i Love this guy, like i really love him, we went out for a little bit but then he broke up with me cuz he was going into highschool and he wouldnt have enough time for me, im glad he did, but i still love him, and then he likes this other girl but she doesnt want to go out with him, and she doesnt know what shes missing out on, and then i like this other guy and we talk every night, but he lives in alabama, and i live in texas, and i like a guy at my school but hes a grade above me, and he is in a different "clich" or whatever, and he has a girlfriend, and i like a guy at my old school, but this girl likes him, so i cant have him, because shes better than me, and my life sucks, i cant have any guy that i like, so why does love have to suck?
2006-09-07 16:14:33 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley T. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you have to be with a guy at all? You should be out having fun with your friends and not focus on some need to have a man in your life.
2006-09-07 16:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see? You have so much to talk and trash over with your girl friends. Have great slumber parties and enjoy your schoolhood. I felt the same way in highschool and it puts you in a position where you feel desperate and the minute someone asks you out you are likely to say yes even before you thoroughly examine whether you really want to date that person. Then, you'll end up dating a whole bunch of guys and look back on and be like "why?" Take the philosophy I took when it got hard being patient for my time. The more I want it, the more it won't happen for me. If lions can smell fear, men can smell desperation.
2006-09-08 00:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Ximomila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why Love? Why serious relationship? Enjoy being young and playing the field. You can see whomever you chose, talk to whomever you want. I doubt that anyone is better than you. Don't forget that guys like a challenge. So just have fun. Love will come, but don't worry about it now.
2006-09-07 23:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, stop knocking yourself even if you feel you don't have any good qualities. You do, so stop tearing yourself down. Part of the reason i think you can't have any guy you want is because of the negative attitude. Love doesn't suck but lust does and that is what is going on. i learned stop worrying enjoy life and one day the perfect person will fall in your lap when you least expect it
2006-09-07 23:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Natalia's mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you apart pain. I hate love.”
Neil Gaiman quote
2006-09-07 23:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that's the way it is for little girls like you. you think you're in love with someone at least once a week and will never love again if you don't get this guy, but only until next week when you're in love with someone else. don't worry, it will all sort if self out eventually.
2006-09-07 23:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O dear...thats very bad.....but I guess u r jus getting infatuated wit every second guy who appeals to U....jus relax....chill out wit friendds.....Stop hunting for new and thinking abt all those wrong guys who U think U love.....Life wud feel better..once U r clear from all the clutter....God will send U that Perfect Person who wud never ever let U down..............lleave evrything on God and time ...evrythin wil go 5n.....
cheers......
2006-09-08 00:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by Maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear be optimistic.how you view your life determines how you live your life.If you think your life sucks..that is because you suck.Love stinks because your beliefs on love..stinks.think in a more perspective way.he do not deserve you....it's not your lost but his..and besides i'm sure there is someone more worthy of your love..so keep your head up
2006-09-07 23:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by chirssy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The highest loves, come with the risk of the greatest falls. Don't give up trying to find what you are looking for; for the more pain you suffer, the more you are looking, and the sooner you will find it!
2006-09-07 23:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh darling...i know exactly what ur going tru...i feel the same way...it sometimes seems that what we want we can't have..which does suck...but there is also another quote i try to believe in...which is "The best things in life, our worth waiting for."...so i guess that time will come...when we will meet mr perfect....
2006-09-07 23:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by jillber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋