2006-09-01 17:22:17 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go for a long tour and forget whom u loved and start a new life,spend most of ur time in what u like for example if u r very ambitious then work hard to come up in ur carrier life.
Spend some time in social service like helping orphans and helpless people which will raise ur self esteem, gradually u can find ur sorrow disappearing in u.
Take care
2006-09-01 18:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by pooja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy....move on! Put yourself in his wife's place...and a different girl in your place...how would you feel if you found out he was cheating on you?.....AND...the chances are (the odds are stacked against you) that if he is cheating on his wife with you.....that if he leaves his wife.....he will at some point turn the tables around and cheat on you the same way he is cheating on his wife right now...OPEN YOUR EYES!!! He married this woman in good faith and she trusted him....How will it be different with you? No matter what he promises you...how can you trust him?...Don't you think his wife trust him right now? And what about down the road? Right now everything might seem really hot with this guy...there will always be that little bit of doubt in the back of your mind with him and that alone put strain on your relationship....then doubt creeps in...this relationship is all wrong from the word go....PLEASE...have some respect for yourself...if you don't, no one else will....
You need to take a serious kook at this relationship. It's not all good!!!
2006-09-01 17:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by hanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, 1st things 1st.. it's gonna be hard for you to say goodbye to yesterday but life goes on for you in a sense that you'll meet someone new. you'll fall in love again, move on to a better and brighter things, hopefully in the process, you'll find happiness that you've never felt before....
all these can only happen if you believe in it and not go around inviting trouble with the love that has already been married!
once you're over it, you'll come out a much better and stronger person. so, good luck in your quest!
2006-09-01 17:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by d-lite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this also depends on the extent of 'your' luv feelings with the other. more over, you should think in this way...you have many others waiting for you in the queue. but this time your steps must be so cautious.
2006-09-01 17:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by shyamala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the problem in this . that dosnt make any difference whether u loved with a married man i am also married and i love with sumone else and still lived with my wife just bcose of social boundations
2006-09-01 18:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by pa_leo1234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you love them, you get out of their life completely and absolutely. If you love yourself, you don't EVER get involved with someone who has taken a lifetime vow. Time to find a partner that is not taken.
2006-09-01 17:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him/her and move on. NO good comes out of breaking up someone's marriage. It will come back to haunt you in the end..
2006-09-01 18:11:39 · answer #7 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person is married they are not your love, they are someone elses! Hello wake the heck up!
2006-09-01 17:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by wishuponstarson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To bless from your innerheart for his happy married life.
2006-09-01 17:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by NUPAKRY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and move on. As hard as that may be, that's something you need to do. Maybe, its just not meant to be right now.
2006-09-01 17:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋