When your married what do you argue about most? Money, Kids, Infidelity?

Answer 1

Definitely money

Answer 2

To tell u the truth, we argue about the most stupidest things. We don't argue about money, kids, infidelity or any of the "big stuff" but more about little stuff. It's mainly because I would say one thing and husband interprets it differently or vice versa and then we would end up getting irritated with each other. We are however, learning not to argue about things that won't even matter tomorrow but both of us have a philosophy about arguments: It's not what we fight about that matters but how we fight about it. Screaming and yelling will get u nowhere and will further serve to drive a wedge between u two so the best thing is to communicate your differences effectively in a calm manner and I don't mean just talking but listening to what the other person is really trying to say and try not to sweat the small stuff.

Answer 3

You can argue about all of it, but one of the biggest is money and that is the most common. It can tear two people apart. Infidelity usually always ends a marriage. Kids can be an issue too. Good Luck!

Answer 4

We really don't argue, honestly! We do sometimes disagree but I would not by any means equate it to an arguement. We usually disagree about personal choices. Ex: I think WE should quit smoking and he says he will and then the date to quit comes and goes or I feel like I'm not getting the help I need around the house. If I would ask for help I wouldn't be cranky though because he helps when I ask for the help. Get the picture it's NEVER about money, sex or kids though.

Answer 5

After so long in a relatively good marriage you dont argue anymore. Bicker perhaps...id say about the kids mostly, then money. Arguing leads to unhappiness, leading to separation, divorce, or at least hard feelings. Doesnt happen too often in a marriage with mutual respect.

Answer 6

MONEY!!! Money is the clincher! I am very frugle, and I like everything to be documented. I like to save money, and feel like we are safe if something were to happen. My husband, is the main bread winner, but he is the total opposite of me. He likes to spend, and doesnt account for anything.but i think thats because he works so hard, he wants to be able to spend what he wants, and feel like hes actually working for something. money is a big problem in marriages, but lately ive had to try to back off, because one of us has to so itll be me. i think that id rather have a hubby and less money, than a constant argument, and a horrible marriage. i love my hubby to much to argue about it all the time.
ALSO, we argue about his job, because he works alllll the time, hes a workaholic, so we get very little time together. and i hate that, because i love spending time with him, but his job really doesnt allow too much of that. very demanding. but ill learn to live with it, and hopefully in time he will not be so wrapped up in it.

Answer 7

When we got married our preacher told us 99% of fights are caused by money and sex . We don't have either of those but we do fight about the kids.

Answer 8

actually we argue if i'm gone too long (he worries) or when i don't clean house (i really hate to). mainly though when we fight it's an underlying problem he hasn't told me about. like maybe he's worried about how we are gonna fix the car or maybe he's missing his family who live out of state or something like that. we usually get over it pretty fast cuz it breaks my heart when we argue.

Answer 9

most common is money and infidelity

Answer 10

Mostly we argue about living with his in-laws.