Ok, I always feel bad when I'm around my friends..like they're better than me or something. And I feel like I'm holding them back. I don't weanna sound like I'm jealous, or I'm freaking out or something crazy..but I don't think this is normal..
2006-09-02 13:12:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I do have my own hobbies..They don't know that i feel this way..well one of them knows, and she reacted oddly to it. I don't know why I feel this way. Some of my friends are nice, but that's it.
2006-09-02 13:19:10 · update #1
Some of my friends are rich, I'm middle class..I just wish I could be all happy like them. When I'm around them I feel as if I have to be perfect, and I know that doesn't sound right, but I feel like I can't be myself anymore, or else I'll lose.
2006-09-02 13:39:01 · update #2
You need to work on your self-esteem. Why do you feel this way? Do they ever say anything regarding this? Just remember, you are as good as anyone else. No one is better then you. You need to boost your self-confidence/self-esteem.
2006-09-02 13:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by I love my husband 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found myself feeling the same way growing up. Maybe your atmospheree is not for you. Usually when i am in that situation the atmospher is a reminder of an older time when girls were auditioning for attention and i just refused to cause i knew it was stupid, Although I missed out on some good opportunities because of it. Come to found out everyone was just being them. It's hard though sometimes. If I were you I would try changing the atmosphere a little. Who knows your friends might even enjoy a little change hosted by you. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there.
2006-09-02 20:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by earthmothermoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always used to feel this way. I don't know what causes it. I have a hate for females more as I get older AS FRIENDS. I don't like to have friends. I don't trust them. Period. But I am a lesbian. I don't know if the 2 are related or not. What exactly makes you feel different? Your looks? Your personality is different than theirs? Your views? Perhaps you should find another group of friends who don't make you feel so bad.
2006-09-02 20:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a group of friends that I used to hang out with and I always felt like that when I was around them. I then realized that I did not know who I was and once I saw that I saw that I did not want to hang out with these people who will sabotage me to make them selves fell better. Once I stopped hanging out with them I started to feel like I was just as good as anyone else in the world. It does not sound like you are crazy...but you need to reevaluate who your friends are.
2006-09-02 20:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by vieveia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a low self esteem. buy some self help books, go to the library, search in the psychology sections, these give help, trust me. just start reading them.
what is the reason that you find yourself not worth it to be with your friends, what makes you think you are inferior?
is there a family member/members who keeps insulting you and putting you down, if this happening, it is not your fault that you have a low self esteem, like others are better than you, cause they donot,
nobody is as good as you, you are 100 % better than what you think
stop others from insulting you, donot let anybody put you down, it is when you stop others from putting you down, you raise yourselfesteem, then you feel yourself worthful.
2006-09-02 20:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by spider-joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it ur think they r better than u and ur holdin them back i mean are u poor and they arent or whats the full deal. i mean unless they make u feel bad about urself and make u feel like u aint good enough to be around them then why do u feel this way
2006-09-02 20:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a normal feeling.You should be able to feel comfortable around true friends.How long have you known them and are they real friends?Have they every said something to you to make you feel that way?
2006-09-02 20:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by Nelly 156 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are friends because they helps us feel good about each other. Are your "friends" behaving in a way that puts you down? If this is the case then they really aren't your friends.
2006-09-02 20:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm, there's nothing wrong to feel jealous if you really feel jealous and you dont have to say it to someone else just say it to yourself.. and gurl, they wont hang-out with you if you're just nothing.. they treat you as their friend because you're someone special, you got talent, you got skill and you're just fun to be with.. dont try to hold them back, if they are you're real friends they will stick with you no matter what.. nothing can separate you if they are real friends to you! and try this...the way you think affects the way you feel and the way you feel will affect the way you'll act so maybe you have to stop thinkin they're better than you..=) you're special, be yourself!!
2006-09-02 20:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by keiCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way.
When I look in the mirrow,
an ugly girl is the reflection I see.
When I'm around my "friends,"
they're all beautiful, &&they get
along great with the guys.
I feel really weird around my friends,
but its not jealousy:
its rejection.
Like I'm not accepted.
2006-09-02 20:14:56 · answer #10 · answered by Cathyyy. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋