okay my roomate is very big on blaming her problems on me. ive been taking it for 6 months now and finally got sick and tired of it so i packed my stufff and left. now she is all mad and stuff saying im sqrewing up her life and stuff. should i move back and take it or should i stay gone.
2006-09-02 13:14:35 · 11 answers · asked by kittydj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she totally came out to my mothers house right last nite im here watching the dog and she started threating me and ****. okay im 2 months pregnant. i did change my phone number but she called and somehow got it from the cell compnay. i cant get rid of her. and im on the elase cant she take me to court?
2006-09-02 13:24:21 · update #1
Stay gone! She's abusive and manipulative. No, you did not screw her life up by moving out. Please stay far away from this person.
Ok, I read your details. Call the police because she's stalking you. Tell them everything. That way the police will have a record that can be used as evidence in your defense in case she takes you to court for breaking the lease. Whatever you do, don't go back, because she's dangerous.
2006-09-02 13:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your phone number dont tell her where you live put a restraining order on her, she is a psycho. Let her be to find the next victim dumb enough to just "take it" What r u gonna do when she starts fighting you and all your stuff is there? Stay away, it is worth the trouble.
2006-09-02 13:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by concerned christian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STAY GONE!!!!! you don't need to have anyone trash on you at all. And of course sh's mad now who's she gonna trash on? Just leave her alone you don't need people like that in your life
2006-09-02 13:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by rockinshewolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a retraining order...and yes you could get sent to court .. and if she calls you, record her conversation with you , so that the judge won't make you pay for breaking the lease... if she threatens you in the recorded conversation, then there would be a good chance you win..
2006-09-02 14:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you put yourself in a positon to be hurt, victimized, or abused, chances are you will be hurt, victimized, or abused....dump this loser..set boundaries...don't let people trash your life with their problems..it will hurt for a while, but you'll be OK...give it a try...Good luck !!
2006-09-02 13:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jim F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR- AS FAR AS IM CONCERNED U DONT NEED THAT IN YOUR LIFE....HERE' THEY CALL THAT; PASSING THE BUCK.....U HAVE ALREADY LEFT....STAY THAT WAY....WHY BE UP-SET WITH A ROOMATE LIKE THAT..IT WILL JUST REPEAT ITSELF....I HOPE THIS HELPED.....
2006-09-02 13:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by BUD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your own life and stop defining who you are through other people.
2006-09-02 13:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by Randy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay gone and talk to her and tell her that you will move back in if she changes if not then dont.
2006-09-02 13:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe u shouldn't drink so much if u want her to be ur friend
2006-09-02 13:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
think about how stupid it sounds, and why are you talking to the retard anyway remember you screwed up her life..
2006-09-02 13:17:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋