i mean the signs of it,and serious answers only please.
2006-09-06 16:54:37 · 25 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Losing weight,
new hair style,
new "schedule"
New care in how they look, clothes, etc.
May be super super nice to you (to cover up their guilt).
you can see on www.womansavers.com if you're guy's already been busted.
2006-09-06 16:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Signs? Well if oyur asking then it is probably happening, but the best way to find out is just come out and ask. If you have been with this person for awhile, you will know if they are lying . Signs would include staying gone for longer periods of time, change in personal apperance, a feeling of distance between the two of you, there are so many signs and then again there may be none at all. If it were me, i would just ask and see what happens. Good luck
2006-09-07 00:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by BabygirlSr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually you just know. They start acting strange. He may take more showers, try working out more, dress nicer, etc. In other words, look for things that he is starting to do that he didn't do before. He stays out later (usually the excuse is he's working longer). Maybe when he comes home, he goes immediately to the bathroom to take a "shower". Girl, there are soooo many clues, 'cuz men don't know how to cover their tracks very well. Good luck and remember that HE'S not worth all the heartache and headaches he's causing you....
2006-09-07 01:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sex no love ignores what u do doesn't care about how Ur day went hanging out to much with his friends if u have a feeling that person is cheating then usually Ur right ask be straight out talk that's the only way what could happen he can tell u the truth or lie either way sooner or later you will find out if that person is cheating
2006-09-07 00:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Roxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change in their appearance (dressing better, more conscious of their underware, etc). They may become even more away from you or suddenly have to go somewhere else all the time without you. They do tend to be distant and not really with you ,however, if you're already having troubles, that won't really help.
You know what I heard once and I KNOW it to be true? If you have doubts...you're probably right.
2006-09-06 23:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not coming home after work on time like he should. If his stories do not add up on where he has been. If you feel like he is hiding something but cannot pin point what it is. It does not necessarily mean he is cheating because he does not want to have sex as often as he use to.
2006-09-06 23:57:17 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be suss if my partner kept mentioning another girls name in converstaions or if he is secretive with his mobile, or doesnt want to take you out with him when he goes out. There's so many signs but it's hard to know for sure unless you have proof.
I have cheated before (shame) and think I am pretty clued on as to what signs I would be looking out for.
2006-09-06 23:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by xoxnarellexox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is late more than normal from work forgetting small things, seems to have his mind else where while in a conversation. putting blame on you, for little things.dressing differently, change in cologne, unusual new items, that maybe he wouldn't normally buy. jumping when the phone rings, starring out the window. good luck
2006-09-07 00:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by koni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say...
gets home later than usual from work
won't bother you for sex
phone hang-ups
not talkative
looks to get out of the house
on the computer more than usual
on the phone more than usual
dressing better
2006-09-07 00:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r smart and he is sleeping with u then surely u will grasp the sign....less time he will be there spending with u... not interested in u....c some men are very smart they will try to out do u but believe me women they ve the absolute power to smell rotten egg...just ve to keep a close watch
2006-09-06 23:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by Jessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sudden changes in..... dress style, hair style, time coming home, excuses as to why, hang up phone calls.... temper flair ups....... degrading comments directed at you..... no sex or sometimes even more than usual sex..... weird but true..... missing money.... smells on clothes (perfume), lipstick marks..... unusually rumpled clothes...... dont talk, cant look you in the eyes, less time spent together or none at all..... listen to his words, is there a name that keeps popping up ?? phone calls from a co-worker that is female ?? if yes to any of the above look out, watch, listen and really pay attention......... God bless
2006-09-07 00:00:42 · answer #11 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋