Ok i know this girl for five years and i fell in love with her the first time i saw her. The problem is she does not likes me, i mean we see each other every other week because both her and my parents have been friends for more than 20 yrs. Every single time i see her i try to do something which would make her fell in love with me but that's been unsuccesfull for past 5 yrs. i mean there were times when she was attracted to me but i was just too young to know what to do when that happens. Now i know that i have missed lot of opportunities but i know she's the girl of my dreams. The only way i can talk to her is when i see her every other week or when i talk to her online which only happens sometimes. Im not a cool guy who has lot of friends, i dont' even have a lisence so i could ask her out. Our families r too strict so i can't even talk to her alone. only time that happens is on teh internet. i've been trying this for past 5 yrs but i think i need ur help to tell me what to do.
2006-09-01 16:55:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you cant make some body fall in love with you!
i think you sould just stay friends
2006-09-01 16:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in same situation when I was young, only I was the girl, he was in love with me, I with him, we never say ed the word I love you to each other, we had fun together and with our families. Time past, on my wedding day (I get married with another guy) he was dancing one dance with me, I never will forget his words, he asked : Are you happy?My answer was:Yes! He said: I'm happy when you are happy! I was not happy, I get married to the wrong guy, I get divorced from him after years. My grandparents was witnesses when my friend after this dance was crying outside of the building. We never have the courage to express our filings. Don't give that this happened to you. Tell her any time something nice, give her a compliment, that she is smart, beautiful, nice and kind. Watch any her reaction, express your filings and be careful first, and don't forget you can have every women in the world, you have to be only on right time and right place at the moment. Women it's so sensitive when it's sad. Be careful and have a Passion and listen what she have to tell you.
2006-09-02 00:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Vavo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u are talking to her write something in her box like you are talking to someone else as well as her and that u wrote it in her box by accident. Something like, "...sorry babes, i forget to call u bk. My apology.." then apologize to her and say you have to go, u have a call on the phone or something. Don't give her any detail explanation about who it is u are talking to. Also when you see her, try to be talking to someone on the phone and make believe its someone who is crazy about you, and you're kinda blowing them off, for another call that's coming in...and remember to sort of ignore her.
Remember the the geek in the movie with Reese Witherspoon who couldn't get any girl? Reese slapped his face and them yelled at him for breaking up with her, and next thing you know, he had girls falling all over him.
Girls' seems to go for guy that are unavailable of out of their reach. You are too available. Remember, it was when u didn't even know she was crushing on u that she was interested!! Flirt with her and when she tries to flirt back, leave her sorta hanging and she'll come for more...
Dating is a game...
2006-09-01 23:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by La Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think you are in love with her yet. You may be infatuated with her but not love her, because you don't know her very well do you? I think you may be trying too hard to impress her.
How can you make anyone love you without going out with you?
You should behave your normal self and build up your friendship with her by showing concern for her in your communication with her. Then when she feels more comfortable with you, date her out, but only as a friend, not as partners! Move slowly.
2006-09-02 00:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wer ment to b things will hapen naturally so tell her how u feel and if she feels the same way great if she doesnt then just b friends
2006-09-02 03:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by egyptian girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk about this online
2006-09-02 00:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by mizz candii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to know of the right time to say, also you just need to just jump out there and let her know how you feel that way you will know eather way good luck
2006-09-01 23:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just tell her on line how you feel and tell her how long you have been feeling like this.
2006-09-02 00:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by cute face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself because you want her to like you for who you are and if it doesn't work than he is not for you because you will find the one and it will be like magic really.
2006-09-02 00:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by true-mysteryfrom chinese wish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um take it steap by steap and try to give her hints nd clues that u lyk her i guess
2006-09-01 23:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋