What do you think of mixed relationships?

Question

I am attracted to a guy who is of a different race. Has that happened to you?

Answer 1

race shouldnt matter ...

Answer 2

All relationships are mixed or should be.
IE: Male and Female. But they do get along together pretty well. On the other hand sometimes the differences get in the way. And some times differences can throw a monkey wrench into the works.

If you are just dating and both able to see other people. It is fine.
I recommend that you don't to jump into going steady. There are a lot of fish in the sea. If you date a bluefish and a gold fish at the same time you will know who you like better.

One of the problems with interracial dating is there is enough differences visually or with customs it can make it more difficult to see that those are not the only objections you may be thinking about. And since you don't want to be racially prejudiced, you may be staying with someone who wouldn't be right for you even if they were the same race.

God Bless, :-)

Answer 3

There's nothing wrong with a mixed relationship...my boyfriend of 3 years is of a different race, and we hardly ever notice. Also, when it really comes down to it, your race isn't going to determine whether you guys will be more compatible or not. You can't help who you love.

Answer 4

I was once briefly attracted to a Mexican. I'm White/Native American/Black myself.

If you take the skin off us, we're all the color on the inside. We all got red blood, same brain color, etc.

I don't give a frig (f-ck) what anyone says, love is color blind! If you truly love someone, race, or anything else that's about physical appearance, does not matter.

I also don't give a frig what people say about this, just because a person loves someone who is outside their race but don't date within their race DOES NOT make them racist against their own race; it just makes them more open-minded about dating other races.

And I do agree about mixed couples making beautiful kids. Shoot, my niece's mother is half White & half Mexican, and she's beautiful.

It's like this: Cats do it, dogs do it, no one says sh-t, so us humans should have the freedom to "mix", too!

Answer 5

I am married to a different race then me. We have been together for 6 years and married for 1. I love my relationship with my husband. I think that you should go for it and see what happens. Good luck girl.

Answer 6

I have dated several men who were of a different race them me. I think people should look at who they are not what they are. I don't care what race they are as long as they are good people and are good people. I married a man who is Native American

Answer 7

Yeah i was attractive to a mexican but nothing happen. it's cool i dont look at race or color that really dont matter because we are all God's children and its not how you look on the outside it's whats inside. I not racial i love all people different shape size and color you just got to make yourself happy in life because its short so you got to live pass color and look deeper.

Answer 8

Ask him out if your attracted to him, what's it matter what race he is, sure your a different race to him, would he mind?

Answer 9

Race is just what we are. Not who we are. Girl dating outside your race is great, No expectations. You will both learn differences......

Answer 10

i think mixed relationships are okay. it shouldn't matter what there race is when you have feelings for someone.

Answer 11

yes i am only attracted to black men, and i am hawaiian, mexican, white, and chinese, so i am a mixed puppy, are really there is nothing wrong with it!!! We all have feelings... we all have red blood, and skin color aint nothing but being different from others.... nothing is wrong with it! Go for it girl!!! :o) c-ya