I am married with one kid, my husband is in the province so basically i don't know what's our status. I met this yound boy who's 5 years younger than I am. At first he was just a brother to me then suddenly I felt something special was happening. Now I realize I was falling in love with him. I was scared then, I prayed to GOD asking HIS guidance for me not to fall in love with this young boy. Then now he is avoiding me, he won't text me anymore not like before...he even text me If only I am free....but now, I am confused and in pain because I have no guts to talk or confront to him. as I see him everyday, GOD knows I am hurt coz' I have no chance to be with him. That's why It's hurting me. I want to let go of my feelings but the pain still there. I don't know what to do? Please help me...
2006-08-31 16:52:08 · 17 answers · asked by jade 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can either try to let him go completely, hard break or let him drift away, or you can take the connection you have with him and try to forge a friendship that will be truely meaningful and long lasting. It's gonna hurt either way.
Or take the pain as being God's way of saying, "Hey, I've been around since the beginning of time, and I'm going to give you several more decades on that planet I gave to my children. What's five years?
Good luck either way.
2006-08-31 16:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by eyesinthedarkness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness kills ya. I just tell you that you are infatuate with this boy because he is close to you. And you need some male companionships.
I think you should find some new things in your live to occupy yourself. Something new that you never tried or learn before. It will takes your mind off this. Yes, you still see him but at least part of your time will be thinking and concentration on new things.
How about picking up some sports ? Racquet ball or tennis. Something that you play against someone.
2006-08-31 23:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Just_curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he was five years younger than you, how old are you? You said that your husband was in the "province"...not sure what that means. Nevertheless, unless you are divorced, you are unavailable, so, get over it. Your the adult, at like one.
2006-08-31 23:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by nkg0515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the relationship is over. You need to move on. Talk to your husband & see where you stand with him. If he says he doesn't want to be with you anymore then find someone who does want to be with you.
2006-09-01 00:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MISS LADY, THE REASON THAT IS HAPPENING IS BECAUSE THAT IS A BIG SIGN FOR YOU TO LET THAT YOUNG JERK KEEP IT MOVING, SECONDLY MAYBE YOU NEED TO SEVER YOUR TIES WITH YOUR SPOUSE IF YOU ARE GOING TO ALLOW YOURSELF TO START FALLING FOR ANYONE ELSE.
find something else to focus on like your child so that way your feelings for dude will slowly go away. PLEASE DO IT, BECAUSE YOU ARE GIVING HIM TO MUCH POWER OVER YOU.
2006-08-31 23:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by LEXY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first learn English and how to use spell check............then take care of your child and grow up yourself. Then find a man who is all grown up !! That would be a good start
2006-09-01 00:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by tpepper22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep praying. maybe god has answered you by the young man not text you anymore
2006-08-31 23:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by kimj g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jade, listen to me..........If you are unhappy in your current marriage, don't do anything to cause you the loss of your child.....Get a divorce first........If he is no longer paying attention to you, like he did before, consider that maybe God answered your plea for help........
2006-08-31 23:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in time u will get over it try 2 forget him do something 2 take ya mind off him good luck-xx
2006-08-31 23:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by robert m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not good. but if you really love him talk to your husband. then talk to the younger boy. see what he thinks abiut everything. get a divorce if you dont think that its the best thing. hope i helped. adn the best of luck
2006-08-31 23:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by Shelby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋