what would be the easiest/cheapest way to make my ex come to the house to pick the kids up? i've moved to a different town, and our divorce papers are for that town, so its impractical for me to take them there for him to get them. but how can i make him come get them here without going to court over this one issue?
2006-08-31 04:10:39 · 6 answers · asked by tonysdoll815 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you don't care enough about your kids to really want to see them.
2006-08-31 04:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it impractical for you to go there? Meet half way. Sounds more like you just want him to come to your house so you can see what he is up to or make him unconvinced. Make arrangements for the kids sake. No need to take him to court. Work it out. Hopefully you both can act like adults. Compromise for your children. Maybe he can pick them up and you can drop off. Or one weekend he can do the driving and the next time you can. You were the one to move, the courts might side with him on the driving time.
2006-08-31 04:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 16:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by biesecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both should trade off. one week you take them and one week he picks them up. this way you both are burning up gas and mileage in order to keep your kids happy. divorced parents crack me up with petty ****.
I am sure you were suppose to notify the courts and your ex if you decided to move. So rather than piss off your ex and cause him/her to report you for the violation, maybe you should suggest the compromise. Good luck
2006-08-31 04:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, just don't bring them to him.. if he wants to see his kids.. he can drive and pick them up... and if he wants to go back to court .. well it will have to be done...
2006-08-31 04:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask nicely
2006-09-03 01:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋