2006-09-01 16:51:39 · 23 answers · asked by doggylegsniff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Better n better
2006-09-01 16:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. When my husband helps with day to day duties I have a lot more energy left over for him and a closeness like we are both equally as tired, and knowing how hard he worked to make my life easier makes me want to please him. There are times when each of us slacks off a bit, and it does make it a little harder to "get in the mood", because one of us is more frustrated than the other, or just more tired from the stresses of the day. So I think it does take work...but it defintely isn't boring. We have moments where we are both like ok...we have used this same position the last 10 times we've had sex...we need something new. Or hmmm let me try this on you tonight..it's been a while since I've tasted that. But even if it's the same old person...It's wonderful!!! Each and every time.
2006-09-01 17:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by Cortney & Nathan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex becomes a chore!!!!!!! A chore you do not want to do. They threaten you with an affair, "If you don't give me some I will go get it some where else" My reply has always been go and take your kids with you, all I need is a little excuse to leave his @ss. and that would be the excuse I need:) Sorry we are fighting,seriously it's not that it gets boring it's just not as high a priority, you cherish when you do have sex, but over a thousand things are going on and it keeps getting put on the back burner. Kids make it worse because you can't be spontaneous and you are usually to exhausted screaming at the kids to have sex latter on that night.
2006-09-01 16:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by rockwithelmo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL hang on I am laughing sooooooooooo hard.
Why the hello would people get married if sex stops or get worse when you have kids.
I am laughing so dang hard.
It can be better as time goes on. If people get bored it is their own fault for not keeping it interesting. And having kids has nothing to do with sex unless two people chose to make it that way.
Everything in life is a choice.
btw the older you get the better it gets..that is my opinion.
2006-09-01 16:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for me it hasn't. It's actually gotten better. You get to let your guard down when you are that close to each other. And then when there are children involved, it gets more exciting. With children around, the time you have for sex may be far and few between. So my husband will jump in the shower with me, I'll meet him for lunch for a quickie in the car somewhere and then of course when he gets up for work in the AM and the kids are still sleeping, we get some in there too. The thrill comes from doing it without getting caught...even if it is by your own children!
2006-09-01 17:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't get boring.
Sex may become less of a priority as life changes.
Before we were married we had less responsibilities and stressors in our lives. After buying a house and having more on list of things to do like more laundry, lawn mowing, making dinner, feeding the baby, fixing the car, cleaning the pool etc, etc...Oh coincidentaly this all happened AFTER getting married and having 3 kids. Yeah, sex has found a new position in my list of many things I need and want to do. Honestly, I love sleep almost as much as sex!
So does that answer you question...it's not a matter of sex becoming boring, it's a matter of making time to make love... we get a lot of quickies in, but it doesn't compare to weekend sex( more time on weekends to fit it in)
2006-09-01 17:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by reighngstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on how strong your relationship is with your spouse, its not always sex that makes the marriage, its the love between 2 people, your best friend, your everything and the one who will stand by you, its going to be that person....always! Kids is something that has to be, between you both, they do require a lot of care and attention......but will work out in the end. Try different things to excite your desire!
2006-09-01 17:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Dragonfire442 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does but only if you let it. My parents have seven kids, both work full-time jobs, have been married for over 25 years and still have a very healthy sex life.
2006-09-01 17:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex gets better to me. i am married with kids and its fun to try to hide somewhere to get it on for a quicky.When you do get the time to really make love it almost feel new again.
2006-09-01 17:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you happen to see the classic movie of 50s by the name "Anna and the King of Siam" there is a dialouge which would answer your question.
The king (played by Yul Bryner) says " a woman is flower and man is a honey bee going from flower to flower...etcetra etcetra"
2006-09-01 17:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by intimate_mask 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how in love you are with one another... how big the passion is between you and your wife... it won't stop and it certainly doesn't get worse after kids.. just have to rekindle the love.. make it fun ..etc..
2006-09-01 17:12:23 · answer #11 · answered by nknicolek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋