Family & Relationships - 31 August 2006

I have left my husband several times due to the fact that he is verbally abusive to me and he doesn't take care of us(me and 3 kids) financially.He isolates me and won't let me improve myself in college or provide me with transportation to get a job so that I can have my own money.He owns his own business and does quite well but wont buy me a stove,a washer or dryer,a car,make up ,clothes,and denies me freinds. I never get to go anywhere execpt to the store to go grociery shopping and this I have to fight for. I take as much as I can and then i will kick him out or leave him. I struggle on my own but at least I have a lot more than he has ever given me and so do the kids.When I am away from him I get my own car and home,Job, or college,ect.Then he comes begging me back get a nice home for us makes all kinds of promises but it never lasts.He never puts up a fuss when I leave him and I can tell that he doesnt love me.I dont think that he ever has.But why does he always do this to me?

2006-08-31 16:53:04 · 28 answers · asked by poobear 3 in Marriage & Divorce

iam only 22 and my bf is 21 we've been together for 6 years and have 1 child I've often thought about settling down and so has he but we end up just letting it go what do you think?

2006-08-31 16:53:01 · 9 answers · asked by whitetigereyes8485 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been single for like 4 months and my ex just completely ignores me. We were together for 16 months and I miss the friendship we had. However, she just wants nothing to do with me. I think its kind of immature.

2006-08-31 16:52:48 · 19 answers · asked by Steven B 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 16:52:46 · 8 answers · asked by What the? 1 in Singles & Dating

me or tom cruise

2006-08-31 16:52:34 · 14 answers · asked by hootie_999 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married with one kid, my husband is in the province so basically i don't know what's our status. I met this yound boy who's 5 years younger than I am. At first he was just a brother to me then suddenly I felt something special was happening. Now I realize I was falling in love with him. I was scared then, I prayed to GOD asking HIS guidance for me not to fall in love with this young boy. Then now he is avoiding me, he won't text me anymore not like before...he even text me If only I am free....but now, I am confused and in pain because I have no guts to talk or confront to him. as I see him everyday, GOD knows I am hurt coz' I have no chance to be with him. That's why It's hurting me. I want to let go of my feelings but the pain still there. I don't know what to do? Please help me...

2006-08-31 16:52:08 · 17 answers · asked by jade 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-31 16:51:15 · 7 answers · asked by celeste a 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm into fashion, and I'm 13, but I really would have to choose the book store since I love books!

2006-08-31 16:50:49 · 9 answers · asked by Rawr! 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather be 100% in love with the person you are with OR have them be 100% in love with you?

2006-08-31 16:50:40 · 13 answers · asked by TheTotalStud_StudTotal 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We've always spent a weekend away for each of our birthdays. My parents give us the gift of babysitting for the weekend so we can get away twice a year for some alone time, but now the kids are at an age where they are starting to understand that they are not spending mom's birthday with her. They are 5 and 3.

2006-08-31 16:49:55 · 17 answers · asked by JustJake 5 in Family

I don't really know how to respond to that. He's not, really. I'm 18 and he's 25. Sure we flirted a bit back and forth when I was 17 but we didn't date or anything.

So what do I say when someone, even my FRIEND, says something so hurtful?

2006-08-31 16:48:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm Not Homophobic, I'm Gay, I'm Just Asking, And Just So You Know, I Could Care Less About What You Think (Negative Wise) Just Wondering!!!

2006-08-31 16:48:33 · 23 answers · asked by david_e22 3 in Friends

Im 19 and my parents got divorced when i was 4 years old. I havent talked to him for almost 4 years because of a fight i got into with him and his wife (my step-mom) so today he called and i answered the phone. He asked if he could see my 15 year old brother and I and take us out to breakfast this sunday. (my brother has still been seeing him, he say him a few months ago) anyways my mom said that i wouldnt recognize my dad, he sounded like an old grandpa on the phone today. Im just afraid to see him, see how he's let himself go (my mom said he's fat wrinky and has white hair) I dont know if ill be able to deal with what he looks like and seeing him again since i havent seen him in over 4 years... any tips to deal with this situation would be great =)

i really dont want to see him but want to catch up ....

2006-08-31 16:47:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well, i have a girlfrined, things are great, but sumtimes we lie to her family just so me and her can spend time together, cuz during the week, we NEVER get to see eachother, so we take advantage of every second, for example, today, we were supposed to go to some football game, and instead, we gave the tickets to my brother and we spend the time we were supposed to be the game to be in my house, is this right?? should i feel bad??

2006-08-31 16:47:49 · 33 answers · asked by Beto G 1 in Singles & Dating

mine either was playground train tracks or trampoline(very fun)how bout you? get caught?

2006-08-31 16:47:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how should a parent explain something like this to such a young child, i want to go by the " if your old enough to ask, your old enough to get the answer."

2006-08-31 16:43:37 · 43 answers · asked by evilpoutyangel 2 in Family

is it just a turn on to see ne that is bigger?

2006-08-31 16:43:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to because i saw a picture of lita from sailor moon getting tickled on her foot and it looked like a screenshot

2006-08-31 16:42:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nAPrkqsxX4

2006-08-31 16:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 16:42:00 · 4 answers · asked by thecure_love_song 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hmmm, but... what if you also know that they dont do a very good job at showing emotions? Should you still give them a chance and wait... even though you've been waiting?

2006-08-31 16:41:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like made love with my best friend which i had kown for 10 years now,We were drunk that night.And after that(it happened a month ago)she seems to b advoiding me and when she sees me,she gets pretty shy and awkward. She dosen't even talk to me that much now.She is always keeping things short now and giving me one word answers.I still want to be friends with her,what should i do?

2006-08-31 16:40:40 · 15 answers · asked by Hideyoshi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 16:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you are reading this post a comment...im just doing a little research on now ppl tend to be always curious=P

2006-08-31 16:40:21 · 17 answers · asked by Erik! i didnt think id use this! 2 in Singles & Dating

i had already posted a question simliar to this and the answers i got were GREAT. BUT i need a website to look at the pictures. there is one problem though..my family does not have a picture or name of my lost grandpa.. maybe i'll recognize him when i see him ..because my dad looks more american than vietnamese. there might be a one in a million chance of me finding the correct guy...but theres no harm in trying. please help!!

2006-08-31 16:40:18 · 2 answers · asked by vinapieee 1 in Family

Anybody know a Chris Gatto from Staten Island NY?

2006-08-31 16:38:59 · 1 answers · asked by ihaveahugecrush 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my girl now for wut will be 4 years on Sep. 1st and im kinda stumped, i wanna do sumthin really special for her, but im not quite sure wut i wanna do, i thought of taking her sumwhere nice to eat but the area we live in doesnt have a nice restaurant for miles and im just not the spur of the moment romantic guy...does anyone have any ideas for me for things i could do, i would use em to help me think of sumthin myself, anything would be helpful, thanks

2006-08-31 16:38:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married and well I was on myspace and accidently log into her finance's myspace account and really accidently I pressed y instead of k and it logged in....Well I read his mail because I don't trust him and well I found all this mail from girls that he has asked for there numbers and even girls have told him that he is in a relationship and that they don't do that but he still ask other girls....Now I printed all the papers out to show but instead I told her and well she said "I know he flirts" WHAT??!?....He shouldn't do that if he is happy right?? I don't know how to get it though here head????

2006-08-31 16:38:04 · 8 answers · asked by christina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

somebody in my family was on here asking the least painful way to kill them self.. when i brought it to there attention they said it was no big deal I mean that isn't normal or is it no big deal someone ask what is a least painful way to kill t hem self. I mean i thought normal people don't care to know about stuff like that or y would some one want to know about ways to kill them self. If you love some one you worry you can go look at her questions her name is badgirlgimpy........im really confused

2006-08-31 16:37:41 · 28 answers · asked by ms fitness 1 in Family

i've liked this guy for three years, but we've never gone out. im ready to get over him, but i can't. its like a habit and hes the onllyyy one i want but i don't think he likes me! HELP!

2006-08-31 16:37:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating