Family & Relationships - 1 September 2006

I'm 27 going on 28 and have been single for quite a few years and haven't had any serious relationships since college. For the past few years I've been trying to meet people but have had repeated problems with people I've been meeting, perhaps that I'm going about it the wrong way but with very limited amounts of free time I wind up frequently meeting people through personal ads, sites and such and various other less traditional forums. I've had bad experiences at singles bars and at that general scene so quite frankly I've quit attending it.

I don't think the problem is that I'm unattractive though I have admittedly had some work done in the past few years, the problem is more or less that I keep meeting the wrong kinds of guys. I'm college educated with a masters degree and set very high standards and it seems perhaps that my standards are too high to some people. So when I've lowered my standards I haven't had much better luck either. Any suggestions?

2006-09-01 17:06:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend loves me but I only like him a little bit. And there are problems that he has that hold me back from going out with him. What to do?

2006-09-01 17:04:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok honestly how many people here have myspace. n do u honestly know everyone on ur buddy list

2006-09-01 17:04:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-01 17:04:22 · 12 answers · asked by celeste a 2 in Singles & Dating

Lately I've been real bored with everything. Going out with friends, video games, television, school...you name it. All I do now is watch movies from the library.

2006-09-01 17:03:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-01 17:03:34 · 19 answers · asked by doggylegsniff 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want stoopid answers. What do you think is the way to live a healthy single celibate life? What would be the healthy mindset for single life?
Above all, what do you think is the most common mistakes singles make and how would you avoide them?

2006-09-01 17:03:23 · 5 answers · asked by brit hk1997 dimsun 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 17:03:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have girl friend..she is 19years old and im 18years old.....i got no job...im still studying...my mother-in-law said that she will never let me to marry her daughter......i don't know what to do...i love that gal alot....i'll die if i can't get her with me.....my girl's mum said to my girl that she will give anthor 4years to study and after that she have to marry the person...mum saying....and we live in srilanka....it's a south asian country.....now i have to find a job...money....place to live.....but don't know how to start.....my educational stuff not going well.....so i have to come up with something my own...if some one can help me....please reply....my handphone number is 00940786013837 if you can do something ...msg me to this numbr...im just a boy who trying to get his love back....please help me....i can't froget my girl......and my name is Gihan ...and ma girl is Ishara........my girl's parents are richer than mine......so i have to be rich tooo if i want to marry her...

2006-09-01 17:02:42 · 12 answers · asked by prince of dead 1 in Family

2006-09-01 17:01:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-01 17:00:38 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf is 21 and im 16 hes always nice to me.and really sweet.he pretty much doesnt come near me or do any thing to me execpt kiss me and its me going to him.hes really good looking and always tries to act like he doesnt care about people but hes really a marshmello.he has alot of friends that are women and they always say to look out cuz hes a snake but most of them like him.he has a cute 2 year old.and always tell me that im so sweet and that he loves me hes always joking around my mom says i should find some one my own age but all they guys at my age are imature.and were ingaged.hes always blushing when hes around me and one of his exs say that its wierd.and some times when he sees me sad or upset he say " if my being with you is going to make things hard then i dont think we should be ". hes always thinking of me,but one of his exs said that he said that he love her and he still boke up with her.but i want to know if hes telling me the truth.

2006-09-01 16:59:57 · 13 answers · asked by mikey 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think that its right if 4 prpole live in your house and only one cleans it because the others are to lazy to do it but if you dont do it then your house would be a mess

2006-09-01 16:59:23 · 6 answers · asked by pudding_pops2003 2 in Friends

okayy so there r 5 boyz ive been chrushin on and none of them like me. bt there best friends do. wats wit that???

2006-09-01 16:58:37 · 9 answers · asked by hottie_wit_a_bodiii 1 in Singles & Dating

and how do l knw is the right person for me

2006-09-01 16:58:09 · 13 answers · asked by spikleti 1 in Singles & Dating

LOOK MY EX KEEPS CALLING ME OFFERING ME THE WORLD AND MY MAN I HAVE NOW JUST WONT GO BACK HOME FOR A WHILE AND I AM BEING TORN FROM MY FAMILE EITHER WAY OKAY LET ME EXPLAIN i have a man sex is all we have happiness with i tried not putting it out he cant take the hint sorry i have sex needs and my dildo is broke so i havent pushed the isue for him to leave and my ex from another state has been calling me offering me money marrage and cars he is bad in bed BAD he isnt all the goodlooking either and he is annoying every time i dont call my ex he is going to kill him self so he SAYS and the man i am with kinda acts like my EX when it comes to i will do anything for you he is way FINER than my ex the SEX is good I JUST WANT A BREAK TILL I GET MY STUFF TOGETHER AND MY FAMILY SAYS"IF U MOVE OUT OF STATE AGAIN U R NOT WELCOME BACK HERE " I LOVE MY FAMILY AND DONT WANT TO LOOSE THEM please help me out here i am torn 9 ways <>

2006-09-01 16:58:07 · 6 answers · asked by funfunychic 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of 2 years, and my dad don't really get along, so my boyfriend won't come over. my boyfriend says my dad makes him feel uncomfortable and unwanted, and my dad thinks hes rude and disrespectful (bc he is kinda shy and quiet). now my dad won't let me go anywhere with my boyfriend until he comes here and shows that hes a respectful and trustworthy kid, but my boyfriend refuses. i don't know what to do, i can kinda see where they're both coming form. what should ido?

2006-09-01 16:57:08 · 14 answers · asked by MissingLI21 2 in Singles & Dating

We have already had a threesome with myself,her and another guy, but she is unwilling to have another woman in bed with us. Any ideas on what to do to help the situation?

2006-09-01 16:57:06 · 10 answers · asked by jjcap 1 in Singles & Dating

if your brother just got married and hes locked up in prison in a noghther state he was locked up when they got married. but you see hes wife with a nogther man and they are all over each other should you tell him. cause its wrong

2006-09-01 16:56:52 · 4 answers · asked by pudding_pops2003 2 in Family

I like all kinds of girls but i mostly like asian girls sence I was like 11.
Theres just something about them that turns me on, I'm not rascit, or picky, I just like asian girls alot and I hope theres alot out there 4 me and anyone else that likes asian girls like me.

2006-09-01 16:56:24 · 16 answers · asked by DMR 1 in Singles & Dating

I AIN'T Sayin I don't get mine.......I Put it out there plain & simple.....(with my man
of course) that I Want to be Manhandled! Do it like a Marine! I'm not say'in he is'nt hott in the mix. I Just don't know why he's like holding back? Tie me up...
spank me.....ram it all the way down my throat...pull my hair while you ride...
whatever! I lust for roughness sometimes. whatz the problem here? HELP

2006-09-01 16:55:57 · 6 answers · asked by Vtownn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok i know this girl for five years and i fell in love with her the first time i saw her. The problem is she does not likes me, i mean we see each other every other week because both her and my parents have been friends for more than 20 yrs. Every single time i see her i try to do something which would make her fell in love with me but that's been unsuccesfull for past 5 yrs. i mean there were times when she was attracted to me but i was just too young to know what to do when that happens. Now i know that i have missed lot of opportunities but i know she's the girl of my dreams. The only way i can talk to her is when i see her every other week or when i talk to her online which only happens sometimes. Im not a cool guy who has lot of friends, i dont' even have a lisence so i could ask her out. Our families r too strict so i can't even talk to her alone. only time that happens is on teh internet. i've been trying this for past 5 yrs but i think i need ur help to tell me what to do.

2006-09-01 16:55:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-01 16:55:16 · 9 answers · asked by Lucy Lu 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

this is the 2nd night together with this grl. shes 19 and im 17. last night i went to her house and watched tv and a movie..i accidently slept there till 6am with her then got a ride home by 7 by my friend. we did nuttin but hold hands and cuddle throghout the night. i invited her to my place.. and im not sure exactly how far i can go without blowin it.. is kissin her the 2nd time around ok after wut took place the 1st night?

2006-09-01 16:54:35 · 13 answers · asked by jiggaboy212 1 in Singles & Dating

i was bored lol

2006-09-01 16:53:48 · 43 answers · asked by rm38358 1 in Singles & Dating

im single and dating, i also like bologna

2006-09-01 16:52:58 · 10 answers · asked by mr.bill 3 in Singles & Dating

just got together today and want to hang out tomorrow sumtin that dont really cost nuttin just sumtin to hang out

2006-09-01 16:52:52 · 6 answers · asked by Curtis W 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you get rid of your bf without hurting him

2006-09-01 16:52:11 · 14 answers · asked by muffin pirate XD 1 in Singles & Dating

I wrote a letter to my crush, it included a poem, and he read it like it was an everyday note. I have been crushing on him since last year! How can I ease into who I am in the letters and know he likes me?!

2006-09-01 16:51:48 · 5 answers · asked by maysimay2006 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 16:51:39 · 23 answers · asked by doggylegsniff 1 in Marriage & Divorce