Family & Relationships - 1 September 2006

if a woman wants a man to get to know her, and shes looking for more than just sex. like a relationship, a life partner, should she hold off on having sex? if yes, for how long? why? but if the attraction is there, why not go for it? isnt sex part of a relashionship? could sex make things better or worse? do i just go with the flow, and see what happends? i dont feel right about that, but, at this point, i dont know what to do.hes 35 and im 48, we get along great, and everything is pretty cool between us. we dont seem to have a problem with the age thing. takin things pretty slow, just dont know what to do about this sex thing? would like for this to come out as a secure and lasting relationship. thanks

2006-09-01 17:38:34 · 6 answers · asked by hippie chick 3 in Singles & Dating

did u hear about loraina bobbet???


she died!!!


in a car accedent!!!!



yea some dick cut her off


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2006-09-01 17:38:07 · 21 answers · asked by funfunychic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-01 17:37:16 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and i want to ask him out but i don't now wut 2 say or how 2 approach him

2006-09-01 17:37:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I won't go in. but I want to make sure she's alright. She buys pot every week. And she's not a kid she's 25 now. I did all that stuff in the 60's so I know what its about. I want to protect her if she gets in trouble. Like I said she will go anyway. and know she did not get any of this from us. We quit years ago.

2006-09-01 17:37:09 · 36 answers · asked by catnap 4 in Family

Any Information of the orginion or more of us...

Standridge

2006-09-01 17:36:51 · 8 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Family

Ok you meet this guy and feel very connected, over time you get closer and closer, he flirts, he calls a minimum of 4x a day, after midnight, 6 am all diffrent times, gose out of his way to do things for you, give you things all the time.. makes sure you succeed in everything you try.. is this something that just a friend would do or would you think he likes you more?

2006-09-01 17:35:13 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 17:34:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know is there any wrong way to have sex? i know this is a dum queston!

2006-09-01 17:34:12 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone know where I can find cheap but clean and safe beds. I have twin girls that are sharing a tiny room and they have shared the same twin size bed until recently and now they are just getting to big to sleep on the same bed not to mention the fighting.so I am looking for bunk beds or maybe a bed with a trundle any help at all is greatly appreciated>

2006-09-01 17:33:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-01 17:32:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People who choose to stay in abusive relationships (emotional, verbal, or physical) even when they know the relationship is abusive, I don't understand. What is appealing about feeling like you are always wrong, living in fear. What keeps people going back to that kind of relationship?

2006-09-01 17:32:48 · 5 answers · asked by Bridget C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-01 17:32:27 · 10 answers · asked by ??? 2 in Singles & Dating

everything about me is in my profile click my username to find out.

2006-09-01 17:31:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would want him to know I love him, I would prolly never cheat(one man is more than enough for me to handle) and I care...

However, if he happens to find a nice strip club or want to hang out at Hooters.. to invite me along as well b/c I prolly would like to look at the women as much as he.

I don't want to freak him out. How can I tell whether or not I should tell him?

Not that I like women more than him. I just think women have the better bodies and sexual attration. (I feel weird to say this) But I like men better relationship wise. Equal maybe..I don't know :(

I would like to keep this a secret from everyone else. But I thought he deserves to know. (That I can't help staring at nice boobs as much as he do.)

I don't know why I am like this.

I also would not like for him to take advantage of me (like trying to start a three-some or poly relationship with a hot girl he know.) I'm curious but I'm not serious.

Best way to sum this up? Never told before him.

2006-09-01 17:30:19 · 19 answers · asked by Funnybunni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the thing is, is that my husband has been going out ever day with "friends" and he stays out pretty late sometimes he has came home till 3 in the morning and he usually doesnt go out cause he didnt like leaving me home alone with the kid and now we dont spend any time together he says that we will and it doesnt happen so any ideas?

2006-09-01 17:29:56 · 14 answers · asked by gigglezdelight 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love a girl but she doesnt like me. She wants to be just Friends.

2006-09-01 17:29:47 · 11 answers · asked by Moh 2 in Singles & Dating

8 years and the past year very verbally and emotionally abusive. Knowing that it's not me he's lashing out at but himself.

2006-09-01 17:29:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-01 17:29:04 · 15 answers · asked by coolienam 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf is 21 and im 16 hes always nice to me.and really sweet.he pretty much doesnt come near me or do any thing to me execpt kiss me and its me going to him.hes really good looking and always tries to act like he doesnt care about people but hes really a marshmello.he has alot of friends that are women and they always say to look out cuz hes a snake but most of them like him.he has a cute 2 year old.and always tell me that im so sweet and that he loves me hes always joking around my mom says i should find some one my own age but all they guys at my age are imature.and were ingaged.hes always blushing when hes around me and one of his exs say that its wierd.and some times when he sees me sad or upset he say " if my being with you is going to make things hard then i dont think we should be ". hes always thinking of me,but one of his exs said that he said that he love her and he still boke up with her.but i want to know if hes telling me the truth.

2006-09-01 17:29:02 · 11 answers · asked by mikey 1 in Singles & Dating

A person goes to a jailhouse to visit someone. The jailer says that they may visit the incarcerated person if the visitor will tell him what the relationship of the two is. The visitor responds by saying, "Brothers and Sisters h
Have I None, But This Man's Father is My Father's Son". What is the relationship of the two?

2006-09-01 17:27:42 · 19 answers · asked by gedanini3@yahoo.com 2 in Family

Her first week of school..she met this guy(whose not that cute) and started dating him after a week cuz he was nice...he told his mom about her and how he wants to marry her...I dont feel comfortable with that as it is..and its like he tries to have sex with, well he brings it up alot..sayn he wants to make love wit her..but **** she dont even know him a **** month yet..I feel like i should be supporting her..but i just cant bc its going way to fast..and i have a strong feeling she is going to get hurt real bad

am i wrong for feeling my best friend is moving way to fast in this new relationship..

Help plz

2006-09-01 17:27:10 · 7 answers · asked by ace30815 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This one girl is always around my boyfriend and I hate her for it. I am so jealous. I dont know what to do about it though...I've told him how i feel, but its not him. its her.

2006-09-01 17:26:56 · 29 answers · asked by nobodyinparticular...lol 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 17:26:42 · 7 answers · asked by coolienam 1 in Singles & Dating

I was briefly dating this guy I met online. At times he would be talking to me and instead of saying my name, he would say, "woman". I told him I didn't like it, that it is a derogatory remark used to put women down. He denies this, and says its just a word, no meaning. I told him it bothered me, but he still used it and even once when I was not really listening to him he said, "woman" to get my attention. Do you think its used as a put down?

2006-09-01 17:26:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please tell the truth!!!

2006-09-01 17:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by LyFiSabLiSs 2 in Singles & Dating

The reason I ask is that I am not looking for that "someone",don't do the internet dating thing. I would just like to find out if there is someone my own age to discuss some things with. I have been divorced 13 years, had a wonderful,lucritive job until I became disabled a couple of years ago. I have no desire to start dating,refuse all offers and am just trying to figure myself out. I am told I am a very attractive women, that I don't come close to looking my age blah blah, but I guess I am afraid as I walk with a cane etc. That is part of the reason I was wondering if this is the appropriate site to just vent.

2006-09-01 17:23:46 · 13 answers · asked by magnolia813 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 17:23:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-01 17:22:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When it is pouring down raining outside, does it make you horny, sleepy or have no effect on you at all? For me, it makes me sleepy.

Do you believe that weather plays a part in our moods? I do. When it is too hot, I am not trying to do ****. When it is too cold, I want soup, a mug of tea and foot warmers. When the weather is perfect, I am in a great mood. How about you?

2006-09-01 17:22:12 · 30 answers · asked by Martina 1 in Singles & Dating