ok so this year I met a really nice guy. He lives in upstate ( like 2 hours away from me). We became friends straight from the start and he liked me and i liked him ( really like him). Well, everyone knows those haters that want to ruin your life and this happened to me. He became mad at me and when I tried to ask him why he wouldnt tell me but finally gave in. He told me that he heard lots of stuff about me and he knows its all true. He told me some of the things those people said and of course they turned out to be lies and when I told him that its not true he said that he knows they aren't true, but he also told me that they made him realize that he doesn't know me that well. Well basically he told me that all the things he felt for me were gone and he doesn't like me anymore. I still love him more then anyone else in the world and my friends keep telling me to get over him because he really isn't worth my time and i could find someone better. I still really love himwhat should i do
2006-09-02 13:22:14 · 8 answers · asked by VonDutchPrincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can still love him and move on you know. The feelings he said he had for you were superficial if there just gone now. The hardest thing about being in love is the ever changing feelings. My advice is let him go. Don't sweat the haters, and when he sees your not pscycotic maybe he will look you up later. But only if he misses you , and only if it's meant to be. Meanwhile hang out with you for a while
2006-09-02 13:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by earthmothermoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with friends, enjoy more of your life. Pretend to forget him and most specially don't let him know you were hurt and that you still love him.. This will only make him feel more important. Pretend also that you don't like him anymore and let him know it, pretend also that you don't love him anymore and let him know it..
This way he will be challenge and his ego be insulted.
Pretend girl pretend, and if he do not comes back to you, he is not worth your time. There are so many good guys out there, they will eventually come running after you if you live a happy life.. be merry always, try you must even if you don't feel like it..
Good luck
2006-09-02 20:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suffer in silence and just remember that if hearing that **** that was untrue made him lose his feelings for you he really wasn't worth your time.
I had a similar situation........we still talk briefly but it used to be all the time.......he was very important to me, he still is. I have his band on myspace, I always kept up with how he was doing, but what else can you do? You have to move on and not let the hurt prevent you from caring about the next one!
2006-09-02 20:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some peoples friends have a big say so in their life. and let their friends tell them what they should do with their life. well if you are your own person it does not matter what your friends think. it only matters about what you feel in your heart. my advice to you is to go see him and sit him and you two should really get to know each other if you really want this relationship to work.
2006-09-02 20:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by alakia j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. You don't know him well enough to love him. You are in love with love, in love with a fantasy. It is infatuation. It's called limerick. You are in limerick not love. It will pass. Warning, warning: Next time be more cautious because limerick can a get a girl in alot of trouble when she acts on it.
2006-09-02 20:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet your friends are telling you the truth, if he heard a load of lies about you & believed them or not, he finished with you, then HE was telling lies & didnt really like you as he said he did, because if you like someone a lot you dont listern to lies, stick with your friends & let him go, its HIS loss not yours,
2006-09-02 20:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him his space, try keeping busy and your mind occupied and before you know it the day will be over. only time heals these such wounds. whatever you do, don't call him, try not to go around him and just play it cool. if he really liked you he'll be back. good luck
2006-09-02 20:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by sneakymonica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so just chill out and don't call him for awhile
2006-09-02 20:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋