Family & Relationships - 2 September 2006

my family doesn't support that idea. I believe that love conqures all. We are to be married soon and I was wanting to know if you all have any tips or words of advice.

We have agreed to respect each others faith and teach our children about both faiths. We have also agreed to not try and change the others faith. I am excited to hear what you have to say. Thank you very much!

2006-09-02 13:24:26 · 27 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My story has been posted in part several times, just to recap, somewhat.
My wife passed away two years ago, we where in love, and remained together marries for thirty years. She probably loved me more. However we can never undo actions, we’ve done and consequences of them. I sure was not a perfect husband, surely I didn't deserve what happened. My wife cheated on me after three years of marriage, for three years.
We never went to counseling nor spoke of it, as per her. Of course and I was always blamed me for everything, I didn’t love her I drank to much, I this and that. That being said my problem with this, beside the obvious, is why did she not give me, my freedom. If she wanted someone else than tell me. I would not have liked it, but much better than being played. Once I found out the little rat, she was going with, a real live gangster,
Who was connected, twenty years her senior, went scurrying for cover, I mean literally. Nonetheless I would have found some one, I not bad looking, a pretty kind and caring person. I had plenty of girl friends before I was married, she had enough too. I thought that, that life was behind me. When we decided to work on our marriage, though she wanted counseling, or to speak of it. She felt the shame of it, but what did I feel. We had one child in 1979 we had one child in 1983 and one in 1984, eleven months apart. Though I did participate in their conception, but also believed they were to keep me from leaving, if you knew me, you'd understand how I am. Well here is my question, why not give me the same opportunity as she. If she didn’t care for me, bring it out and tell me, or set me free.

2006-09-02 13:23:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-02 13:23:21 · 38 answers · asked by wild 9 1 in Family

I generally try to ring her 3 times a day...is that average?

2006-09-02 13:22:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so this year I met a really nice guy. He lives in upstate ( like 2 hours away from me). We became friends straight from the start and he liked me and i liked him ( really like him). Well, everyone knows those haters that want to ruin your life and this happened to me. He became mad at me and when I tried to ask him why he wouldnt tell me but finally gave in. He told me that he heard lots of stuff about me and he knows its all true. He told me some of the things those people said and of course they turned out to be lies and when I told him that its not true he said that he knows they aren't true, but he also told me that they made him realize that he doesn't know me that well. Well basically he told me that all the things he felt for me were gone and he doesn't like me anymore. I still love him more then anyone else in the world and my friends keep telling me to get over him because he really isn't worth my time and i could find someone better. I still really love himwhat should i do

2006-09-02 13:22:14 · 8 answers · asked by VonDutchPrincess 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I crapped my pants at work. How can I gain my dignity back?

2006-09-02 13:21:17 · 5 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Friends

and tried to mate one. They threw me out. I think they were wrong. What do you think?

2006-09-02 13:21:14 · 21 answers · asked by BadAdvice 3 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy like 4 yrs ago, and i introduced them to the rest of my friends, he liked one of them (the one who is like my best friend) and they've been dating for about 3 years. Now they just broke up. I am still friends with both of them, but the thing is that i have always liked the guy, and many ppl have asked if we're a couple ('cause we get along soo well) and said that we look really good together, that we would make a cute couple. I dont think he see's me that way, but is it wrong if i wish of him like being my boyfriend? Any advice?

2006-09-02 13:18:19 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think so! :P

2006-09-02 13:16:54 · 15 answers · asked by Faaaaabio 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

No I'm not gay.

2006-09-02 13:16:18 · 11 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

i am just wonderin cuz im in that situation where a guy is talkin 2 me more than he even talks 2 his gf

2006-09-02 13:15:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 13:14:35 · 21 answers · asked by Mitch M 1 in Friends

okay my roomate is very big on blaming her problems on me. ive been taking it for 6 months now and finally got sick and tired of it so i packed my stufff and left. now she is all mad and stuff saying im sqrewing up her life and stuff. should i move back and take it or should i stay gone.

2006-09-02 13:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by kittydj 1 in Friends

Ok, I always feel bad when I'm around my friends..like they're better than me or something. And I feel like I'm holding them back. I don't weanna sound like I'm jealous, or I'm freaking out or something crazy..but I don't think this is normal..

2006-09-02 13:12:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was dumped 3times, the girl said she only wants us to be friends and she wont change no matter what i do, but i do like her, should i still pursue or should i stop?

what's the best thing to do?

2006-09-02 13:11:52 · 5 answers · asked by krokster 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 13:10:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What shoul i do? my ex turned me on way 2 much so i wrote a letter that would make him not like me anymore....but i want to be with him sooooo bad. (we broke up before we made out, he broke up with me and still liked me)

2006-09-02 13:09:56 · 8 answers · asked by wolfy's_girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Because I do and it interferes with umm... you know... my gf performing ... err... yah on me. :) any help would be appreciated....

2006-09-02 13:09:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've dated this guy twice now, and am having 2nd thoughts. The first time we were together for a year. We lived together, were engaged, the whole nine yards. But I wasn't ready. I was still battling depression. Once I got better, we decided to give it another shot. That only lasted a few months. So now we're just friends. He sucks as a boyfriend. I know this. So why am I considering getting back with him? I love hanging out with him, he's basically my only friend. He's got an awesome personality, and isn't horrible to look at. But as a boyfriend, no way! My heart knows that he is definately not the one, but my head keeps telling me to go for it. I need some advice. Please help me sort these mixed feelings out!

2006-09-02 13:08:45 · 14 answers · asked by Support Our Troops! 3 in Singles & Dating

would he take the initiative & get tested himself before going back to his g/f or wife or would he "hope for the best."

also would he lie if she forgave him for cheating but asked if he used a condom

this happened to my best friend and I keep telling her to not trust him & get him tested before they have sex again.
would he lie?

I know you don't know him in particular but I'm just wondering what you think. thanks.

2006-09-02 13:08:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Short of padlocking the dresser, what can I do?

2006-09-02 13:08:24 · 16 answers · asked by Maryam B 3 in Family

would he take the initiative & get tested himself before going back to his g/f or wife or would he "hope for the best."

also would he lie if she forgave him for cheating but asked if he used a condom

this happened to my best friend and I keep telling her to not trust him & get him tested before they have sex again.
would he lie?

I know you don't know him in particular but I'm just wondering what you think. thanks.

2006-09-02 13:08:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-02 13:07:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-02 13:07:58 · 26 answers · asked by carlosmg9 1 in Singles & Dating

My husabnd and I have been married for a short period of time but have been together for a few years now. However lately my husband has been working long hours and long days. He does not pay as much attention to me as he use too and now I don't know what to do. I have already treid talking to him but he sais that he is too tired to talk to me about it and so on and so on. What more can I do?

2006-09-02 13:07:44 · 11 answers · asked by latin_honey06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why would a guy won't a video tape of a girl masterbating before he will sleep with her?

2006-09-02 13:07:42 · 1 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

I choose me!

2006-09-02 13:07:36 · 16 answers · asked by humorme! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-02 13:07:26 · 1 answers · asked by blaze1stladyliljez 1 in Friends

2006-09-02 13:07:03 · 4 answers · asked by pinkyswinkys 1 in Friends

2006-09-02 13:06:52 · 8 answers · asked by ChiefNickNameadvancer 3 in Marriage & Divorce