We have already had a threesome with myself,her and another guy, but she is unwilling to have another woman in bed with us. Any ideas on what to do to help the situation?
2006-09-01 16:57:06 · 10 answers · asked by jjcap 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she doesn't want to go there the you can't make her. Not without her resenting you. BUT, why is she against a FMF? Just like she could become resentful if you pushed her into doing something she doesn't want to, you can become resentful that you allowed her hers, but she is not allowing you yours.
Now some people are okay with this arrangement, where only one person plays, but I have found that except in very few cases, eventually someone starts to get resentful because the begin to feel the are getting the short end of the stick.
You need to find out why she doesn't want to do it. The real reason behind the "no". More then likely it is fear based on insecurity about you with another woman. That she has to work on herself. But like I said, the swing goes both ways, not just one.
2006-09-01 20:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Are you sure she's your girlfriend, and not just one of the guys she is banging? Maybe that's why you had a 3-some with another guy, because he's another one of her bang buddies. She probably is not into girls at all, and that's why she won't do one with another girl. Try to see if there are any famous girls she thinks are hot, and ask get her to imagine the 2 of you with her. Then see if you can get her to fantasize about any girls you know.
2006-09-01 17:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if hindsight was twenty twenty you should have discussed this matter ahead of time... The fact that you would have a mfm encounter with the understanding that a fmf would be tried as well.. Feel your ladies being selfish if she wont consider your fantasy as well but like i said always important to discuss things in full ahead of time thus saving any hurt feelings.. Good luck.
2006-09-01 17:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 06:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by murchison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't convince her to do something she isn't comfortable with. and i think it's pretty s h i t t y that you have to ask people on yahoo questions how to con your girlfriend into having a threesome
2006-09-01 17:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a fool, suprise her and have another girl there in bed, if she leaves than you got the other girl!
2006-09-01 17:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by joeymac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no woman on the right frame of mind would want another woman in the same bed as her!!! pls don't ask anymore...
2006-09-01 16:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play her in a game, and the winner gets a reward.
2006-09-01 17:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by torylocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop your ideas.
2006-09-01 17:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your lame
2006-09-01 16:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by thebonetrane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋