I have been single for like 4 months and my ex just completely ignores me. We were together for 16 months and I miss the friendship we had. However, she just wants nothing to do with me. I think its kind of immature.
2006-08-31 16:52:48 · 19 answers · asked by Steven B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you break up that means cut the strings completely. Its very hard to remain friends after ending a relationship and especially if it was on bad terms. She probably wants to move on. Take the hint and don't approach her anymore. You need to move forward and when your ready find another friend. Maybe down the road you can become friends with her with no strings attached. But as of now I would stay away from her and not even say hi to her. You need to have pride and respect for yourself.
2006-08-31 17:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, she is probably trying to get over U, and seeing U makes her weak and fall right back into the trap she was previously in. Give her as much time as she needs then if U were good friends like U say when she feels confident enough to be around U without turning into putty the friendship will resume. Be Patient!
2006-08-31 16:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be childish, but it's perfectly normal. Probably she was hurt when you broke up, even if she was the one who made that decision, and doesn't want to open up old wounds. Probably she wants to move one, and having you around makes her feel like tied to a thing of the past (your relationship, not your friendship).
Or maybe you're rigth, she's just plain immature.
2006-08-31 16:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it is immature but she could also be feeling awkward and probably still has those romantic feelings for you but she should at least just make a point in having some form of friendship with you it's childish to ignore you don't let her make you feel guilty for the breakup which is totally don't have to feel that way tell her how you feel about it but most people deal with breakups different ways
2006-08-31 16:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by USAF1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not childish at all. She is hurt and is not ready to face how she feels about it. Along with hurt there is also anger, and relief when she sees that if it is going to be OVER this is the only way she can keep her heart out of anything to do with you. There are reasons why you have broken up and sometimes along with the pain and anger comes memories you just dont want to go back to. To stay clear of being hurt again this is her only defence to teach herself and you to move on. I understand her completely, with no offence to you, but I have been there and done that and will never be there again.
2006-08-31 17:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by reasonable-sale-lots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not I want nothing to do with my exes i cpould give a rats a$$ aboput them
It i s normal and healthy she is trying to move on inlife and so should you forget the #$%^ and find a new GF if ya had one you can find another . Well for a while then you gota have looks and Bucks. But have fun while your young sow a;ll the wild seeds ya can .
She is just one unimportant person .
2006-08-31 16:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by crps_1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people need time to get over a breakup and then they can be friends. Sometimes it isn't good to try to be friends with someone who hurt you deeply. I find it easier to be friends with the guys that I didn't fall in love with - they didn't break my heart as bad. You didn't say how the relationship ended - who was the dumpee. Usually one person is affected more by the breakup. You just have to find other friends and give her space.
2006-08-31 17:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by UpanishadMorning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question... I broke up with my guy about 2 years ago and really wanted to remain friends with him. So we started hanging out sometimes, dinner, movies, etc. But I found out that being with him kept me in love with him. I was not able to go on with my life. So I finally had to stop seeing him altogether. Maybe it's kind of immature, but it was necessary for me to find closure. Maybe she is still in love with you and seeing you hurts too bad.
2006-08-31 17:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by spirited 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how you guys broke up, if you ended on bad terms I will admit that yes, I would avoid you. Now if we ended mutually with no problems then I wouldn't avoid you and yes it would be immature to avoid you then.
2006-08-31 16:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the circumstances of the breakup, possibly she thinks you want to be friends in order to get back together.
2006-08-31 16:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋