My best friend loves me but I only like him a little bit. And there are problems that he has that hold me back from going out with him. What to do?
2006-09-01 17:04:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he knows how I feel and what his problems are.
2006-09-01 17:09:26 · update #1
Sometimes friends R meant to be just that, friends. If ur really not interested let it be known. Don't force ur self into a situation that can be more destructive than good. U could end up ruining what relationship u have w/ this person. U also mentioned that there R problems that keep u from getting involved w/ him. Whatever ur gut feeling is telling u that makes u keep ur distance, keep listening. If u were totally attracted to this guy u might not see his inadequacies. Don't let him pressure u either, stand ur ground. Good luck.
2006-09-01 17:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be upfront & honest with him about your feelings. Tell him that you just want to be friends right now. Because if you two do end up going out, then you break up, you will lose the friend you had in the first place. Ask yourself, Just how serious are these "problems" you speak of? You need to be true to yourself first!! Ask yourself .. "Is this what I really want right now?" I would talk to him first and see where things actually stand between the two of you. BEFORE you actually make any decisions!
Best of Luck to you!!
2006-09-02 00:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that you can do is be up front with him. Tell him you like him as a friend and would hate to lose that friendship. but you just don't feel the same way as he does. If he is a true friend and really loves you. he will accept how you feel.
2006-09-02 00:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Tell him what you just said, and that you just like him as friends, and want to keep it that way. I am still friends with a girl that liked me in high school, but we stayed friends, and it worked out for the best. And that was over 10 years ago.
2006-09-02 00:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Little Hulk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask David Plant
2006-09-02 00:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Handle this problem like a real lady, treat him like a gentleman and a friend. Tell him honestly!
2006-09-02 00:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very honest with him. Tell him that you're not interested in being anything other than friends. Encourage him to try and meet other girls.
2006-09-02 00:08:50 · answer #7 · answered by inoym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should end the relationship.. if there is one....... he knows his problems, and your not truly and totally in love with him.. but he is with u, it takes 2 not just 1
2006-09-02 00:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are busy when he wants to hang out, make him buy you everything you want (that way its free!). Uh, date him or don't it depends, do you have the time for it.
2006-09-02 13:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by GuitarGod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest,tell him the true.It is better now,before you have problems.Good luck.
2006-09-02 00:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋