2006-08-31 04:08:30 · 29 answers · asked by moon_gazer33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, but your spelling is boring.....
2006-08-31 04:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope it is never ok!
It makes you a cheater. Are you a cheater? How can you trust yourself next time? How can anyone trust you--you cheat when you don't get what you want.
You disrespect marriage and a person you used to love, just for sex? Are you an addict? Are you so selfish? Does marriage mean so little to you? Do you have kids who are going to have a whore for a mother?
If you are bored, it usually means you are boring. Take the ideas you are entertaining about someone else and unleash them on your husband. He will be stunned.
If you already haved cheated, NEVER tell. EVER! Just quit and resolve not to do it anymore, and go to counselling. If he won't go with you, go alone.
If you are miserable, and want out of your marriage, go. Pack today and get out. It will be the best present you ever gave yourself. Immediately, your life will get better. Be an adult and don't require a man as a safety net to protect your bounce from one to the other. That is using people, not being adult.
And as for your husband, why would you make him a fool for love? Why would you cheat someone you used to love. Even your worst enemy deserves the real you.
Even if he is a beast-you deserve to conduct yourself in a way that would make you proud of yourself. You have NO excuse to cheat and be a tramp.
2006-08-31 04:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Maybe you are the one boring so that is why your sex life is boring. Do you ever talk to your husband? Without communication your whole marriage will fall apart. An affair will not solve anything. I bet if you offered to bring in another woman to the bedroom that your husband would love the idea and not be so bored with you!! Did you ever think about that? How would you feel if he liked that idea?
2006-08-31 04:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. All that is is an attempt to rationalize behavior that is wrong in order to make her feel better about herself.
If she had any integrity, she'd either work with her husband to improve their sex life, or divorce him so she could move on to greener pastures. Not engage in a deceitful relationship because she's too lazy to do things the right way.
2006-08-31 04:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never "okay" for anyone to have an affair. I've always heard that if your bored, you're boring,,,,,,so maybe you're not the only one feeling this way. Spice it up in the bedroom, something's got to work! (besides being unfaithful)
2006-08-31 04:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! She should try to either fix what is wrong in her marriage or get a divorce. Of course it's not ok. Is it ok for the husband to cheat on her? Because he is probably bored, too.
2006-08-31 05:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not OK cause u got married for a reason when u get married u take vowels and u are suppose to obey them and its not right to cheat on Ur husband tell him about Ur love life and try new things it might help u all out
2006-08-31 04:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by elizabeth n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not OK! are u kidding!! u made a vow to ur husband dont u have any morals.. i mean if ur sex life with him is boring work on things to make it better, dont have an affair. or divorce him or seperate.
2006-08-31 04:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Affairs are NEVER ok. If you are wanting to spice up your relationship then work on it. If you give into affairs, You are basically disrespecting your spouse and should just leave him/her if you are going to cheat.
2006-08-31 04:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can relate, but I still know that if I cheat on my spouse it will get me knowwhere!!! You can try talking to him and if things do not change and you can't even spice things up, then do as I am doing and seperate. We only have one life and it is way too short to spend it being unhappy with a spouse who may or may not change!!
Best of Luck.
2006-08-31 04:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by jpet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to wokron your marriage not leave it. Do some things to spice it up a bit, a new outfit to suduce him with, a weekend get away to a hotel just you and him, a rtomantic dinner, try stripping for him, do something crazy that will blow is mind.
2006-08-31 04:13:37 · answer #11 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋