Ive been flirting and actually met another lad from answers we got on really well and planned to meet again,ive just discover he posted a question yesterday saying would you drive so many miles to meet some1 who you fancy knowing youd get a shag out of it (this person isnt me)! Would you forget about him or give him a chance cus its not like were going out properly.I know what i should do,i just want conformation 2leave well alone! ta x
2006-08-31 04:09:01 · 25 answers · asked by jo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wasnt a random question he asked, by the looks of it it was about another girl defo,plus he told me he flirts with loads of girls on line!
2006-08-31 04:25:23 · update #1
he he wait till he sees this! x
2006-08-31 04:27:20 · update #2
It could be risky meeting some-one online but it is risky to cross the road and yet people do it every day.
The chances that he is an axe murderer are pretty slim, you could meet him or some-one else but make sure you do all the necessary things to keep yourself safe.
From what you say he does sound like a sleaze and I guess it would make sense for me to say avoid him like the plague. However the internet is a wierd way to communicate with some-one. Just because he has arranged a possible meet with some-one for sex does not mean he is a sex fiend. Likewise if he had posted a question informing every-one how he wanted world peace and his love of kittens would not make him a nice person.
Give him a chance and maybe give him a call. If you were prepared to meet him then talking to him over the phone should give you an idea if you click.
2006-08-31 04:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by nicksname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to admit i took a chance and met a guy from the Internet and it worked out well,we've been 2gether just over a year we bought in 2gether march this year,we r trying for a little one and getting married march nxt yr so it worked out fine for me but it doesn't always go that way. if all he's after is a shag then kick him to the curb he's not worth knowing find a guy that wants u for u.
2006-08-31 11:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by maude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone he obviously doesn't respect you and isn't worth your time you deserve better. Stay away from guys you meet on the net. Most of the time no other girl who knows them woud want them and the net gives them the chance to be whatever they want and you won't know the true person only what they want you to think they are. He is a jerk......Run!
2006-08-31 11:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by BabyPrincess REAL JAMAICAN QUEEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just maybe, he is speaking of something he done in the past and wondered if he was mad to drive that far to see someone he fancied. Maybe he started dating this girl for 3 years and got treated like a piece of poo. Maybe he was just wondering if anyone else done the same or would. Maybe then he isn't stupid after all, i mean he knows you use this site right? Why shoot himself in the foot? Or maybe, you're shooting yourself in the foot? ooooooooooh the drama lol x
2006-08-31 12:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by paulcartwheel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he wasn't asking on behalf of a friend. You really don't know anything about him except how you feel. Just go with the flow and have fun but make sure you keep your wits about you and don't be led into anything which would make you uncomfortable. Always make sure some of your friends know exactly where you are whenever you see him and you should be safe
2006-08-31 11:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by T M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think relationships formed through the internet isn't healthy. A lot of guys form false relationships online just for fun. I'd say its anoyying for a guy to say, can you be my girlfriend?
Don't fall for men that swear, the're just some sick and bored bastards...
Anyways, naah forget about a guy like that, he's not worth your time and effort spent thinking about your problem.
2006-08-31 11:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by Snowflake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice. try meeting people at college or church or in a club, not over the internet. this guy could be a murderer or a rapist. and by the sound of things, he only wnts girls so he can use and abuse tham.SADIST. nogood. if he emails you, don't reply. You are worth so much more thatn this.
2006-08-31 11:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by amanda b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi jo im one of pauls friends well only on here and i actually think he likes you he told me he met you and you got on well so forget about that question he asked and see what happens?or why dont you ask him what that question he asked meant i know he flirts but everyone flirts a bit like you say your not going out yet. he seems like a nice man it just depends what you want out of it ?
2006-08-31 20:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you're not also just interested in sex then leave it alone cos thats all he's interested, sounds like he could be about ten years old from the sound of his question anyway. do more flirting meet more guys!
2006-08-31 11:13:20 · answer #9 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, meet him and tell him you saw the question. Decide what to do from his face to face reaction. If you're looking for an excuse not to meet him, then use the question.... Your call.
2006-08-31 11:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋