My sister is getting married and well I was on myspace and accidently log into her finance's myspace account and really accidently I pressed y instead of k and it logged in....Well I read his mail because I don't trust him and well I found all this mail from girls that he has asked for there numbers and even girls have told him that he is in a relationship and that they don't do that but he still ask other girls....Now I printed all the papers out to show but instead I told her and well she said "I know he flirts" WHAT??!?....He shouldn't do that if he is happy right?? I don't know how to get it though here head????
2006-08-31 16:38:04 · 8 answers · asked by christina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are a snoop and this is none of your business. Apparently your sister is secure enough not to worry about online fantasies.
I suggest you butt out and leave them alone.
2006-08-31 16:46:24 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe confronting him, is an option, and talking to your sister again, perhaps he flirts, but it seems overboard. Then again if you have confronted your sister with all at hand, then it must be ok with her.....You are a good sister to look after her.....and if you have done all you can do.....there will be nothing you can do to change her mind. But I'd give her one more talking to, or talk to him, and tell him how you feel. Some jsut don't care about internet relationships..... as long as it's just talk. It depends on your sisters feeling...... I am sorry for you, as you are trying to help. I can just suggest one more time to give it a shot, to the both of them...... and considered yourself has having tried. Thier marraige, seems like there may be problems eventually... then again depending how your sister feels toward the internet thing. If they are girls that live close by, she should be worried..... and talk to him herself...... You are a good sister to care enough to outreach to her.... Yes he should be happy with just her.......
2006-08-31 17:00:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did all that and she responds that way, there is nothing else you can do but make your sister mad at you. Believe me, I've seen women get angry at the truth-bearer over a whole heck of a lot more than that. Chill. She'll have to take her lumps on the head; and when she does, be a sister and be there for her (with the ice pack).
2006-08-31 16:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by ann a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing.Two things that you can help your sister out. First tell her to talk to a therapist or the counselor who can give her the best advise. Actually it must better if she can bring her fiancee. It's easy to enter in the marriage but it is hard to get out. If her fiancee cheated her now, it will worst when she is married to him, especially when she get pregnant and have a baby. That is what we call Calvary...
2006-08-31 16:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by marilou a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to show her the proof give her is log info and tell her to see for her self, You have no reason to lie, Tell her you don;t want to find out the hard way and you love her and have her best interest at heart,,
2006-08-31 16:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know dat would bother me-so i guess ur sis should have a talk w/ him-i know i wouldnt want dat over my head after we'vw gotten married-dis does not consist as cheatin(not technically)but it will surrely cause problems later on-ur sis should b extremely careful
2006-08-31 16:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she really needs to think things thru...internet dating is addictive.He won't change,just because he's married..me and my bf split this morning because of that. I even told him that if he did it, we would split and i would act like he never existed...didn't matter,he still did it. And he's gone now....(bf? what bf)
2006-08-31 16:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by kissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should confront him in private first because your sister will be devastated when she finds out
2006-08-31 16:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by USAF1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋