9 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5 in Singles & Dating

Mw and my girlfriend were talking today and the mentoning of the security of our relationship came up. We talked about it for a bit and she told me that 7 years is a long time to be with someone and said she needs to "expirience" other people but then come back to me. I wondered why she would want to expirience other people to end up comming back to me.....it really makes no sense. Then she asked me if she broke up with me if I'd take her back....I told her that I didn't know. Would it be wise to take her back if she did this?

2006-09-07 16:12:59 · 15 answers · asked by yotazama 1 in Singles & Dating

some guy i use to date told me he was going to go over niagra falls in a barrell, can he really do that

2006-09-07 16:12:44 · 6 answers · asked by ladylunamina 3 in Friends