Family & Relationships - 6 September 2006

so this weekend a friend of ours was in a car wreck, he was hit by a drunk underage driver... the underage driver broke our friends neck.. he will be able to walk .. he contacted a lawer and they are planning to sue for 3 million dollars do you think that is alot or do you think it is enough.. thanks ahead of time.. also to top it off the kid steps out of his car after running the red light he spits on my friends face and says why the f-!@^ did you crash my moms car

2006-09-06 17:04:12 · 16 answers · asked by alex v 1 in Friends

My sister called at 3:15AM b/c my nephew (age 8) was crying from missing my mom (she lives with us).So the heck what! I got very upset b/c I can't think of anybody else she would have disrespected like that."Do you know what time it is",I said and continued to tell her off.She did apologize but asked me was our mother awake.OF COURSE I HUNG UP ON HER!The next day she called and asked me to extend her apologies to my husband (who agreed that it was disrespectful)I told her I would and I did. Later on she called back,got my husband on the phone and apologized.Damn!Shouldn't she have left it alone?Here's the thing-He got on the phone and all he said was,"huh,oh yeah,oh that's ok, don't worry about it" I felt like I was just standing out in left field all by myself. As if he was saying,"don't worry,she's mad but I'm not" I got so mad! In return,I got her back on the phone and asked her why she had to call back. He starts yelling while she's on the phone and I hit him in the face with phone

2006-09-06 17:03:46 · 24 answers · asked by Just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How does a 14 year old tell a 32 year old she thinks they are drinking too much?
I have this friend, that is WAY older, more like a mom to me. She has been drinking alot of alcohol lately. I dont want her to become and alcoholic. I tried writing her a letter, but she took it the wrong way... how could i tell her nicely?

2006-09-06 17:02:56 · 7 answers · asked by cluelessclumsyblonde 1 in Friends

My sister called at 3:15AM b/c my nephew (age 8) was crying from missing my mom (she lives with us).So the heck what! I got very upset b/c I can't think of anybody else she would have disrespected like that."Do you know what time it is",I said and continued to tell her off.She did apologize but asked me was our mother awake.OF COURSE I HUNG UP ON HER!The next day she called and asked me to extend her apologies to my husband (who agreed that it was disrespectful)I told her I would and I did. Later on she called back,got my husband on the phone and apologized.Damn!Shouldn't she have left it alone?Here's the thing-He got on the phone and all he said was,"huh,oh yeah,oh that's ok, don't worry about it" I felt like I was just standing out in left field all by myself. As if he was saying,"don't worry,she's mad but I'm not" I got so mad! In return,I got her back on the phone and asked her why she had to call back. He starts yelling while she's on the phone and I hit him in the face with phone

2006-09-06 17:02:21 · 10 answers · asked by Just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone slept with ex husband or wife even though they are in a relationship with someone else?

2006-09-06 17:02:16 · 26 answers · asked by krazy_kiss1469 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like a boy I work with. I think he likes me too, but he is really friendly and is nice to everyone. Coming back to work after holidays, he gave me a big hug, and asked how my summer was. I only worked with him a few weeks before my vacation. Before i left he gave me a kiss on the cheek. But I am not sure if he is like this with everyone or just me. I want to get to know him, to see if i really do like him, but i'm really shy and self concious. What signs should I look for if he really likes me, or if he isn't interested and i'm annoying him? How do i get to know him without being obvious?!?

2006-09-06 17:02:01 · 8 answers · asked by shy_gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I slapped her around as a warning and she called the police. Can I make a complaint against her for trespass? She didn't get arrested and doesn't live there.

2006-09-06 17:01:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 17:00:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 16:59:46 · 8 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Friends

2006-09-06 16:59:38 · 7 answers · asked by lachelle_09 1 in Friends

I plan on trying to get a hold of him tommorrow, and see if he can check into the salvation army and possibly help him find a job of sorts. I always feel bad (not sorry) for people who are at rock bottom. This is why we have alot of homeless people. And no, I am married and I have also brainstormed with my husband about this. He agrees with me. But I dont want to loan money, he needs to work for it.

2006-09-06 16:59:21 · 3 answers · asked by vickieann 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, maybe embarrass isn't quite the word. we just want to do something special she will remember and that will be FUN. She is well aware that we are plotting something and is excited. I just want original ideas. this is not me being hateful to my buddy, you should see what she did to me for mine.

2006-09-06 16:59:05 · 15 answers · asked by ambrdragn1981 1 in Friends

How does she/he make your day better????

2006-09-06 16:58:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 16:57:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 16:57:32 · 5 answers · asked by ********** 2 in Family

My fiance is such a know it all. Nearly everything I state or have an opinion about he cuts down, questions or says it isn't so. It's getting to the point where I am afraid to talk about anything more than just the weather. Even when I try to tell him how I'm feeling about "us", if I'm feeling insecure or just want to be reassured, he jumps down my throat and accuses me of being "so negative all the time" and tells me I'm driving him crazy. All of this is wearing me down so much, but I am so afraid to address it as I feel as though I will never find anyone else. I know all of this sounds so pathetic and that I probably need to grow some balls, but it's hard to actually do. We've been looking at houses together to buy and even with that I don't have voice - it's like the decisions are all his to make. How do I deal with this in a constructive kind of way?

2006-09-06 16:56:48 · 20 answers · asked by gwibsy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I return back to my house after 12 hrs (job+travel). My husband returns 2 hrs after me. We have 2 children aged 8 & 2 between us. I have to do the cooking+taking care of children+laundry after my work. My husband does not understand this and expect me to do things more quickly but does not lend a hand due to his busy schedule. During weekends, he loves to visit his friend/relations. He says this he does for keeping up his social circle. I get very tired and iritated and show my frustration on my children by beating and shouting hystriacally. I am trying very hard to find a maid but this part of the world maids are like hot cakes who keep jumping house-to-house. I love my husband very much but how do I make him to understand that house work is as much a part of man as full time job is for a woman? Through out the week myself and my children suffer and during week ends my husband is back to the square in visiting his friends/relations/games etc.

2006-09-06 16:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-06 16:55:22 · 29 answers · asked by I know nothing 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 16:55:07 · 13 answers · asked by Rishi 2 in Friends

2006-09-06 16:54:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean the signs of it,and serious answers only please.

2006-09-06 16:54:37 · 25 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

While over my soon to be husbands house. I was very embarrassed. I did not know what to say. Excuse me seemed to not be enough. We do not live together and I just felt weird about it. I guess it is a common thing in marriages though. Was it better to not say anything? He acted like he did not hear it but I know he did.

2006-09-06 16:54:33 · 30 answers · asked by devinshell 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 16:54:19 · 23 answers · asked by rocky 1 in Weddings

(or equivalent in foriegn currency)
...................................................To spend on a first date with a special person...How would you use it? Creativity is good.


(just curious)

2006-09-06 16:53:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-06 16:53:15 · 10 answers · asked by I know nothing 1 in Singles & Dating

could it be his age?im 32 he is 37. i thought a man gets his sexual peak at 40

2006-09-06 16:52:42 · 10 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-06 16:51:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this hott guy i have a crush on i'm wondering how i should ask if he likes me.

2006-09-06 16:51:00 · 5 answers · asked by specially edumacated 1 in Friends

I think few couples do

2006-09-06 16:50:10 · 9 answers · asked by get_me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He says it is me but I say it is him. He treats me really bad emotionally and mentally. I can't even act like myself, I have to act like he wants me to. I am tired of being treated this way but I don't want to lose him because I still love him. I just want him to treat me better. Should I go along with the seperation idea or what?

2006-09-06 16:50:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce