Family & Relationships - 31 August 2006

I am interested in a woman who has never been in a relationship with another woman. I have been lesbian for over 13 years. I told my friend I wanted to take things slow just to be sure of her true feelings. She says that she is sure that she wants to be with me. and that she has no desire to date men anymore. Should I be cautious because I will be her first or should I just throw caution to the wind and go for it.

2006-08-31 04:14:54 · 8 answers · asked by simplepleasure 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy I like was talking about "an amazing" girl, saying she is awesome and stuff like that. I was realy jelous when he said this,as if she is better or something (maybe she is). And then our friends smile say great and stuff. I am there,silent, not looking at him,pretending not to care. How should I react and respond to this? What should I say? What should I do....HELP!!!

2006-08-31 04:13:28 · 15 answers · asked by Jennifer L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been together for 2 years, and he tells me he loves me all the time, hes kind and gentle, and finally i have found someone who treats me, and my child right,he want a child, and to get married to me...!
but theres just one thing, when we go out, or go shopping, i find him staring at girls, i am not unattractive at all, and im not looking out for this, sometimes he double takes and sometimes hes staring right through me ,a nd at them, reguardless if im with him or not.i have questioned him about this, and he says he is not interested in other women, and doesnt relise he is doin this. it is making me feel worthless and unhappy, and i feel like im constantly comparing myself to other women all the time. what would you do, and does anybody else have to put up with this from there partner?

2006-08-31 04:12:53 · 28 answers · asked by lazoklops 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been in long distance relationship for more than 2 years. It seemed ok in the beginning. But later on, we started having more and mroe problems. In fact, we, two, do not want to break our relationship easily. I make international call to her everyday to keep continuous contact. But my girl is sick on talking on phone. Finally she even stopped using cell phone. Now emailing is the only way we can contact now.
Is there any idea to make a long lasting relationship? What do you think of my current relationship?
Btw I apologize you in advance for my poor Eng. I am not native Eng speaker.

2006-08-31 04:12:53 · 4 answers · asked by answers4u 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my opinion is life is like a path.....where many turns come in our life.........but we have to chose the right one which take us to our ambition..!!

just like this........what you think???with good reosoning!!

2006-08-31 04:12:50 · 5 answers · asked by kshitija s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 04:12:11 · 7 answers · asked by find_omarramadan 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in the next few weeks but, I have some concerns. Lately he seems more controlling but, only in the way of what he says is what goes, regardless of what I say. Sometimes he talks to me like I'm only 12 yrs. old. Lately when we wrestle around he hits me harder than what I think he should. BUT he has never been physically abusive at all. He has called me names when we've gotten in arguments and only then. We petsitted for some friends of ours and the puppy would use the bathroom in the floor and he would spank it too hard, hard enough I couldn't watch and then throw it in the floor. My bird bit him and he thumped it and knocked it out for a while and told me that anything in is house is not going to act like that. I'm not sure if it something to worry about or not, as far as the way he might oneday treat me? He has always treated me like any girl would want to be treated, that is why I'm confused???... Any ideas?

2006-08-31 04:11:47 · 20 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in an open relationship with a guy. We exclusively sleep with each other, but we do things with other people. Anyway, l have new crush on an actor and I had put up poster of the actor all over my room. I even joke that if anyone knows a guy that looks like the actor, to let me know b/c " i'm open to anything."
i think my guy might be jealous. He has been ignoring my calls. He claims its b/c of work but I know he has jealous tendencies. He has been ignoring me but claims its because of work.
But I'm not for sure because I know he has a crush on his Spanish professor and I was ok with that. Infact, I encouraged him to hit on her. And he did use to talk about her alot and I was never upset.
I see my crush as innocent. The actor lives in another country. I'd never meet him. My guy's crush is more of a threat. I think my bf is over reacting. But if I am being a ***** then I'd hide my crush. So am I being mean or is he being sensitive. Or do you think i'm just paranoid?

2006-08-31 04:11:45 · 16 answers · asked by bellarina 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 04:11:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello, I have a dilemma.
I recently reverted to being Muslim about 3 months ago.The problem is, I've been practicing in secret from my family/parents, but now the pressure keeps building up everyday to tell my parents of my faith. The thing is, both my parents are completely against Islam. I live with my mom, and I know she wouldn't be "happy" about me being Muslim, but I feel I need to tell her in order to get this pressure off my chest. I don't even wear hijab because I'm afraid she will see me and freak out about it (well, I actually wear hijab when I'm at school because she doesn't see me there). How should I go about telling her? Any help will be greatly appreciated.

2006-08-31 04:11:15 · 17 answers · asked by kuroi_neko87 1 in Family

.. thAt nothing's impossible in LOVE?

2006-08-31 04:10:44 · 3 answers · asked by Mrz.Fabz21 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would be the easiest/cheapest way to make my ex come to the house to pick the kids up? i've moved to a different town, and our divorce papers are for that town, so its impractical for me to take them there for him to get them. but how can i make him come get them here without going to court over this one issue?

2006-08-31 04:10:39 · 6 answers · asked by tonysdoll815 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if not then why???

2006-08-31 04:09:46 · 31 answers · asked by sweet girl 4 in Friends

for a father to be able to claim his daughter on his tax return every other year? I know that it is the decision of the judge in court but just curious to see if anyone has been though this. My husband and I currently pay child support, provide insurance for the child, and have her 2 overnights per week. Went to court yesterday and the mother's lawyer is saying that we have NO CHANCE. I know she is going to lie to us to scare us but...what are the chances we will be able to claim her? Thanks!

2006-08-31 04:09:13 · 4 answers · asked by yeager_renee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

or would you be weirded out if your significant other hopped into bed with a fake nose?

2006-08-31 04:09:06 · 27 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been flirting and actually met another lad from answers we got on really well and planned to meet again,ive just discover he posted a question yesterday saying would you drive so many miles to meet some1 who you fancy knowing youd get a shag out of it (this person isnt me)! Would you forget about him or give him a chance cus its not like were going out properly.I know what i should do,i just want conformation 2leave well alone! ta x

2006-08-31 04:09:01 · 25 answers · asked by jo 4 in Singles & Dating

PLZ ANSWER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-31 04:08:54 · 31 answers · asked by ~*~*~B3@UTY_IZ_M@_N@M3~*~*~* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 04:08:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 04:08:30 · 29 answers · asked by moon_gazer33 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have never had a relationship with a woman at all and i am really longing for one. No fun please.

2006-08-31 04:08:26 · 5 answers · asked by victor o 2 in Singles & Dating

What is your favorite physical feature on a man and why? I think my eyes are my best feature.

2006-08-31 04:08:09 · 3 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this girl for 2 months and I was really really into her. I gave her my entire heart and would never dream of hurting her. She broke up with me first for the reason that was college, then she got back with this ex that lives with her and her parents. Then, we fought when we talked to each other...and it was bitter. All of the sudden, we got back together as friends with benefits. I thought that was the only way I could get her attention...and it was stupid. What in the heck do I do?

2006-08-31 04:07:43 · 9 answers · asked by awall71688 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello,

My wife and I changed jobs and locations to help my mother in law after her husband died. My mil is a very weak person, has low self esteem and confidence. Well, its time for my wife and I to go back home to our family and home (our kids are adults). The problem is this. SInce we want to go home, we are getting verbally attacked by the yougest three who are within ten minutes of my mil. They feel we are abandoning there mother. They are all female and suffer the same self esteem confidence problems that my mil has (but of course, would not admit that to themselves, that takes confidence). There are 7 other siblings, 1 out of state. Our experence over the last two years as been that the oldest 2 and the yougest three have done very little to support us during this time. Now that we want to go, they feel that it would be too much interuption to their families and are trying to guilt my wife into staying. For the momemnt, she is resisting. What to do about these borish people?

2006-08-31 04:07:34 · 11 answers · asked by tinytim 2 in Family

At 22 years old and 2 children and a marrige gone wrong why do i feel like i've experienced more hurt and pain then happiness? I feel like the road to recovery is going to be a long one even though i'm a very strong person...Because i feel betrayed by my soon to be ex husband..

2006-08-31 04:06:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you help your brother stop using alcohol, weed and krystal??? He got caught up Wednesday morning under the influence and he had some substance on him. He got a felony charge and is going to court on Friday. I thing that hurts me the most is that I'm his little sister (24 yrs.) I am close to him and for him to keep this from me it hurts, plus he is putting his life in danger by driving under the influence. He is married and has a three year old son. I can't imagine how stressed out it is for them and this situation. How can I help him get better?? How can he quick this ****???

2006-08-31 04:06:41 · 11 answers · asked by blu2u1982 2 in Family

the person who did this was my neice's stepfather this sicko raised her since the age of 2 and didn't think twice about violating her at the age of 12,inpregnanated at age of 16 and forced to have the baby.now my neice is 20, the baby is 2yrs old and the criminal is behind bars please we need help a.s.a.p court is on October

2006-08-31 04:06:30 · 9 answers · asked by relax 1 in Family

i moved in with a couple of lads last week, one of them i have known for a year, and lastnight we got drunk and ended uop having very drunken sex.
I saw him this morning briefly before work, and I do not have a crush on him or anything, but i dont know the code of conduct when it comes to sleeping with housemate. sure it is nice having a **** buddy in the next room but is he gona expect it to happen all the time. i dont regret it but iv never been in that situation before.

2006-08-31 04:05:02 · 8 answers · asked by twystiejunior 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 04:04:42 · 42 answers · asked by IwishicoulddeleteYahooAnswers 2 in Weddings

I feel almost dead inside like i have no emotions I feel no love no hate. I never smile without faking it. I am not sad I am nothing. I know that i ignore and neglect my family because i just don't have it in me to be the loving caring father and husband they deserve. I have got to the point where i have tried to make my wife leave me because i know she would be better off with someone else. I love them all more than anything in this world and they are the reason I am still alive. I would have killed myself long ago if not for thier love. I just want some feed back on how to help the situation and if anyone else has felt this way and what did you do. Just some words of encouragement would suffice. I can't make myself feel anything sometimes. I am having a hard time faking the feelings and emotions. I just want to be happy because i have no reason to be this way. I have been on medication it didn't work. I think i need a revelation or i need to figure something out to help.

2006-08-31 04:04:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She knows i like her and im not able to ask her out because one of not so close friends like her and i dont wanna fight him over her because hes 6 foot 200 pounds but why wont she make a move.

2006-08-31 04:03:51 · 1 answers · asked by Tristan 3 in Singles & Dating