Family & Relationships - 31 August 2006

so i've liked this girl who has a cottage down the lake from mine, for a really long time. I go down there every weekend because our parents grew up together and the 26 kids down there love me. They do tease me and her alot because they found out that i have a major crush on their sister/cousin. the girl is a year younger than me but she is real mature. she however isnt into dating that much. she is always on my mind and i can't get over her. and this being the last weekend of the summer i want to finally make a move on her but i dont want to ruin our friendship or freak her out. Her family is huge and they are always around so it is tough to get her to talk alone. Should i make a move on her or back off? what would be an appropriate move to put on her? i need any advice you guys might have.

2006-08-31 17:49:39 · 15 answers · asked by Hockey51319 2 in Singles & Dating

To all you single people out there, what do you do when you start to feel lonely and there's no one around, not even friends, to take your mind of it (and your hormones are raging lol)?

2006-08-31 17:47:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you're in a relationship, and things get a little boring in the bedroom, what do you do to make it more exciting?

2006-08-31 17:47:21 · 25 answers · asked by LadyLindsay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-31 17:46:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that was done to you by someone(friend,acquaintance,co-worker,significant other).

2006-08-31 17:46:09 · 12 answers · asked by starrdevine 6 in Friends

you think is right to have 2 more beautiful precious babys

2006-08-31 17:45:50 · 16 answers · asked by PACKZ.... 2 in Weddings

should i have sex with him before we get married or justdo it?

2006-08-31 17:45:42 · 23 answers · asked by snowflake 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i am getting married in 2 months and SUPRISE im pregnant... do u tell people or act like i dont know

2006-08-31 17:45:37 · 11 answers · asked by alie 1 in Weddings

I met a man on the net, the trouble is, within not so long of getting to know him, he started declaring his undying and unconditional love for me and saying we could get married and have children. At first i didn't think he was serious, but then discovered that he was dead serious. By then I realised he may be a bit 'kooky' and did not speak to him for as long as I could. The trouble is, he keeps contacting me, begging me to take him back and saying he is heartbroken and depressed. I know what he is trying to do, trying to make me feel bad so I speak to him again. The trouble is I do feel bad. I have written several e-mails telling him what we had is over, but it makes him try even harder to beg me to come back to him. I have never met him or even seen a photo of him, so I know it is not 'very real'. What can I do?

2006-08-31 17:45:10 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 17:43:41 · 40 answers · asked by filipina_babe_8 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 17:42:55 · 18 answers · asked by ravi k 1 in Family

i have kids
car
house
clothe
lovely wife etc...

2006-08-31 17:42:15 · 20 answers · asked by PACKZ.... 2 in Family

I am attracted to a guy who is of a different race. Has that happened to you?

2006-08-31 17:41:16 · 26 answers · asked by Dune 2 in Singles & Dating

Tell me your sex confession....

2006-08-31 17:41:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 17:40:28 · 10 answers · asked by Mr Spock 4 in Singles & Dating

but I don wanna get married. What can I do? If I have spend, how much is expected?

2006-08-31 17:39:50 · 6 answers · asked by Luck charge 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-31 17:39:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How can I tell my teenage son that he should not hang around with this certain kid at school. The kid is definately a bad influence on my son.

2006-08-31 17:39:39 · 17 answers · asked by libertino85 2 in Family

and I am wondering if he likes me back(the same way I like him). He's not only older, but a teacher at my school(not my teacher). I am 26 and he's 43. We talk all the time after classes and we have a lot in common. But here's the thing, my school has a strict no teacher-student relationships weather its friend or romantic. So we've never talked openly about our feelings. I know he knows I like him, but how can tell if he likes me? He opens doors for me, he winks at me, he tells me really personal things that I don't think a teacher would normally discuss with his students. Does this mean he likes me? Or am I just reading too far into it? I graduate in April '07 and I might not find out for sure if he likes me until then. I just hope I'm not wasting my time, even though I really enjoy talking with him!

2006-08-31 17:39:28 · 14 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

1. SUPERFICIAL CHARM -- the tendency to be smooth, engaging, charming, and slick. Not in the least shy, self-conscious, or afraid to say anything. He never gets tongue-tied and has freed himself from the social conventions about taking turns in talking, for example.


2. GRANDIOSE SELF-WORTH -- a grossly inflated view of one's abilities and self-worth, self-assured, opinionated, cocky, a braggart. An arrogant guy who believes he is a superior human being.


3. NEED FOR STIMULATION (PRONENESS TO BOREDOM) -- an excessive need for novel, thrilling, and exciting stimulation; taking chances and doing things that are risky. Often has low self-discipline in carrying tasks through to completion because he gets bored easily.


4. PATHOLOGICAL LYING -- can be moderate or high; in moderate form, and will be shrewd, crafty, cunning, sly, and clever (in extreme form, he will be deceptive, deceitful, underhanded, unscrupulous, manipulative, and dishonest).


5. CONNING AND MANIPULATIVENESS -- the use of deceit and deception to cheat, con, or defraud others for personal gain; distinguished from Item #4 in the degree to which exploitation and callous ruthlessness is present, as reflected in a lack of concern for the feelings and suffering of one's victims.


6. LACK OF REMORSE OR GUILT -- a lack of feelings or concern for the losses, pain, and suffering of victims; a tendency to be unconcerned, dispassionate, coldhearted, and unempathic. This item is usually demonstrated by a disdain for one's victims.


7. SHALLOW AFFECT -- emotional poverty or a limited range or depth of feelings; interpersonal coldness in spite of signs of open gregariousness.


8. CALLOUSNESS and LACK OF EMPATHY -- a lack of feelings toward people in general; cold, contemptuous, inconsiderate, and tactless.


9. PARASITIC LIFESTYLE -- an intentional, manipulative, selfish, and exploitative financial dependence on others as reflected in a lack of motivation, low self-discipline, and inability to begin or complete responsibilities.


10. POOR BEHAVIORAL CONTROLS -- expressions of irritability, annoyance, impatience, threats, aggression, and verbal abuse; inadequate control of anger and temper; acting hastily.


11. PROMISCUOUS SEXUAL BEHAVIOR -- a variety of brief, superficial relations, numerous affairs, and an indiscriminate selection of sexual partners; the maintenance of several relationships at the same time; a history of attempts to sexually coerce others into sexual activity or taking great pride at discussing sexual exploits or conquests.


12. LACK OF REALISTIC, LONG-TERM GOALS -- an inability or persistent failure to develop and execute long-term plans and goals; a nomadic existence, aimless, lacking direction in life.


13. IMPULSIVITY -- the occurrence of behaviors that are unpremeditated and lack reflection or planning; inability to resist temptation, frustrations, and urges; a lack of deliberation without considering the consequences; foolhardy, rash, unpredictable, erratic, and reckless.


14. IRRESPONSIBILITY -- repeated failure to fulfill or honor obligations and commitments; such as not paying bills, defaulting on loans, performing sloppy work, being absent or late to work, failing to honor contractual agreements.


15. FAILURE TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR OWN ACTIONS -- a failure to accept responsibility for one's actions reflected in low conscientiousness, an absence of dutifulness, antagonistic manipulation, denial of responsibility, and an effort to manipulate others through this denial.


16. MANY SHORT-TERM RELATIONSHIPS -- a lack of commitment to a long-term relationship reflected in inconsistent, undependable, and unreliable commitments in life, including marital.


17. JUVENILE DELINQUENCY -- behavior problems between the ages of 13-18; mostly behaviors that are crimes or clearly involve aspects of antagonism, exploitation, aggression, manipulation, or a callous, ruthless tough-mindedness.


18. CRIMINAL VERSATILITY -- A diversity of types of criminal offenses (regardless if the person has been arrested or convicted for them); taking great pride at getting away with crimes.

2006-08-31 17:38:41 · 10 answers · asked by poobear 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What is a good gift to give my boyfriend of almost 4 years? I gave him and iPod for Christmas and I'm having a hard time figuring out something else just as good

2006-08-31 17:38:36 · 7 answers · asked by brookie5303 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 17:38:30 · 13 answers · asked by lalnir 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i asked where i could find a long lost friend a while back and i found him. i havent seen him in 8 years. but he e-mailed pics of him and i think he is really cute now, i think im fallin for him big time. we were friends for 4 years and then i moved away. now im going back to see him and were going to get tatoos and just have lots of fun. the problem is, he has a girlfriend that he has been with for only 2 monts. i really like him and if he likes me back ill stay in minnesota. but i dont know how to be around him. how would you be if you just been reunited with an old friend. we were friends when we were only 6-10. now im gonna see him. the question is, should i try to get with him. i really feel so happy to see him but i need some edvice. can anyone help?

2006-08-31 17:38:28 · 4 answers · asked by laughwithashley 1 in Singles & Dating

i am curious! i just got my heart broke badly! and she treated me so bad it was like i aint $hit, and it caused my self esteem to drop! so i need some honest help! looking at my 360 page how would you say i look, and be honest! but if you say something crazy beware! i bite back:)

2006-08-31 17:38:12 · 8 answers · asked by DUSTY 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-31 17:37:47 · 3 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Family

like my question earlier my fiancee of 2 yrs broke up with me 3 weeks ago and left me to raise our son and now hes already seeing someone i hurt so bad and cant stop crying how could he do this ya know i just hurt and can barly breath what should i do please help me im all alone

2006-08-31 17:37:44 · 11 answers · asked by xxmommasgirl2005xxx 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years! i love him and he does too, but eveytime he gets drunk he get all crazy and calls me some VerY disrespectfull names. even when he isn't drunk sometime's he crosses the line, so when i tell him it's over he apologizes and does the nicest things ever, so anyway i'm sick of it!!! i can't just keep on taking the appologies anymore.... most people say he doesn't love me, but i know he does, my name and face is tattood on his back,,,,,,,,should i just throw it all away, what can i do????

2006-08-31 17:37:07 · 28 answers · asked by →Sasha← 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

and yes, they know you think it is important

2006-08-31 17:36:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You're wife betrays you with another, not sexually, and says the marriage is not working. In the meantime there is a woman from work that has constantly been coming on to you for well over a year, asking for whatever you're willing to give her. You still live with your wife and children, do you now give into this woman?

2006-08-31 17:36:35 · 11 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just bored ...whats up ladies,gentleman, ducks, chickens and others

2006-08-31 17:36:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating