well, i have a girlfrined, things are great, but sumtimes we lie to her family just so me and her can spend time together, cuz during the week, we NEVER get to see eachother, so we take advantage of every second, for example, today, we were supposed to go to some football game, and instead, we gave the tickets to my brother and we spend the time we were supposed to be the game to be in my house, is this right?? should i feel bad??
2006-08-31 16:47:49 · 33 answers · asked by Beto G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you are in love you do lots of things that don't make sense. I have done the same things before. The only bad thing is that your parents will be very upset to find our you have lied. That is what they get mad about, the lies. Cant you tell your mom you would rather have a quiet date with your girl instead of going to the game?
2006-08-31 16:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by GiGi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not totally wrong but if its to do things that are against her parents wishes then yes maybe you two should think before acting and also come up with a way to actually be honest and open and tell her family the truth..........It also depends on how long you 2 have been together and how far you plan to take this relationship!
2006-08-31 16:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by lttlbt22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it bad. But I understand u cause if u don't spend time with each other during the week. Sometime u have to lie alittle bit. But dont feel bad.
2006-08-31 16:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by lovelycoqueta202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is bad to sneak around because it teaches you both how to hide if you cheat. Never learn that together! Grow up and be honest instead of do stupid things that make you feel like you have done something wrong or make you feel bad.
2006-08-31 16:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by reasonable-sale-lots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you 2 are not doing anything your not supposed to be doing. Yes, simply because you are lying. There is no need to lie if you two are good for each other. Unless there are certain situations (her family doesnt like you, or vice versa), in order for you two to be together, you might have to lie. And you also have to ask yourself wether or not its worth it to lie.
2006-08-31 16:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her? Try not to lie Phone contact is possible during the week. Lying is a sin thats true. Use emails too
2006-08-31 16:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest. Eventually, the family is going to find out and then you two will be spending less time with each other.
2006-08-31 16:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by Ewww Gross 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i really wanted to spend that much time with my boyfriend i would do the same. i lie to my parents about dating. it is right unless you guys lie about serious things like being pregnant, engaged, etc. i don't think you should feel bad.
2006-08-31 16:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying is bad just tell her parents the truth. If your over 16 why lie to her parents. Have fun you!
2006-08-31 16:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel bad.... if you know what you are doing is wrong then why do it in the first place.... what are you going to do spend the rest of your life lieing to people..... you are a grown person you need to learn to stand up on your feet and tell people how you feel.... If you care so much ... about how people feel then what do you think God is going to do to you when you get to heaven and he says why did you lie so much.... your answer will be what???????? because you care about peoples feeling.... then you should care about spending the rest of your life... in HEL*....now are you sure you want to contiune lieing....
2006-08-31 16:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by lapeachroses 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋