Family & Relationships - 30 August 2006

Hi,
I'am a mom and married for 8yrs. I have developed a crush on a guy at my workplace who is older to me and is unmarried. I try to avoid him everytime but the feeling keeps bugging me. How do i get rid of this feeling as i feel very guilty everytime his thought comes to y mind. He is a very shy and softspoken guy and is very nice to me. Any suggestions??????????

2006-08-30 20:26:39 · 7 answers · asked by Libran 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-30 20:25:42 · 55 answers · asked by basheeralmorshed1 1 in Singles & Dating

answers must be 6-8 sentences.. thats all

2006-08-30 20:25:18 · 11 answers · asked by mark 1 in Friends

This hasn't happened to me but my sister left her husband of 10 yrs. for another man. This was almost 2 yrs. ago and her husband is still willing and hoping to get her back. Also do you think it takes a strong person to be able to take someone back like that or a weak person for not getting a divorce and getting on with life. I think it would take a very strong person to do that.

2006-08-30 20:24:50 · 18 answers · asked by sweet.pjs1 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Wondering

2006-08-30 20:24:06 · 12 answers · asked by Frenchie 1 in Singles & Dating

I m in a NEW HIGH SCHOOL. i m scared of te first day. i m male n m a teen(senior yr).
I do i make friends.........what the hell!!!!
all the people ARE NEW N foreign

2006-08-30 20:23:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I had asked a question about this guy who is the touchy-feely sort of person, and according to some of the answers I got, I kinda figured that he likes me, by the way he hugs me and rubs my shoulders, and plays with my hair. So I would really like to have this person in my life on a boyfriend/girlfriend basis, but he already has a girlfriend, What should I do about this? I'm not the type to ruin relationships, but I think i'm in love with him. And for the record, he has been fighting with his girlfriend quite often. (She even slept with his best friend!!) Any advice on how to go abouts this thing, or perhaps you might know what is going through his mind????

2006-08-30 20:20:57 · 28 answers · asked by stargazer 3 in Singles & Dating

bleeds when see loses her virginity??

2006-08-30 20:19:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Later he said he could never please me. That was ten years ago! I don't won't my ex; he was a sawed off bent back runt with an attitude. I have a boyfriend but he can be very rude at times. I like a man who shows me respect all the time. I am in my 40's and feel as though I just can't please or find one that pleases me. None of my relationships ever work out.

2006-08-30 20:18:58 · 21 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i have 2 children from him and they are with my laws. i am new married and i love my second husband so much and he loves me too. my x husband always calls my mother and promise her to change himself and will do his effort to make me happy. but i am in deep love with my current husband and i am happy with him ..but i am afraid about my kids' future...specially i can't raise them up in my new life. plz give me advice..

2006-08-30 20:15:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy, i guess he likes me too but im shy so i guess he doesnt know i like him. he's tried to talk to me a couple of time but i either too shy to talk or walked away( it sucks!). this morning, we were in class, he just came up in front of me and gave out his hand to shake hands with me. i thought it was weird , he was still waiting and i gave him my hand finally after abt 30 seconds of hestiating( god, his hand was so warm, that's the moment of my life!!!). our teacher saw that, she was joking like" she doesn't trust you" and he was like "yea..i don't know why" then she asked him to come back to his seat and he did. after that, we still havent talked or anything. how does he really feel and what is he thinking?

2006-08-30 20:15:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 20:14:29 · 22 answers · asked by SJ5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a little shy and I want to make the night the very best memory for my husband. I am thinking about doing a little strip tease on our wedding night. Do you think this is appropriate or would this be moving too fast? I would need stripper lessons too.... never stripped before, or had sex with my husband to be. What should I do?

2006-08-30 20:13:59 · 23 answers · asked by EDNA 1 in Weddings

OK. i gess thats a random question, saut of, but my guy friend asked me when we were talking bout what guys like more (hes a bit crazy and seens to be looking for the rong things) but i thought i would be a kind friend and find out for him. So... what is your answer guys???

2006-08-30 20:13:31 · 18 answers · asked by Lanjella 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 20:12:51 · 7 answers · asked by darLa 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 20:10:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

By BF is in another country. He went 1 years before and will come back after another year. When we were together he has has given me very few things as gifts (almost no). And he is shorter than me. Thiner than me.
Recently I feel a boy in my class is interested in me.He always talks with me, spents time with me. He is not like my BF. He is really active than my BF. Taller than me. Fashionable.
And I am 5 yeras younger than my BF.
Is tyhe new boy really interested in me?. What should I do?.

2006-08-30 20:05:37 · 12 answers · asked by masha_nw 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it normal for my husband to always feel like he wants sex..dAy and night and inbetween he always likes to f**k me..when we finish he still wants more. Even he thinks something is wrong with him?..

2006-08-30 20:05:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Join this one..

http://www.lostcherry.com/join.php?friend=188591

2006-08-30 20:05:17 · 4 answers · asked by broken_juggalette_11705 2 in Friends

I find myself ragging on every mistake my wife makes., no matter how small it is I still point out every little thing she does wrong. I tell myself that it is because I want her to know which things bug me, but the truth may be that I think I am superior to her in some way. Am I wrong for pointing out those errors in judgement to her. Or am I simply trying to prevent us from arguing and so forth over the same issues on a weekly basis?

2006-08-30 20:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by Michael H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanna see how many "naughty" people their r.

2006-08-30 20:02:12 · 11 answers · asked by Frenchie 1 in Singles & Dating

a girl who is fat or the skinny one. . .and why?

2006-08-30 20:01:57 · 13 answers · asked by 'Lil bhEb 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 20:01:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Oh my god, my new roommate/housemate is driving me off the wall. Literally. To me they are a bunch of loud, smelly, over socialized pigs. At first I can tolerated their messyness, their noisyness and their laziness, but now i just can't handle it anymore. i tried to talk to them about it, infact before they come into the house i laid out the rules but somehow their skulls is so thick that they seem to dense about it. I only have 2 more months in that house before i finished college, but I am afraid that I will make national news by being responsible of throwing all 5 roomates of the balcony of my 9th floor apartment. Yes I get angry easily, but I feel like they dont take me seriously, which just ticks me off even more. I stop looking or speaking to them now, because looking at them just makes my blood boil.

2006-08-30 20:00:42 · 12 answers · asked by budaklolo 4 in Friends

I'm not mad at him, and his little girl with the other woman is an adorable seven-year old. I even like her mother. My question is, should I try to be a mother figure to my husband's daughter, or should I stay away from that and just be a friend to her? Help me please. Thank you.

2006-08-30 20:00:37 · 35 answers · asked by Special nobody 5 in Family

Alright, so I posted another thread which received many WORTHLESS responses.

I met a guy at a party 1 month ago and we made out while drunk. He asked for my number and since then we have hung out together about 5 times or so. What we usually do is I go to his house, he cooks for me, then we watch a movie and I spend the night WITHOUT having sex. (I am a virgin and I don't really want to lose it.) Last time I accidentally ended up giving him a handjob after he made out with me aggressively.

Tonight we were on AIM, and he told me he was studying and invited me over. I said I could not spend the night because I had an early class, so he said that I should not walk home alone that late, insinuating that he wanted me to spend the night. Then I made a remark about how I hoped I was not his "booty call" and he goes" what is that? I just invited you to study with me."

Clearly though, he wanted to hold me at night.

He has called me to get an application for employment at his work, and

2006-08-30 20:00:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guess I should have clarified my last question. My wife says she thinks of nothing while getting herself off, just getting herself off. Any women think of nothing, no fantasies, no other individuals, no visuals, nothing?

2006-08-30 19:58:11 · 10 answers · asked by Lee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok this girl amanda shes like really pretty ^_^ and ive yet to find out if she's got a boyfriend but if she dosent how can i get to know her then eventually like go out with her i need help plz

2006-08-30 19:57:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well,...mine did. And everybody else called me....except her.
I feel she did this on purpose. Cause she knew it was. She bought
my sister a sweater, & a 20. We are the same age for 2 weeks.
So, this just confirms my suspicions.........Why do you think she
did that ?...

2006-08-30 19:56:43 · 24 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5 in Family

2006-08-30 19:55:55 · 16 answers · asked by Manny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships