my bf is 21 and im 16 hes always nice to me.and really sweet.he pretty much doesnt come near me or do any thing to me execpt kiss me and its me going to him.hes really good looking and always tries to act like he doesnt care about people but hes really a marshmello.he has alot of friends that are women and they always say to look out cuz hes a snake but most of them like him.he has a cute 2 year old.and always tell me that im so sweet and that he loves me hes always joking around my mom says i should find some one my own age but all they guys at my age are imature.and were ingaged.hes always blushing when hes around me and one of his exs say that its wierd.and some times when he sees me sad or upset he say " if my being with you is going to make things hard then i dont think we should be ". hes always thinking of me,but one of his exs said that he said that he love her and he still boke up with her.but i want to know if hes telling me the truth.
2006-09-01 16:59:57 · 13 answers · asked by mikey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plz dont bother telling me that i should be with some one my own age.and i might put this question up alot but i want alot of answers.
2006-09-01 17:01:07 · update #1
Does he love you? Only you and he can answer that. Do you feel he loves you? If you can answer that with a 'yes' than there you go. I don't see a problem with your relationship other than what you've said other people tell you. They tell you he's a snake. Do you believe them? Are they really his friends if they say that about him? You are young yet, don't tie yourself down just yet, as much as you love him. But don't let anyone influence you into doing something you may regret either.
F*ck what other people say and take this journey with your heart, but let your head be the map.
2006-09-01 17:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by ravencrow163 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I honestly think this guy is playing w/ ur heart. A sign was when he said, "If I'm making u upset, then I don't think we should be." I had an ex say that once and he kept repeating it and it eventually led to him mistreating me. I'm not saying this will happen, but this guy seems too old for u. I know ur almost 18 and an adult, but this guy is at the age where he's done w/ college and not even ready 2 settle down. And what about u? Ur only 16- shouldn't u be concerned w/ education and college? What about ur future? I used to think I'd b w/ someone forever, that I was in love, but I look back and I was so wrong! I think u'll know when THE ONE comes along. U won't have 2 question his love 4 u or ur love for him. I think this guy is just trying 2 toy w/ u and isn't serious. U said u were engaged- did he give u a ring? Do u have a plan of where u'll live or if u'll go 2 school should u both get married? U have 2 think about all of this. Follow ur heart, and listen 2 ur mom- she knows what she's talking about. Of course, the choice is urs. Good blessings! Oh, btw, I'm just a year older than u, so I hope u can relate 2 me.
2006-09-02 00:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what honey, you should believe what everyone is telling you about him being a snake. He is not right for you. You really need to focus on school and becoming your own person before thinking about all of this stuff. Besides, do you really want a serious relationship with a boy who has a 2 year old?
2006-09-02 00:05:27 · answer #3 · answered by Karen H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending where you are at.....
if he has sex with you he is committing statutory rape.
He would go to jail.
Is that what you want? To see him in jail.
Be responsible. If you care about him, don't tempt him with this crime. He will be charged EVEN IF YOU CONCENT!
HE needs to find someone his own age (or at least age 18)
He already has one child.... probably didn't marry the mother either. The kid and its mother are probably on welfare, right?
He probably doesn't support it and now the baby and its mother will live a life of poverty.
If HIS FRIENDS are telling you he's a snake, you should probably believe them.
OR>>>> at age 16 is it your life's goal to get pregnant, go on welfare, get public housing, live in poverty, and be chained to a man (who has moved on to yet another woman) for the rest of your life?
He sounds like a loser.
2006-09-02 00:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds as inmature as a 16 year old. It seems like he's playing games with you. You don't need a serious b/f right now, so it's ok to be with someone your age. You should get this guy completely out of your life. Hang out with friends and don't worry about having a b/f. Wait til you're in college.
2006-09-02 00:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by SS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u feel in your heart that he loves u then he does if not then he doesn't.U lucky girl I'm the same age as u and I almost daited someone who was 3 yearsolder than me.I know guys our age are so immature I'm looking for someone more mature and a long term relationship not short term.
2006-09-02 00:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i used to think at 16 a guy older would be good..but i only found it wasnt the case..i actully when i was 23 got with a guy who was 20 and things have been kosher ever since..but i was also his one and only..and i had a child but he loves my child just the same..so it depends on what you can deal with and so on..
2006-09-02 00:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by away right now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother with him your only 16 you dont nees to be a step mom already live a little
2006-09-02 00:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea. this is a question that only you can answer. if he hasn't said those three little words, then chances are he probably doesn't.
2006-09-02 00:04:35 · answer #9 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he love you? Who knows, but i be very careful if I were you
2006-09-02 00:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by hesjim57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋