I am hurting so bad...?

Question

like my question earlier my fiancee of 2 yrs broke up with me 3 weeks ago and left me to raise our son and now hes already seeing someone i hurt so bad and cant stop crying how could he do this ya know i just hurt and can barly breath what should i do please help me im all alone

Answer 1

There's a reason to wait till marriage to have sex.

Answer 2

I'm very sorry for you. But you NEED to be strong for your son. It's not just about you - there's another little life involved here too. I don't mean to sound harsh, and I hope you don't take it that way. But you have to just kind of suck it up and be a mom. Moreover, concentrate your thoughts on what a HUGE JERK this guy is to have left you all alone with a baby just to get some new piece of a.ss. It's going to be hard for a while. Surround yourself with family and friends, people you can trust and count on. You have nothing to cry about, he's obviously a jerk, and in the long run you'll be glad he left now rather than when you were married. (Thank god you weren't!) If you want to just get all your thoughts out to a friendly ear, you can email me thru my profile. I hate to see any woman hurting over a no good, child-abandoning man. Good luck to you honey. It may not seem so now, but things WILL get better for you.

Answer 3

Nothing you can do the damage is already done. I know that is probably not the answer you were wanting but it is a truthful one. The best thing you can do now is move on with your life continue to be the best mom you know how to be. Better yourself the best way you know how to. Act as though it doesn't bother you that he left you and tell him that you wish him happiness. Be independant and live life for your son and you. This might sound wierd but I will tell you it is the best revenge to show this guy that you can live your life without him.

Answer 4

You may feel alone, but there are many, many people who have been through what you are going through. I was with someone for 9 years and he married the next woman he dated. I know it hurts, but I also know that I am better off now. It will take time, and you have to be patient with yourself and let yourself hurt for a while. Take care of yourself and your son. Nobody is more important than you and he right now.

Answer 5

I can tell you from previous experience that crying, begging, or acting sad when he (the ex fiance) is around, won't help get him back. Suck it up, and atleast when he's around (if he's around) be strong, confident, and act like life couldn't be better. There's a saying that you don't know what you had until you lost it, and as long as he thinks he can still get it, he won't want it. For you, personally, I would honestly go to some personal therapy. Counties have therapy programs for low-income, should you need it. Some charge as little as $5 for the whole hour. I'm not saying you need it, but it really helps to talk to someone. It also helps you straighten your own thoughts out and concentrate on what is most important - providing a happy healthy life for you and your little boy.

Answer 6

look first thing in the morning you go see your doctor ,he can give you something to help you deal with things a little easier.then you take back control of your life.i know its not easy as a matter of fact its hard as hell.but you can and will do it be cause you have a son.i did it and i have 3 girls by my ex.u see what hes not thinking about is what goes around comes around and that my friend is true.someone else is going to come your way and its going to burn him up to see you and his son with someone else,and there will be nothing he can do about it.so you STOP CRYING and START THINKING.good luck.

Answer 7

i know it hurts don't trip. you a woman you can get someone else also. lose that baby fat and keep on pushing. he probably is doing you a favor. pick your self up,we have all been through some hard trying times. we always come through. tears make your eyes prettier. it's fresh right now, time heals all wounds so keep on pushing. god is there all the time. when i went hrough my depression, i was ashamed, hurt, felt used, and everything you are feeling right now. at work i stayed in the chapel crying and praying. you have to be strong for the baby okay. don't except him back he probably been doing it.

Answer 8

DO u no y he left u first u should figure out y if u dont no then u can try and fix the problem to make thing make things better if he do need u dont feel ugly that how i felt when my bf broke up wit me after 5 months togher i felt bad ugly alne but now im happy wit sum1 else if he truly doesnt want u leave him b and try and move on and maybe hell feel srry to lose u that wat happe to me but it might not happen to u plz write back to me plz

Answer 9

sounds like austin aint really worth your time if he can just up and leave you and your child. if he did come back you would be worried he would leave again if things wasnt going his way. try and move on the hurt will get better. i know you will make someone a wonderful princess and you will find your prince..

Answer 10

You have probably heard this a million times but only time will heal your pain. Keep yourself busy and surround yourself with friends and family. Seek out a single mothers group in your area. Get active in a church and start your relationship with God first and for most! God loves you and he wants you to want Him.

Answer 11

THAT MAN IS A B-I-T-C-H MOVE ON GURL AND DONT CRY NO MORE HE IS NOT WORTH IT U WILL FIND SOMEONE BETTER SO KEEP ON GOING GURL BE STRONG 4 URSELF AND KID